I'm gonna take a great personal risk by being totally honest: Overwhelmingly, I prefer fanservicey and ecchi stuff over hentai because the former doesn't make me die a little inside as I watch it. The first time I saw a rape scene in a hentai, I damn near cried like a baby. And there is so much goddamn rape in hentai!! There is something seriously wrong with hentai and how ubiquitous rape is. It's repulsive how hard you have to look to find hentai where the characters have sex for fun, and I just gave up because it's too damn depressing to look and I don't like where I have to take myself mentally in order to wade through the sewer just to find the occasional gem.
As for pornography with flesh and blood women... it's not very satisfying because I don't know who these women are and what they do tends to come off as lazy. Personally, I find the swimsuit issue of Sports Illustrated far more stimulating because I see aesthetic sensibilities which is in sharp contrast to outright porn where a woman will stick her crotch in front of the camera and practically yell, "Look at my stuff, LOOK AT IT!"
This in part plays into why I prefer anime that tries to give us characters and has a little fanservice for shameless titillation. It's just more fun when you're getting to see something which a character would rather have guarded than just getting an anatomy lesson. Admittedly, I've found plenty of fanservicey anime to be very terrible with no redeeming qualities. Case in point, I hate anime like Freezing and Eiken with a passion. I especially hate Eiken as it is the most soulless and condescending thing I have seen passed off as a romantic comedy.
As for pornography with flesh and blood women... it's not very satisfying because I don't know who these women are and what they do tends to come off as lazy. Personally, I find the swimsuit issue of Sports Illustrated far more stimulating because I see aesthetic sensibilities which is in sharp contrast to outright porn where a woman will stick her crotch in front of the camera and practically yell, "Look at my stuff, LOOK AT IT!"
This in part plays into why I prefer anime that tries to give us characters and has a little fanservice for shameless titillation. It's just more fun when you're getting to see something which a character would rather have guarded than just getting an anatomy lesson. Admittedly, I've found plenty of fanservicey anime to be very terrible with no redeeming qualities. Case in point, I hate anime like Freezing and Eiken with a passion. I especially hate Eiken as it is the most soulless and condescending thing I have seen passed off as a romantic comedy.