Why do you dislike people?

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ShadowsofHope

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Khuzaki said:
oddly the people I'm attracted to are arrogant and argumentative >_>
What a coincidence, so am I!

I don't "hate" people, I just leave everyone around me in a default state of trust and interest until they prove to me otherwise. My primary concern is myself, although I trust society enough to contribute to it for both my sake, and making sure everyone else in society is supporting that ultimate concern through maintaining society.

Years upon years of bullying tends to make you rather cynical and apathetic towards other people's problems and bitching..
 
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I have worked retail for the last eight years. If that isn't enough reason to dislike 90% of the population, then I don't know what is anymore. Most of the people I deal with are rude, inconsiderate, abrasive or just plain mean. Retail has made me hate the general population.
 

Dusty Fred

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I dislike people according to how threatened by them I feel. Hence I dislike all chavs, because I'm convinced they all want to stab me.
 

Svenparty

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I get judged on my clothing quite a lot by Facist Chavs and assorted scum. It seems to me the majority of the world want everything exactly as it is with no progression and to boot the world is not exactly to rich in opportunity right now.
 

sageoftruth

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For me, I'd say cultural dissonance is a major factor. I grew up in the suburbs and was raised to be respectful to other people. This meant not jaywalking if a car was nearby, speaking pleasantly to strangers, not being overly loud when others were nearby, and certainly not harassing strangers just to have fun at their expense.

I live in the city now, and as a result of my upbringing, I can't help but get rattled every time someone shows no consideration for respecting others. I learned though experience that sometimes they're just so used to it that they don't realize how disrespectful it is, but that doesn't stop me from feeling that emotional sting one feels whenever he/she is insulted. Sometimes logic isn't enough to keep emotion at bay. Every time someone walks out into the middle of a busy street without watching for cars, it feels like he's simultaneously flipping off the driver and me for having my set of values.

The other important thing to remember is, with strangers, the first impression is the only impression of them you have and vice versa. You can force yourself to ignore it and move on, but it piles up quickly in the city, until you feel like the city is just a breeding ground for monsters.
 

Arsen

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I work as a cashier (a teller to the UK'ers...right?) in a major retailer in North America. These are a few of the complaints I encounter on a day to day basis. Note: I will try to not be as self-centered and without perspective as possible, but on any given day...here are some of the things I go through that cause me sheer annoyance.

1. People demand I change the price of an item because of their misunderstanding as to what the actual price was. "Ma'am, just because the item so happened to be located on ANOTHER part of the store, situated on another shelf, and wasn't "moved by us" does not mean I am changing the price for you. The price is what the price is."

[Insert an argument about how we failed to properly put the item in the right location and that it's not his or her fault that the item listed isn't what it should be, and by some choice of logic we have to now change the price to accomodate his or her confusion about the thing because they are "angry"]
Anger ensues. Sidenote: Other customers sometimes "leave items in disorderly locations". This does not constitute a failure on our part to "put the item in the right location". People have hands. They use them.

Moral of the story: People are selfish and make up self-justifications for their behavior. Trying to get me to change the price just because it wasn't where they thought it should be is the same as stealing in my opinion. It's dishonest, without humility, and abusive of the system. And no. The lack of money they make doesn't justify their actions in the slightest.

However, if they are kind, polite, merciful, and understanding towads me....it can be changed. Kindness and atttitude go a looooooooooong way with me.

2. People throw their bags at me and expect me to bag them. I get it, you want to be green and use less plastic bags. It's cool, I'm okay with it. Just...please understand that due to being near two high profile colleges, having to consistently chat, keep an eye on the computer/register, that more often than not I MAY need assistance in bagging these bags. You know...these bags you claim are saving the environment...when you could just put on the right protective gear and get the litter out of rivers and actually do something else that might actuaaallllyyyy help the environment.

Moral of the story: People are self-righteous. They also will do the easy thing to ensure they "feel better" about certain social conditions.

3. People who yell at me over their misunderstanding of our coupon policy. It's one coupon, from the manufacturer, per purchase, not per the item you've bought. Please do not yell at me because you think I am being a fool. I do apologize, but I do not care whether or not "last time you came here someone else did something different". People perform their jobs differently to varying degrees of quality and professionalism. Why yes I will get the manager...and yes, they just agreed with me.

Moral of the story: Most people assume the other person is an major idiot. I am not sure if there is a single word...alright, we'll go with " horrible assumption" here. They also think they can dictate your actions by just being the "customer". I am sorry. I do not bend that way.

That is all I have for now.
I would type more but the "Rise of Nightmares" trailer is making my laptop skip words here.
 

GigaHz

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I don't dislike a single person I have met (physically at least).

Every single person has an underlying goodness to them, and I have managed to find it in even the most dickish of people. It's all about the approach and getting on the same wavelength.

I'm sure plenty of people dislike me though. Their problem.