To be fair all of the above except smoking would end up in hospital because they are doing it wrong... That is still their fault (mostly).Private Custard said:So, by that reasoning, you'll hate the following people for taking up precious hospital beds.
smokers
motorcyclists
extreme sports people
overweight people (or anyone that eats fast food with a high fat content)
anyone that sunbathes (skin cancer is mostly self inflicted too)
alchoholics (or binge drinkers that have stupid accidents)
The list could go on and on. The number of people that willingly expose themselves to health threatening activities/lifestyles on a daily basis is huge.
You can't have many friends!
It would just make more sense to charge a patient who ended up in hospital because the patient chose to do something reckless or hazardous to their health. It is kind of fair to say that a patient lying in hospital with self inflicted lung cancer has less 'right' to be treated for free than a person who needed treatment for something like a hereditary heart condition...
I think Ultrajoe hit it on the head early by suggesting that you just consider yourself immune to criticism when it comes to your choice to smoke in public. I appreciate that when politely asked not to smoke you will oblige. But you honestly have no defence against the crowd around you who might think less of you for smoking, regardless of whether or not it affects them.Aerodyamic said:The implied tone of all three comments is that of patronization.
And in the thread I pulled those quotes from, there was a post detailing several beneficial side effects of cigarette smoke, one of which was a reduction in breast cancer rates in women with a specific cancer-linked gene.
I don't mind people objecting to my habit, and in fact, if someone approaches me and politely requests that I consider some health concern or comfort issue, I'll be courteous, and accede to their SPECIFIC issues. However, when people complain about second-hand smoke in an outdoor situation, I just roll my eyes, and point at any cars driving by.
To me, watching someone smoke is the equivilent of watching someone using a calculator to subtract time off of their own life-span for no apparent reason. When someone has smoked and then approaches me, it's like they have purposefully rubbed shit on themselves for no apparent reason either. Until you accept this is pretty much what you are doing to yourself and that you are happy with the criticism you face, I will think less of you... Not because I consider myself to be morally superior, but because you smell like shit and clearly want to.