Worst thing your "friend" has done to you.

[Susan Arendt]

You know what I find fascinating? Of all the "my friend tried to shag my girl" (or did shag) complaints, no-one has complained about the GIRL at all, just the friend. She's just as much to blame, man.

It depends on what they mean by "tried to."

Well, if the friend tries and the girl shoots him down, she's awesome and blameless. If, however, she goes along for the ride, not so much.

 

[nathan-dts]

Wow, the worst my friends have done to me is a few joke insults.

 

[Tullio]

You know what I find fascinating? Of all the "my friend tried to shag my girl" (or did shag) complaints, no-one has complained about the GIRL at all, just the friend. She's just as much to blame, man.

I was thinking that. She's a traitor as well

 

[RapidCrash]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

 

[Bat Vader]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

So, because she thought you did not want to date her she does not want to be your friend anymore? I don't understand people sometimes. If she wanted to date you she should of said something.

 

[RapidCrash]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

So, because she thought you did not want to date her she does not want to be your friend anymore? I don't understand people sometimes. If she wanted to date you she should of said something.

No. She doesn't want a relationship either way. The whole not-being-a-friend-anymore was the result of some twisted conclusion that she made when she decided that she would rather not be best friends in fear that it might again become "too much like a relationship" again.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Not a great deal to be honest. They forced me into asking out my GF, I don't know if I should hate them or thank them.

 

[MalloryHartevelt]

This thread is why I stay as emotionally distant from everyone as possible.

awwww smart thing, i like u xx

 

[Bat Vader]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

So, because she thought you did not want to date her she does not want to be your friend anymore? I don't understand people sometimes. If she wanted to date you she should of said something.

No. She doesn't want a relationship either way. The whole not-being-a-friend-anymore was the result of some twisted conclusion that she made when she decided that she would rather not be best friends in fear that it might again become "too much like a relationship" again.

I see, I guess she was not a true friend. I say forget about her, then again I am a cold hearted person.

 

[Schneebly]

I had a friend who was a bit of a hothead. He probably had some kind of anger management problem because if one thing went wrong, he would get really upset about it regardless of how minuscule the problem is. Example: One day, three of my other friends, Bob(not his real name), and myself went to my house where we decided to play Rock Band which was bought only two days ago. I played guitar, Bob played bass, and the other three switched off between drums and singing. I did well since I played Guitar Hero a few times but Bob...struggled. He missed a few notes and got a little angry, surprisingly he managed to calm down so we keep playing. Bob tries to get overdrive but misses the last note. The last thing I remember was him yelling and seeing out of the corner of my eye, a plastic guitar coming towards my head. I wake up to a cut on my forehead, a small amount of blood on the carpet and three destroyed "instruments" on the floor.(The mic was still working because he couldn't cut the cord.) Bob is fighting with my other three friends, I found out later that he broke one of their arms. I got up, dizzy and lightheaded and he pushed me into my wall, causing me to put a crack in it. Now, I'm a little angry and not so dizzy anymore so I get up grab this book I had(Mysteries of the Unexplained) and I hit him with it over and over again. He's on the floor and I give him a few good punches in the face for what he did to my friends, my property, and myself. After the police arrived and he was arrested for simple battery, I haven't seen him since.

Oh my god, when u started with saying he was 'a bit of a hothead' I had no idea the story would pan out like that. That is messed up!

 

[RapidCrash]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

So, because she thought you did not want to date her she does not want to be your friend anymore? I don't understand people sometimes. If she wanted to date you she should of said something.

No. She doesn't want a relationship either way. The whole not-being-a-friend-anymore was the result of some twisted conclusion that she made when she decided that she would rather not be best friends in fear that it might again become "too much like a relationship" again.

I see, I guess she was not a true friend. I say forget about her, then again I am a cold hearted person.

Those were my thoughts, but that's still a difficult thing to do. I really did place our friendship in such a high value, and I really did like her as a friend.

 

[Blitzkrieg8]

my friend won't get the the fuck away from me.

 

[sms_117b]

I'm very lucky, as I read this thread my friends have done nothing anywhere near as bad. Only thing I can think of was a friend lied about the weight on a bench press, he said 75Kg (165lbs), was closer to 90Kg (198lbs), almost broke some ribs on that one! I was very lucky he was spotting me.

However, if anyone's interested, this friend and I were involved in a wrestling/webcast storyline about the end of a friendship...

 

[Bat Vader]

Mine doesn't really extend so far as issues into a relationship. My best friend (who is female) for over a year were like the best friends in the world, we hang out all the time and we talk about everything, all the good stuff. She decided one day (by pretty much random) to essentially stop acknowledging my existence over the course of like a month. She didn't know why she did that and neither did I but we decided it wasn't worth dabbling in the past about it so we moved on and became best friends again. Well like 2 months have passed again since then and like 2 weeks ago she pretty much started the same routine, and here I am trying to figure out wtf is going on. Whether intentional or not, it really is a back-stab on the friendship that we achieved.

Maybe you should just do the same to her, see how she likes not being acknowledged.

Not saying I would of either way, but as of 6 hours ago, we're officially not friends anymore. There was a point in our friendship in which it was borderline relationship. Then I wanted to back off just a small bit, but she took it as something around "this is really awkward because i don't want a relationship anyways", so therefore gave me the silent treatment for a while, and now just not friends. It really does suck, but live and learn.

So, because she thought you did not want to date her she does not want to be your friend anymore? I don't understand people sometimes. If she wanted to date you she should of said something.

No. She doesn't want a relationship either way. The whole not-being-a-friend-anymore was the result of some twisted conclusion that she made when she decided that she would rather not be best friends in fear that it might again become "too much like a relationship" again.

I see, I guess she was not a true friend. I say forget about her, then again I am a cold hearted person.

Those were my thoughts, but that's still a difficult thing to do. I really did place our friendship in such a high value, and I really did like her as a friend.

Ever since a close friend betrayed me back in elementary school I have started to distrust all people. People who think they are my friends are actually no more than an acquaintance to me.

 

[Audemas]

I had a friend who was a bit of a hothead. He probably had some kind of anger management problem because if one thing went wrong, he would get really upset about it regardless of how minuscule the problem is. Example: One day, three of my other friends, Bob(not his real name), and myself went to my house where we decided to play Rock Band which was bought only two days ago. I played guitar, Bob played bass, and the other three switched off between drums and singing. I did well since I played Guitar Hero a few times but Bob...struggled. He missed a few notes and got a little angry, surprisingly he managed to calm down so we keep playing. Bob tries to get overdrive but misses the last note. The last thing I remember was him yelling and seeing out of the corner of my eye, a plastic guitar coming towards my head. I wake up to a cut on my forehead, a small amount of blood on the carpet and three destroyed "instruments" on the floor.(The mic was still working because he couldn't cut the cord.) Bob is fighting with my other three friends, I found out later that he broke one of their arms. I got up, dizzy and lightheaded and he pushed me into my wall, causing me to put a crack in it. Now, I'm a little angry and not so dizzy anymore so I get up grab this book I had(Mysteries of the Unexplained) and I hit him with it over and over again. He's on the floor and I give him a few good punches in the face for what he did to my friends, my property, and myself. After the police arrived and he was arrested for simple battery, I haven't seen him since.

Oh my god, when u started with saying he was 'a bit of a hothead' I had no idea the story would pan out like that. That is messed up!

Yeah, no one ever does see that happening. It's great to see the reaction on their faces when you finish telling it with a smile.