Wife beating is now legal in the UAE.

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AndyFromMonday

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deadman91 said:
I will however make mention that from a political, legal and cultural point of view children are indeed within their own particular area and as such are subject to a different set of rights to the adult (and even adolescent) population.
I disagree. Children should not be subjected to violence just because they're just that, children.


deadman91 said:
Ultimately it is a matter of personal opinion whether you feel violence is an acceptable disciplinary tool.
Actually, it's not. Violence is abuse, no matter what. You can't use a little violence and say you were disciplining the child. If beating your child is accepted as a disciplining tool then why isn't cutting him accepted as well? The cuts would be small, they would heal fast and would get the point across. No different than spanking.

deadman91 said:
Have there been no screaming 8-12 year olds on Xbox live or PSN or whatever you play on whose parents you wished gave them a good hiding more often?
Of course I did. However, I acted on anger. Humans tend to be irrational when they're angry.
 

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archvile93 said:
Wow, that's just depressing. I'd say it makes be disrespect Islam, but it really wouldn't surprise me if the other major religions allowed this kind of thing too.
Actually, for centuries after Mouhammad himself ruled, Islamic cultures were some of the most foreward thinking societies in the world, with one of the highest literacy rates of women, women business owners, women politicians, etc. They're the ones that preserved most of the Greek and Roman knowledge, and without them, we wouldn't have soap these days. >.>
Islam, as a culture, was very respectable by our standards, until the Sauds and other backwards, extremist versions of the religion came into power in the region. Its like if the Klan took over the Vatican, or something.
 

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Wait, I live in Lebanon, and that's really close by! OH SHIIIIIII- oh wait, this country is half-christian too.

Anyways, I may not be Muslim, by a know people who are, and they told me this is way out of context. The ruling is actually that a man is allowed to discipline family members, as long as he doesn't physically harm them.
 

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Why do I keep responding to these discussions is beyond me. Oh well, off we go...

Imperator_DK said:
No, lets all rejoice in the obvious and universal superiority of human rights, the rule of international law and minimum standards, and the civil rights and (initial) worth of each individual human, women and children included.
Which is the western interpretation of ethics, history and society (or in short: western culture) at hand. How exactly is western culture, and all these things spring from the Enlightenment, which is western, better in an absolute sense? And no, 'because it is' or 'because it is our culture' is not a valid response.

What is at work here is the Orientalist's fallacy. Which isn't bad per se, I'm no moralist/relativist myself, but it should be something people should be aware of before they prance off and judge other cultures.

Imperator_DK said:
All I'm seeing is people finding it bloody unethical to beat up your wife however skillful you might be at it, and whatever petty religion or culture you might push in front of you as justification. And I see no wrong in that.
Because you think it so, does not make it so.

Imperator_DK said:
Cultural relativism can only go so far. And are you even sure that this ruling is of the people living there, or is it some government appointed religious judge oppressing them?
[/quote]No. Cultural relativism can not go 'only so far'. It is real. Of course, its practical applications are limited if it is pushed to its logical extreme, but that doesn't make it any less 'true'. As for irrelevant sidequestions: How do you know for certain that your morals are not 'planted' by oligarchic hypercapitalists masquerading as egalitarian democrats?

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In this case, they fall short of either. Why should we not judge - and act - upon even our subjective views on their culture, when clearly that is the (likewise subjective) standard they have set for how humans - innocent ones even - can be treated in their culture (i.e. a tit-for-tat tactic)? And even more pressing (and less strict), why should we not judge and act upon the objectivized human rights standard???
So, if I understand you correctly, your reasoning is thus:

'Our subjective view of reality is better than theirs, because it is ours and we say so.'

Everything else you mentioned in support of why our morals are better is inherently biased simply because it has evolved from Enlightenment principles and 19th century Europe/America.

Of course, and to conclude, since I've lost all desire to continue this desire topic or to respond to those other comments made:

Of course it's sad that such a law is passed. One can judge it like this, as long as it is a) done with consideration and knowledge of the relative reality of cultures and b) not as a self-congratulatory backslap and re-affirmation of our own western superiority.

One would imagine that "we" have grown more humble in regards to the latter, if we take a look at the 20th century.
 

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archvile93 said:
Wow, that's just depressing. I'd say it makes be disrespect Islam, but it really wouldn't surprise me if the other major religions allowed this kind of thing too.
Well Mormons are sexist asswhipes so im pretty sure they allow beatings of the opposite sex for discipline.
Do you have a source for this, or did you just feel like making a blanket statement and then making a guess about something?
 

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Shows how smart they are, seriously I have never heard of a beating that didn't leave a mark. Even a light slapping would leave something for a day or two. Heck I find bruises on me that I never felt how they happened.
you must have a CON score lower than 6.
 

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SteelStallion said:
Well, I lived in the UAE and other Islamic societies all my life, so I'm just going to throw this out there before everyone goes "amagad that's not how they do it in ameriker, savages!"

It's just the way it goes down there. Don't picture some guy with 3 wives who beats them every day or something, it only happens with a few "traditional" people and in order to keep up with the islamic laws that they follow and respect, they have to compromise while adjusting it to some degree so that it's acceptable in today's society.

Hence "as long as no marks are left". It basically means you can't hit harder than a soft slap or a spank or something, something I'm sure happens all over the world anyway.
Recently, in Canada it is illegal to spank your chilren actually. It's considered child abuse.
 
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Just became legal? Read up on Sharia Family Laws. This has been made legal to loose interpretations of Islam by Allah himself since the beginning of time. Welcome to the party UAE. Get your free brass knuckles at the door.
 

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'Our subjective view of reality is better than theirs, because it is ours and we say so.'
The correct version would be: "Our subjective view of reality is better because it's based on empirical principles of promoting the well-being of all members of society."

Cultural relativism is perfectly valid, but the conclusions that we draw from it are not exclusively "all cultures are equal in all regards". To claim so would be massively naive. There is not a single person on Earth who believes this is a good law, except for Muslim men, so far behind the rest of the world in terms of development that we can effectively point at the society they've built and go "look, that's how we used to behave in the Dark Ages."
 

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freedomweasel said:
Kenko said:
archvile93 said:
Wow, that's just depressing. I'd say it makes be disrespect Islam, but it really wouldn't surprise me if the other major religions allowed this kind of thing too.
Well Mormons are sexist asswhipes so im pretty sure they allow beatings of the opposite sex for discipline.
Do you have a source for this, or did you just feel like making a blanket statement and then making a guess about something?
Shedding the light of truth on this corner of the internet: Mormons very definitely believe in gender roles, so you could make a strong argument that they are sexist. They do not, however, condone beatings of the opposite sex, except perhaps the Fundamentalist LDS Church, who I know less about (they're relatively clandestine) and who, like everyone else who labels themselves as fundamentalist, are crazy.
 

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Spinozaad said:
Why do I keep responding to these discussions is beyond me. Oh well, off we go...

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Which is the western interpretation of ethics, history and society (or in short: western culture) at hand. How exactly is western culture, and all these things spring from the Enlightenment, which is western, better in an absolute sense? And no, 'because it is' or 'because it is our culture' is not a valid response.

What is at work here is the Orientalist's fallacy. Which isn't bad per se, I'm no moralist/relativist myself, but it should be something people should be aware of before they prance off and judge other cultures.
No, it is the UN creed signed by nations of all cultures across the world. Including the UAE if I'm not mistaken. And my own subjective chosen standards for ethical evaluation, every bit the equal to theirs.

Because you think it so, does not make it so.
Nor does it invalidate the point. I can argue it - and what consequences violations of it should have - with equal strength to the Islamic view on wife-beating and what consequences it should not have.

As for the UN legal aspects, I will be "more" in the right is the jurisprudence of it is sound. As for the ethical aspect, I will be right in my judgement as long as it is logically consistent. As will they in theirs. External observes can then choose parts of whichever one - if any - they will make their own. And act and condemn upon.

No. Cultural relativism can not go 'only so far'. It is real. Of course, its practical applications are limited if it is pushed to its logical extreme, but that doesn't make it any less 'true'. As for irrelevant sidequestions: How do you know for certain that your morals are not 'planted' by oligarchic hypercapitalists masquerading as egalitarian democrats?
I guess we'll have to disagree on that one. I find the UN declaration of universal human rights to form a limit to what can be permitted.

As for my morals, I choose them for myself, just like any Muslim did. No planting possible there. I did not choose what norms are enforced though, and could thus be normatively "oppressed" in that respect.

So, if I understand you correctly, your reasoning is thus:

'Our subjective view of reality is better than theirs, because it is ours and we say so.'

Everything else you mentioned in support of why our morals are better is inherently biased simply because it has evolved from Enlightenment principles and 19th century Europe/America.
No my reasoning is that "our" culture (whatever that might be; "The west" is hardly a unified entity) is equal to theirs, and that we thus have every bit as much right to use when judging - and treating - any individual or country as the Islamic nations have to use theirs. As they violently discriminate gay people based in their culture, so we could with equal "right" (or wrong) violently discriminate them based in ours; unless of course one takes objectivized laws and human rights standards into account, in which case we can only criticize, condemn, and legally sanction them for violating the objectivized (or what you claim to be western subjective) legal standards of the UN. And condemn, criticize and within the full limits of the law act with hostility towards them for violating "our" norms on the civil rights of women (for starters).

Furthermore, I personally do not believe that anyone deserve more respect or better treatment than they're willing to extend to innocent (by my subjective evaluation) others. Thus I personally judge them by my chosen standards, again with every bit as much right as they judge those minorities by their chosen standards; both standards are equal in their subjectivity, so long as they are logically consistent.

It's thus a normative free for all, with no one able to claim absolutist ethical superiority (except perhaps the UN). And I'm of course not going to hold back on arguing my views, in the hope that others will - subjectively - agree with (parts of) them and choose them for their own in this swamp of subjectivity.

The(se) Abrahamics can of course do the same. Though I doubt they'll have much luck around here.

Of course, and to conclude, since I've lost all desire to continue this desire topic or to respond to those other comments made:

Of course it's sad that such a law is passed. One can judge it like this, as long as it is a) done with consideration and knowledge of the relative reality of cultures and b) not as a self-congratulatory backslap and re-affirmation of our own western superiority.

One would imagine that "we" have grown more humble in regards to the latter, if we take a look at the 20th century.
Indeed, with prudent knowledge of facts, judgement can be passed, and from our own subjectively chosen norms no less. Understanding merely factors into what tactics to choose to fight the (to almost all non-Muslims, and even some who call themselves Muslim) harmful aspects of their choice. I understand that their culture is different, and for the most part completely and utterly accept it. Whenever aspects of it fall beneath the declaration of human rights I will argue for legal punishment though (detached from all ethical evaluation), and whenever they fall beneath the standards I have chosen to follow I will - using arguments whose validity is resting on my own world view, other non-Islamic world views, or even their own Islamic one should the opportunity arise - criticise and condemn them, in the hope that others will come to feel the same way about the ethicy of their actions; the point of all that can be classified as an "argument".

Again, we must disagree that at least legal human rights must humble themselves before anything. Or that one should not argue one's chosen views with gusto.
 

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It's a sad interpretation of that passage, unfortunately.

Only upside is, they just implicitly said that wife-beating that causes injury is a legal offense. Might be a minor thing, but it's a step.
How else can it be interpreted?
As unimportant. As unideal, in the face of better conflict resolution methods. As a cultural artifact that should no longer apply (as is starting to be the case with the "women inherit half of what men do;" it made sense at the time, but rarely any more). Some scholars insist that the word is mistranslated, and it actually refers to enforced separation (which undoubtedly could lead to either divorce or counseling). Women might not be necessarily required to put up with physical admonishment, and threaten either divorce or legal proceedings. You could point out that Muhammad probably didn't feel he could change something that deep-seated at the time, so he limited its extent and pointed out that a wife-beater was still an asshole ("Many women have turned to my family complaining about their husbands. Verily, these men are not among the best of you.")...and that current cultural opinion (and more importantly, legal opinion) turning against domestic violence is in no way contradictory to the spirit.

The key, of course, is getting some of those things recognized. Feminism has a long ways to go, still.
 

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If you want to beat someone without leaving marks then use a phonebook, thank you al pacino, btw you shouldn´t beat people, just so you know.
 

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By 'don't leave a mark' do they mean 'don't leave a mark...where we can see it'?
I'm not too surprised, there's always some shock story like this flying around. Isn't there a law in Afghan where a man can starve his wife if she denies him sex? I remember everyone being shocked by that a while back.
 

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Now thats just stupid... how is she gonan make sandwhiches with broken arms and swollen eyes?
 

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Maldeus said:
freedomweasel said:
Kenko said:
archvile93 said:
Wow, that's just depressing. I'd say it makes be disrespect Islam, but it really wouldn't surprise me if the other major religions allowed this kind of thing too.
Well Mormons are sexist asswhipes so im pretty sure they allow beatings of the opposite sex for discipline.
Do you have a source for this, or did you just feel like making a blanket statement and then making a guess about something?
Shedding the light of truth on this corner of the internet: Mormons very definitely believe in gender roles, so you could make a strong argument that they are sexist. They do not, however, condone beatings of the opposite sex, except perhaps the Fundamentalist LDS Church, who I know less about (they're relatively clandestine) and who, like everyone else who labels themselves as fundamentalist, are crazy.
Thank you for the Truth Light, you should get a trademark on that sucker.

I get annoyed when someone says a group is made of "sexist asswhipes [sic]" and follows that with "I'm pretty sure" they do something bad.
 

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Hmmm...

2010... so thats the... er... 21st centuary...
Right so... the oppression of women... that was prominent up until when?
uk suffragette movement was ... er... late 1800's so that was... 19th centuary.

That would mean, the UK an infidel nation of the demon west... stopped oppressing women 200yrs ago give or take a decade... Islam, a self proclaimed superior nation... Just introduced another law to oppress women. This would mean they are, culturally still behind the 17th centuary english in their thinking...

Pray tell, who said women are an inferior gender? Smaller and sometimes weaker in their physical stature yes, ever seen a man carry a baby for 9 months then push it out his body?
It would be the loudest screaming death by agony known to the species.
I as a man openly admit there is no way in hell I could even consider having a thing in my body which regulates vomiting and stomach cramps to a daily event.

Still, all these countries are dirt farming third world nations who only have an income because of their oil reserves and once they run dry their tourism is going to be what keeps them going... only Al-Qaeda among other Islamic extremists have made it pretty obvious they dont want whitey to be safe in the west, so why would I go to the middle east to get blown up and killed when I can do it in the safety of my brick built house with central heating, electricity and running water?

Sorry UAE / Dubai / desert nations of Islam but Im happier here in the infidel demon west with the above mention - Electricity, running water and freedom to have my hair cut anyway I want.

For reference to that last comment look up the "6 approved hair cuts" law from Saudi ^_^
Thats right! The saudi government has allowed 6 haircuts for the natives to carry on their heads, all others are a criminal offence!

Thats oppression with Pizazz!