-The original policy was anti-consumer. Abhorrently so. I should not need to explain why, just look at any other post in any one of these threads. Also, stop comparing to Steam - Valve do not hold a monopoly on the platform and go to great pains to maintain a good reputation with their customer base. Also, Steam's DRM policies are vaguely anti-consumer too (albeit much less so), the difference being Valve do a better job of making up for it.
-Your conclusion for the second point is invalidated by the initial assertion being false - more people view the Kinect 2 as a negative than a positive, therefore "most" people do not see it as a selling point. Primarily because it's hardwired into the console and drives the price up (by a whopping 25% I think? Either way, US$100 is non-trivial dent to have in one's wallet). Furthermore, some people are the paranoid type and don't want machines (especially ones that require/encourage constant/near-constant internet connection) reading their emotions or listening to their words (or counting the number of people in the room so additional license costs for movies can be added in the future). The K2 has potential, it could be great, but make it an optional extra peripheral and then we'll talk.
-Modding on a console! Woo. It's almost as if I have another platform for that, one with a great UI that gives me complete freedom over mods. It's nice, I suppose, and it's better than Sony's offering (or lack thereof) in this department, but suffice it to say I prefer manual installation over, for example, Steam workshop.
-Yay for clouds. Few people are clear on what "The Cloud" is, plus every bugger and his mother has some form of "cloud" at this point, therefore it's not a selling point. Its scale, and how it compares to the competition, matters little unless one of them is prohibitively small.
-Well, since you yourself raised the issue - obsessive support of Xbone, no avatar, only 41 posts (37 of which are in pro-Xbone, console wars or MS-related threads), only 3 badges (all of which are zero-effort, and 2 of which were generated entirely by other peoples' actions). Also, a cursory glance at OP's post history reveals at least 2 distinct styles of writing (one that uses contractions like "you" -> "u", and another that is fully literate) that could be indicative of multiple authors. I'll let people draw whatever conclusion they will from that.
Bear in mind that some of the policies proposed by the Xbone are not terrible right now, and some of the resistance stems from those who possess basic forward-thinking abilities and don't like the precedents being set. The arrogance projected by MS over the past year has also harmed their cause immensely (see "deal with it", "we have an offline console", etc) and generally gets peoples' backs up. At risk of sounding glib, "pride cometh before a fall".
While I think the XBone needs to die horribly as a lesson to the world not to dump on their customers (not that I think that will happen - people on the whole are idiots who won't research properly before even large purchases), it's time to let it stand on its own feet. Let people vote with their wallets now.
These threads are counter-productive. By trying (in vain) to persuade everyone that the XBone is not a steaming pile of crap, you're only reopening wounds and hardening their resolve. Wait, you don't work for Sony do you?