Will our generation break the cycle?

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Ernstige Jan

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It's scary to think what would happen when we do break the cycle, it'll be a world we've never seen before.

Interesting discussion by the way, lots of stuff to think about.
 

TheTygerfire

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The Maddest March Hare said:
I've already started ranting about how the younger generations are getting worse and worse, and I'm only 18.

I know a 12 year old who has been involved in some pretty..adult..stuff. And she isn't the only one like that.

My friend also had a 6 year old call him a "F---ing Gay".

Not only does society slowly get worse, it's starting younger too.
Again, PARENTING. No one wants to take responsibility over another life anymore, so they let them find things out for themselves. Cussing is different than my point, kids should never cuss.
 

Zukonub

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The things people experience while they grow up are very comfortable to them, and anything new that is contradictory to that comfort is seen as EVIL.
 

Agent Larkin

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I blame the parents for the behaviour of little scumbags teenagers/kids these days. If you bring up your kid properly this stuff wouldn't happen. I have always found that the trick with parenting is to be tough but fair.
 

Darkrain11

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What everyoune needs to realize is that society is not becoming worse, we are just more aware of all the crap that was their in the first place. We have come a long way from watching people kill each other in areanas and pitting animals of endangered species against each other for our amusement only to eat the winner. But I'm getting off topic. Older people become set in their ways because it is what they are used to and things that differentiate from those ways often confuse and sometimes frighten them and when they see that "thing" affecting the youths of the generation and making them into something that they were not they often call it a corrupting influence. Hopefully societies' older people become more open-minded like they were in their youth and stop all this nonsense about videogames making kids into murders and metal music making their kids go crazy.
 

CompanionCube

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Most likely we will yell and protest against the thought-mind virtual world in the future. Depressing, isn't it?
 

CouchCommando

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True a valid point but I guess you just have to be a parent to see where they are coming from, "steering them clear" is easier said than done, and with the proliferation of communications, and media into the home and the increasing destruction of the family unit, well the futures not looking all that rosy for children. Dunno if I was a hick or what , but I used to go searching for tadpoles, fishing, read a few comics and pop down to the corner store for game of wonder boy. I see children running around with...... argh im my parents!!!
 

ArmoredSandwich

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It becomes more and more likely that some generation will "break" the cycle since new media (or technology or trend or anything that needs "breaking") is being "invented" or used exponentially faster than the previous.

So I guess, at one point there will be a generation that would be unable to understand (and perhaps interacts, guide) anything of a new generation which should logically result in acceptance (or something exactly the opposite).
 

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Therumancer said:
Well, speaking for myself I think that one of the problems is the constant evolution of humanity. You look at guys like Johnny Weismueller who was a swimming champion that played Tarzan in some of the old movies. He was an incredible athlete in his day, but nowadays his records are something of a joke. People (despite all of the talk about obesity, laziness, and other things) become stronger and more capable with each generation.

The thing is that this is also a factor with intelligence, and the thing is that kids tend to be inherantly smarter than their parent's generation, combined with attitudes about the capabilities of children that are mired back in the 1930s where kids as old as 12 are expected to be entertained by mindless toys. A youth from that time period probably couldn't get his head around a lot of current video games (even older adults have problems) which current kids are able to figure out fairly easily.
Actually, I think they could. It's a well known fact that there are various learning processes and cognitive developments that are easy while the brain is in certain stages of development (read: childhood) that get progressively more difficult as one gets older. Language is an obvious example - children that are taught to from an early age can pretty easily learn two, even three languages, whereas it'd be much more difficult for the same person to do the same thing as an adult.

The point being, kids today easily pick up and grasp complex forms of entertainment like video games that their parents or grandparents have difficulty fathoming because they're kids, growing up around that sort of thing. Their brains haven't "hardened", so to speak. Besides, what you've described is a generalization, anyway - there are plenty of parents, even grandparents, who are able to pick up video games, even if they're less likely to be able to.

There isn't any evidence that children are fundamentally more intelligent or clever than they were x amount of decades ago - none that I've seen, anyway. They're just being exposed to different things at earlier ages. The difference between athletes also likely has a simpler explanation: athletes of today have access to better training methods, equipment, diet, etc than they used to.

Therumancer said:
Today you have children getting involved in crime very early with the full knowlege of what they are doing, outgrowing toys VERY quickly, and seeking intellectual stimulation of a sort that utterly terrifies the older generation who using themselves as a comparison figure that what they are seeing must not be possible.
"intellectual stimulation of a sort that utterly terrifies the older generation"? What kids are you watching, pray tell?

Therumancer said:
Please not that this intelligence does not come with maturity, but when you consider that you have young children who have allegedly found, loaded, and successfully employed firearms to do things like shoot babysitters, you need to really stop and look at the capabilities.
None of that is difficult or requiring of any great amount of intelligence. Finding a gun is easy if you've seen Daddy put it away. Loading and firing it are also easy, if you've seen him do it a couple times, or seen it elsewhere.

Therumancer said:
The generational issues are obvious when you say look at the "Heavy Metal" crowd for example. To some people there is a big differance between some creepy lyrics and album cover art and say an interactive experience where you have demons and such actually running around. Not saying that it's "right" but you can see how games take things to a higher level than the similar entertainment before hand, just as heavy metal took the conventions of things like "Tales From The Crypt" and took them even further to an extent.

Really the problem with never stop until society adjusts to the increasing capabilities of children. When child rearing is grounded in the same practices that have been around since the 1800s when you get down to it, you begin to see some of the problems.

Truthfully I have no idea how to solve the problem. Honestly given the intelligence, but lack of maturity held by kids a parent can't really just be their friend or let them do whatever they want. Shows like "The Gilmore Girls" show what I actually consider to be a very unhealthy mother/daughter relationship (despite women raving about it) that is not truely workable outside of fantasy, yet a lot of people want their parenting to be like that. Children, especially teens, need their parents to be authority figures not just close friends.
You're exaggerating and seeing great, fundamental changes where there are none, but you do have a point, in a way. The parenting doctrines of the 1950s probably aren't going to work today - not because children have somehow evolved superior intelligence over the past two or three generations, but because they're being raised in different environments that expose them to different things.
 

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I doubt we'll break the cycle of scapegoating as a whole. It's been going on for as long as history has been. I think it'll continue for as long as we do. People like to think that they're not to blame. Something will come along years down the line that we'll blame for destroying society... it just will.
 

ckam

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Hey, Anarchy is not a bad thing! And no, we will never break this scapegoating cycle. It's in human nature. A trap if you please; just like capitalism, rebellions, murder, pillaging, and other atrocities are. It's a trap that nobody and definitely not an entire race can get out of.
 

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quack35 said:
IntoxicatedKnight said:
The Maddest March Hare said:
I've already started ranting about how the younger generations are getting worse and worse, and I'm only 18.

I know a 12 year old who has been involved in some pretty..adult..stuff. And she isn't the only one like that.

My friend also had a 6 year old call him a "F---ing Gay".

Not only does society slowly get worse, it's starting younger too.
I'm with you on this. Society is changing for the worse.
And this proves the OP's point.
The border line between mature and immature has become not a line, but a freakin wall.
 

Lukirre

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To be honest, I have to sympethize with parents these days when it comes to sexuality.
Good job Baby Boomers, what with your sexual revolution and all.
Don't get me wrong, nothing against female sexual liberation.
I just hate how the human body has become a walking sex object to so many people.
Like the people who freak out when they see breasts or a penis in art (omg).
Or when the term "vagina" or "penis" is used in a classroom setting (OMG).

People just need something to blame it on is all.
So they point to whatever thing most people of the generation have in common.

They either take their parenting too far, or they don't bother with it at all.
With the internet you obviously cannot stop children from accessing what you don't want them to.
But at the same time, you can't smother them.
So what do you do?

There may be a lot of shit parents out right now, and yes, the newest generation seems to have a gigantic entitlement problem.

But what are parents to do these days?
It's a rather touchy subject.

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OT answer: Seeing as we're being raised by people who seem to be in on this "cycle" I'm calling it as a no.
 

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stinkychops said:
I don't know wether I think this is a good thing, on the one hand there'd be less sassy 6 year olds if there were more people like you. On the other hand you just punched a six year old...
It is the best thing.
The BEST.

And the six year old'll be fine.
"I mean, you can throw 'em down the stairs and they'll be fine."
(Uber points for reference.)
 

OneBig Man

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I think it is the fact that kids are stupid. I myself still being a teenager see stupid people all the time.
 

sallene

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Mike Judge already thought of the worst possible outcome of our future.





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