Well, I actually do love anime, but there are certainly some trends in it that I find aggravating. Particularly, the way that anime often treats women (there are exceptions, but I'm talking about the medium as a whole) is often immature. The whole fan service thing, the fact that anime women regularly have breasts so large that any real person would have broken their back carrying them around, the various stereotypical roles that anime women so regularly play. Don't get me wrong, these things don't absolutely ruin anime, but they do make me ashamed to admit that I'm a fan to people whose opinions I don't know on the matter. I can defend anime, intellectually speaking, from a lot of the criticisms that are raised at it, but with that one the only defense that can be raised is "well, there are some exceptions!"