I try not to hit anyone. I even learned Aiki-Jutustu with the intent of being able to use it (If I had to) to control someone, rather than violently attacking them.
That being said, I have this weird paradoxical approach. I roughhouse with girls a lot, but I was raised with a "never EVER hit girls" mentality, and it's hard to dislodge that, even in self defense. But since I don't like striking people in general (At my size, even a love tap can hurt someone), I'm not sure I want to, either.
But I will, of course, still roughouse. And women still love using me as a jungle gym, even if for nothing else.
...Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go cry. I'm suddenly depressed for some reason.
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