Why do people hate their Ex?
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shit I wouldn't hate her but the guys that took advantage of the fact she was drunkxXHaytonLloyd23Xx said:
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My last Ex we broke up on a pretty much a bitter note. We've conduced that our relationship would have lasted longer if we didn't date, fool around and just stayed friends. She said that we shouldn't deal with each other anymore since it'll end up with us getting hurt or her getting pregnant. I agreed since we were basically using each other for pity sex. We fucked one last time, we wish each other well and we haven't communicated in 3 years since then. I couldn't hate her in fact I think we loved each other so much to ruin our lives for sexual gravitation would have made us hate each other.
Well the reason why i should hate her is because she would have never told me and i had to hear about it from the man whore who insisted on coming up to me and bragging about how tight she was (we we're both virgins who wanted to be each other's first's)TheDooD said:
Sometimes one's ex is somebody who has truly fucked them over.
I probably should hate my most recent ex. Instead I have no positive or negative feelings left towards her.
I probably should hate my most recent ex. Instead I have no positive or negative feelings left towards her.
Its because of the visceral pain that lead to some breakups.SilentCom said:
However, I'm different.
I'm perfectly willing to hate your 'ex' too.
That is true, although I wish I could have atleast got the police to understand that she was abusive and that I wanted to press charges, she got off scott free because she simply claimed it was self-defense. Yeah, self-defense when you have NO injuries and the guy who was "beating you" is bleeding on the rugTheGoldenMan said:
yeah this is true, usually when a relationship ends it comes to a crashing halt pretty fast and generally if it's reached past a point it's hard to turn back and mend things up.ravensheart18 said:
about 90% of my ex's I am good friends with or have mended enough that we are "friends", but there are a few, including my last girlfriend, who ended up taking a chance for the worse and it was something we highly disagreed on and seeing as we were both stubborn as hell, shit hit the fan and we've never talked since.
granted i don't HATE her, i do wish things had gone differently, it's just hard to sometimes give in when you think/know your right.
jesus, i don't know what i'd do there, i'd be just tempted to shoryuken him as i was to get fucking depressed as hell, granted that's awful you ended up hearing it from that douche.xXHaytonLloyd23Xx said:
I don't hate any of my exs ... not a single one of the total none. 
OT: Your question has been in answered in a bunch of different ways, so anything I write would be pointless.
OT: Your question has been in answered in a bunch of different ways, so anything I write would be pointless.
not to sound completley fuckin emo haha but i did get completley depressed. In fact it's the reason why im completley mentally fucked up hahagmaverick019 said:
well basically everyone either of you knew probably heard about it and it was really embarrassing to have that happen, especially behind your back AND have it be video taped, that's awful, especially when they all knew you guys were dating, fucking prick, I'm not a violent person at all but like I said if put in that situation I might have upper-cutted the shit out of him the first time I saw him.xXHaytonLloyd23Xx said:
I hate mine because she betrayed me in what I consider to the worst way possible (not cheating). I hate her for what she did to me. I hate her over zealous religiousness. I hate the very fact she lives in the same city. I hate the fact that I ever cared about her. I hate her for how she did it. I hate her family for what they made her.
Never in my entire life have I ever truly hated someone until her. I've done a lot of thinking about it to figure out why. It comes about because you put so much trust and faith into them and they throw it back in your face. Notice it is hardly ever the person who did the breaking that harbors the anger (except in the case of someone leaving an abusive other). You trust them, you love them, you would die for them and they take that and laugh at you for being weak enough to succumb to it.
That is why the hate comes. It's not rational and it's not a good thing, but it is human nature and until you've been through something like it, there is no real way to explain it.
Never in my entire life have I ever truly hated someone until her. I've done a lot of thinking about it to figure out why. It comes about because you put so much trust and faith into them and they throw it back in your face. Notice it is hardly ever the person who did the breaking that harbors the anger (except in the case of someone leaving an abusive other). You trust them, you love them, you would die for them and they take that and laugh at you for being weak enough to succumb to it.
That is why the hate comes. It's not rational and it's not a good thing, but it is human nature and until you've been through something like it, there is no real way to explain it.