Why is there less women into mainstream video games?

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LiberalSquirrel

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Product Placement said:
LiberalSquirrel said:
Girl With One Eye said:
Honestly I actually find it harder finding men who play games. I would actually love to have a boyfriend who shared this interest with me.
This. Wholeheartedly.


How are the two of you having difficulties finding guys who play games, when guy gamers are complaining about the exact opposite thing? Are girl players playing in a parallel universe where there are no guy gamers?

Because that would explain allot, actually.
Y'know, I'm going with your explanation.

Seriously, though, I've never understood why guy gamers all complain about not being able to find ladies who play games. I think a lot of it's that guys just assume a girl doesn't play games... one friend was shocked when he came over to my apartment and found my four consoles chilling under my TV. He said that he knew I had mentioned gaming once or twice before, but he thought I meant stuff like Farmville and Angry Birds. (I was less than amused. He was minorly forgiven because he wasn't a gamer, but still.)
 

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Doesn't seem that sad to me. I tried both a maleshep and femshep, and ended up going through the trilogy with a femshep, but it's understandable that in a roleplaying game, it's easier to play the role of a character who is similar to you (in this case in gender terms)
I dunno, I played a MaleShep in Mass Effect and a male Dragonborn in Skyrim. Because if you're going to spend 95% of a game looking at a character's butt as they run along, might as well make it an appealing butt. And all the people I know who played as FemShep are guys.
Well, it's not exactly a fantasy MMORPG; that butt's going to be covered with a lot of space armor. But in any case, my original point was that there are many reasons for the disproportionate number of people who chose maleshep over femshep; sexism doesn't have to be the explanation.
 

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Studies show that women prefer GTA over any sports game in existence.
So they do have taste.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Erm...Do I really want to get into this thread -.- sigh.

Pretty much all I do is game and I have female online friends who do the same... so I don't really 'get' the OP sorry.

I don't have a boyfriend despite all that gaming :p but that might be because I'm a bit of a ***** or ugly or something.
 

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Another point I forgot to add is ''announcing'' your self as a girl/woman rarely gets good result. I was playing some Brotherhood multiplayer once, so this girl joins the lobby, she has a mic, but doesn't go ''hurr durr look at me I am a girl11!11'', she simply used it for actual in-game purposes.

What does she get?
Tons and tons of kitchen jokes, sexist insults. Don't you think such attitude might drive those who may actually have interest in gaming away?
THIS. I'm practically afraid to use the mic when I play tf2 or something because it's guaranteed that there'll be some joker who decides to completely stop all game related strategy discussion (not that there's much in pubs anyway, but anywho~) to tell me to go make him a sammich and get back to the kitchen. I just don't get it.
I get that even when I don't use a mic. And I only let people know my gender after I've slaughtered them (had a few funny incidents in Haloso, y'know. Part of it is just usual trash talk.
 

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Product Placement said:
LiberalSquirrel said:
Girl With One Eye said:
Honestly I actually find it harder finding men who play games. I would actually love to have a boyfriend who shared this interest with me.
This. Wholeheartedly.
How are the two of you having difficulties finding guys who play games, when guy gamers are complaining about the exact opposite thing? Are girl players playing in a parallel universe where there are no guy gamers?

Because that would explain allot, actually.
I can think of a few reasons off the top of my head:

1) Gaming is a hobby you do at home, so you can't notice if someone is a gamer in passing. You also have people who hide their powerlevel.
2) People have different definitions of gamer, since most of the time they mean a gamer with similar taste. Statistically 40% of gamers are women, they just love casual games so they don't count. Most men I talk to who love games are all bro-gamers, it's rare to find a "hardcore" gamer.
3) There's also the stereotypical landwhales/neckbeards which get ignored if you looking for someone attractive.

OT: It just doesn't appeal to some people. Women aren't a separate race that all think the same, they're individuals so there is no one reason. If you want to try to figure it out some reasons I think talking to those people would give you better answers than a forum full of people who love games.
 

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PirateRose said:
Woah, the first few posts of this thread is like walking into the 90's.
I know, right?

I can't believe you guys are having this discussion. Maybe you need to visit other forums, too.
 

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Product Placement said:
LiberalSquirrel said:
Girl With One Eye said:
Honestly I actually find it harder finding men who play games. I would actually love to have a boyfriend who shared this interest with me.
This. Wholeheartedly.
How are the two of you having difficulties finding guys who play games, when guy gamers are complaining about the exact opposite thing? Are girl players playing in a parallel universe where there are no guy gamers?
This is purely my experience, but outside of those stereotypical gamers who only socialize with each other, my social circles (whether it be neighbourhood, school, work, etc) have usually only had 1 or 2 "serious" gamers out of every 10 people (I don't think the serious/hardcore/casual distinction is very useful in general, but I'm going with it here). So whether you're male or female (and whether you're looking to date a male or female), chances are that the people you're socializing with aren't going to be part of that particular subculture (again, with the exception of those people who do their main socializing in gaming circles).

They're out there, it's just harder to meet them. I actually think it's probably better to have a partner with other interests, but hey.
 

LiberalSquirrel

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Product Placement said:
LiberalSquirrel said:
four consoles chilling under my TV
Curious enough to ask... Which four consoles? I wanna know how retro you can go.
360, PS2, Xbox, and Gamecube. My N64 and SNES are, alas, elsewhere. But then again, six consoles would be a bit embarrassing.
 

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I'm sure lot's of women in my life (sister's mainly) would ask me why I don't like watching television. They're always downloading Arrow, Game of Thrones, Grim and what have you, but the prospect of sitting there doing nothing strikes me as a real waste of time. Sure I'll watch a series on my second monitor at work, but I have to be occupying myself with something.
 

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Girl With One Eye said:
Honestly I actually find it harder finding men who play games. I would actually love to have a boyfriend who shared this interest with me.
No love for those that make the games? :(
 

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I've never really had a problem knowing women into gaming. Even with growing up several of my friends were into video games. As we grew up some people got more interested in it where it wasn't as appealing for others.

Even now there's alot of people (male and female) I know that were once hardcore gamers that have fallen into a corner of gaming they're comfortable with such as League of Legends or WoW. I still have a circle of friends that go from game to game (often latest multiplayer or an MMO as a filler) and there's a few chicks in that group. No one kicks up a fuss though because we know each other well enough to not care what each others genders are.
 

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Yuuki said:
What a fascinating video, I watched the whole thing. I haven't done much research on the topic so thanks for sharing that! The Norweigan scientists I felt gave the weaker arguments in the video but at the same time I can't help but lean on their side. Not that I think biology doesn't play a role at all or anything, but that I feel the biological side simply predisposes you to certain behaviors as your default reactions but that from then on it's all societal/cultural, and that this is why the norwegian scientists were saying that biology doesn't play a role at all.

This video got me thinking that maybe things are actually a lot like games like Skyrim. Like at the beginning when you create a new character, different races have different starting stats. But those stats change depending on your experiences as you play. So like maybe you make a character with a lot of points in combat and few points in magic and obviously they'd be much better with weapons and have a preference for them. But suppose somehow you never used weapons and always used magic instead. In that case most of the points you gain would mostly be in magic and eventually the character would probably start preferring magic abilities (even when given the option to use weapons). I'm thinking maybe that's how a lot of this biological vs social stuff actually works (seems legit to me anyways lol :p)


Yuuki said:
As for my personal opinion, I think I will need to see a LOT more evidence before I believe that a 9-month-old baby can already associate with masculine/feminine toys. Repeat the test with like...2000 babies or something, 1000 boys and 1000 girls (shush parents, it's not cruel and it's in the name of science!).
I mean if it's really true, then what you're suggesting about forcing a girl to grow-up with lego/toy guns/etc may completely fail and the first time she lays eyes on a pink barbie (if you let her) she'll desperately want it.
Yes, it's an experiment...for science.
-GLaDOS


Haha lol but that's actually a very good point. I do feel the experiment wasn't perfect since it's entirely possible that even by the age of 9 months that the babies could already be ?tainted? by the parents. By that I mean the parents already letting them play with boy/girl toys or raising them in rooms of certain colors, and they've already learned to recognize them. Like, if the baby girl is raised in a room that is painted pink, I expect she'd most likely have a preference for pink toys and that sort of thing.

The thing that I was suggesting about forcing the girl to grow up with lego/toy guns/etc, I thought about it more and I'm now thinking of a slightly different version that would maybe potentially work better (as far as getting them more interested in engineering/programming type jobs later in life goes).
My new though is that, instead of boy toys in general, lego and construction type toys specifically. Like they could even have girl themes or pink colors or whatever, but the point would be that they're toys where you build stuff and have to figure out how it all fits together.
Playing with toys like that at an early age encourages the kind of thinking you have to do when you have a job as an engineer/programmer. So most likely that type of thinking would come more naturally or maybe be more enjoyable/exciting later in life, so maybe something like that would work better? Sort of like how people who play tetris a lot are generally better at packing stuff, like boxes in moving vans and stuff.

Anyways yea again, just thinking aloud and rambling a bit
(btw it's a bit late my time right now and I'm really tired so if parts of my post are weird I apologize in advance lol)
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
Erm...Do I really want to get into this thread -.- sigh.

Pretty much all I do is game and I have female online friends who do the same... so I don't really 'get' the OP sorry.

I don't have a boyfriend despite all that gaming :p but that might be because I'm a bit of a ***** or ugly or something.
It's funny how people think that playing games is a get-a-boyfriend-free card. It's really not.

Not to mention, guys IRL just assume ladies don't play. I don't think anyone's ever asked me if I like games unless I've already indicated that I do.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Phasmal said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Erm...Do I really want to get into this thread -.- sigh.

Pretty much all I do is game and I have female online friends who do the same... so I don't really 'get' the OP sorry.

I don't have a boyfriend despite all that gaming :p but that might be because I'm a bit of a ***** or ugly or something.
It's funny how people think that playing games is a get-a-boyfriend-free card. It's really not.

Not to mention, guys IRL just assume ladies don't play. I don't think anyone's ever asked me if I like games unless I've already indicated that I do.
yeah I know right xD

frankly I think it's because I'm really sick atm and I really can't do much.:p

But gaming ain't a free pass to a relationship neither is being a girl for that matter. I've had guys accuse me of not being a gamer just because I don't feel like playing the exact game they want to play multiplayer in that exact minute.