Women in Dreams

[Silvanus]

Some dreams can reflect subconscious desires/ hangups/ issues, and other dreams don't reflect anything other than a brain going walkabout. The thing to remember is that even those in the former category don't necessarily have any implications for your health and mental balance. This is the subconscious, where weirdness roams free for most people.

 

[Leg End]

I'd say a cigar might ju-

For the other dream, as Freud would say, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar

Dammit.

But, yeah. You're a young, heterosexual(?) male. I'd be shocked if you didn't have these dreams.

 

[happyninja42]

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That was embarrassing to type out.

Nah, seems like basic sexual fantasy fulfillment to me. Like I said, your brain will come up with some lame ass reason to hook you up with the fantasy partner for the evening, and it doesn't really worry too much about political correctness or narrative consistency. Though I would possibly theorize that you watch a lot of anime/manga/hentai? Considering the images you showed were very anime-esque, that might've colored your dreams. I've watched my share of anime and hentai, and they have some very un-PC justifications for how people end up boinking each other. The "you are obligated to pleasure this person as a servant" theme is alive and well in that form of entertainment, and they almost always are insanely into it. They live to please your Onichan. *said in kawaii voice* So yeah, if you watch a lot of that, it's probably bleeding over into your dreams.

As to feeling embarrassed about it, don't worry about it.

I once had a dream where I ran into an old highschool buddy of mine, and he was a transgender woman. In the dream, this was totally reasonable to me, and we had a very lively and enthusiastic sexual encounter. When I woke up I remember thinking 2 things.

1. Huh, that's odd, I was never really close friends with that guy, and I haven't thought of him in 20 years. I mean we never really hung out, I knew him, and we had friends in common, but he wasn't like one of my bros. He was just a guy I knew and reasonably thought was cool.

2. Why did I think he was transgender? He never came across as confused about his gender identity, and he never displayed any traits or mannerisms that would imply a hidden desire to be a woman. So as best as I can tell, my brain just decided to assign him a feminine gender identity for the purposes of my sex fantasy.

So don't feel embarrassed about your dreams, we've all got strange things that go on in our heads.

 

[Cycloptomese]

As a child I suffered tremendous night terrors which would have severe physical effects on me. These, I speculate with some good reasoning, were caused by the living conditions of my youth (I spent a fair amount of time living in poverty stricken areas where violence was bad.) Over time, I learned to cope with the night terrors through training myself to recognize the impossibility of things happening in my dreams and thus enter a lucid dreaming state. I have never had a night terror or nightmare since, because I gain almost immediate and full control over my dream state when confronted with impossible/terrifying situations. These lucid states allow me to enjoy a wide variety of questionable activities. They are mere fantasy, without consequence and quite fun. There's nothing inherently wrong with any fantasy no matter how deplorable the acts would be considered in real life.

This happens to me every once in awhile. It's the greatest thing ever! I can fly and have sex with anyone that I want!

 

[1981]

When I've had dreams with recurring themes, they've always mirrored something in my life. Maybe I just had random dreams and interpreted them a certain way. It doesn't matter. What matters is that I used them to help make sense of difficult situations. So is it something you're concerned about? Only you can answer that.

They couldn't have been told apart from a "normal" woman, except that they were incredibly attractive and they were really into their boyfriends/husbands.

As opposed to "normal" women who are ugly and not at all into their boyfriends/husbands?

Thanks for that. Can't remember the last time I laughed this hard.

 

[Fieldy409_v1legacy]

I think it just means you are lonely and kinda wish getting a girlfriend was easier than it is in real life.

Unfortunatly in real life you cant just get given someone to love and you have to go through all this dating bullshit. So maybe its time to get yourself on a dating website or something? This is coming from the place of me being a guy who isnt great with women either who is trying to get better so please dont think of this as condescending.

Also Gawddamn you must be a boobs man if ever I seen one!

 

[FPLOON]

Dream don't mean anything unless you make them into meaning anything... With that said, why are some of the people in my dreams[footnote]Androgyny be damned![/footnote] trying to sleep with me in the dashing hope I would "date them" in the end?

Spoiler: I mean...

http://t1.livememe.com/z4vwbt_4.jpg

Other than that, at least dreaming in general can remind you that you are, in fact, human...

 

[jademunky]

Wow um, all I can say is that you all seem to have far more entertaining dreams than I do.

No OP, these dreams do not make you a weirdo. You should be happy your subconcious is so imaginative. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to bed where I am cetainly NOT going to have that 'sales presentation with no pants' dream again.

 

[The Almighty Aardvark]

You know, I think you just make these threads to post pictures of scantily clad anime women.

Admit it!

As for the dreams, I sure hope that weird sexual dreams doesn't imply that there's something wrong with you. If they do, I've had sexual dreams that were 10x as fucked up as yours are, and I don't want to have to think about what says about me.

 

[Risingblade]

Only if they use it to make fanfiction.

 

[Ihateregistering1]

So you've had a dream in which super hot women are slavishly devoted to you, and you're wondering if it's weird?

If you're a (straight) guy and you've never had a dream like that, I'd be way more shocked.

 

[Hagi]

Eh, I'd just be happy. They sound like pretty cool dreams to have.

All my dreams are just me falling, eventually crashing through my own roof and landing in my bed just as I wake up. Not sure what that says about me.

 

[freaper]

Last night I dreamed that the house over the road was getting re-roofed. I feel so mundane.

Was it a slow and sensual re-roofing?

 

[lolcatize]

Dreams the more you read into them the more nuts you get. Atleast you get the pleasant one's, i just get nuked in mine and even shoot myself in the face with a golden m1 garand.

 

[Paragon Fury]

When I've had dreams with recurring themes, they've always mirrored something in my life. Maybe I just had random dreams and interpreted them a certain way. It doesn't matter. What matters is that I used them to help make sense of difficult situations. So is it something you're concerned about? Only you can answer that.

They couldn't have been told apart from a "normal" woman, except that they were incredibly attractive and they were really into their boyfriends/husbands.

As opposed to "normal" women who are ugly and not at all into their boyfriends/husbands?

Thanks for that. Can't remember the last time I laughed this hard.

That may have been misinterpreted, but I meant normal in that they're rather just plain and not as...devoted is maybe the word I want to use here?...to their SO. Not that they're ugly or hate their SO or anything like that.

You know, I think you just make these threads to post pictures of scantily clad anime women.

Admit it!

As for the dreams, I sure hope that weird sexual dreams doesn't imply that there's something wrong with you. If they do, I've had sexual dreams that were 10x as fucked up as yours are, and I don't want to have to think about what says about me.

NEVEEAAAAR!

Also, I didn't intend to for this thread, but people asked for deets and I gave them.

I think it just means you are lonely and kinda wish getting a girlfriend was easier than it is in real life.

Unfortunatly in real life you cant just get given someone to love and you have to go through all this dating bullshit. So maybe its time to get yourself on a dating website or something? This is coming from the place of me being a guy who isnt great with women either who is trying to get better so please dont think of this as condescending.

Also Gawddamn you must be a boobs man if ever I seen one!

I have just always loved boobies. I mean hell, my last three phone backgrounds were:

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They're just...great. And it didn't help that there was nothing to dissuade me from liking them or thinking big ones were the norm because all the women around when I was growing up who were adults had well, big ones. And then to make it even worse, the first girl I saw while I was in high school (a junior) that was outside my family literally looked like the real life version of this;

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So my brain was like "HA! See, they are real!". It took quite some time at college before I got used to seeing women who supposedly adults but didn't have breasts, or large breasts.

So you've had a dream in which super hot women are slavishly devoted to you, and you're wondering if it's weird?

If you're a (straight) guy and you've never had a dream like that, I'd be way more shocked.

Its the frequency and the fact that they're virtually the only kind I have of women that gets a little worrisome at times.

 

[Ihateregistering1]

And then to make it even worse, the first girl I saw while I was in high school (a junior) that was outside my family literally looked like the real life version of this;

Hold the phone: you had never even seen a woman who wasn't a family member until you were a junior in high school?

 

[Paragon Fury]

And then to make it even worse, the first girl I saw while I was in high school (a junior) that was outside my family literally looked like the real life version of this;

Hold the phone: you had never even seen a woman who wasn't a family member until you were a junior in high school?

Other than the news lady or the old lady staff at the school, nope.

The only girls were my Mom/Grandmothers, my cousin (same age as me, didn't see that often), my next door neighbor's mother and those staff at school. Went to an all boys middle and high school, lived out in the sticks (as far as you could in New York anyway) and didn't really get to go anywhere.

So it was literally My age (too young to be relevant) > Older Adults (whom all had big breasts. And that is terrible information I forever have to live with due to doing my own laundry for school uniforms and having to take out my parent's laundry from the dryer to put mine in) > Old People.

The whole Teenager/Young Adult/Early 20's thing didn't really exist for me until I was about a Junior in High School, and then when I went to college.

So...yeah? I guess thats accurate. I thought I'd be over this with the Escapist at least once before...

 

[Ragsnstitches]

Man I wish I could regularly dream about boobs. But my stupid anxiety means I frequently have really fucking weird nightmares.

I'd take a nice pair of mammaries over being chased by spiderman wielding a chainsaw. Though knowing my dreams, they'll likely have some abject horror quality to them.