funguy2121 said:
Well stated. One thing I would add is the objectification of bi women. As a result they're completely trivialized in the eyes of most everybody.
Also - "the college thing." Now there's a joke for you. "It was a college thing." Really? Either you did it for your boyfriend because you have absolutely no sense of yourself or you did it because you were ATTRACTED to another person of the same sex.
Discuss.
Is a man not entitled to love who he likes?
'No!' says the man in Gay Bar, 'You must love only men.'
'No!' says the man in the Church, 'You must love only women.'
'No!' says the man in Government, 'You must love no one.'
I rejected those answers; instead, I chose something different. I chose the impossible. I chose... Bisexuality!
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Seriously though, society is fucked by the path that gay activism chose, not true sexual openness but sexual "equivalence". They couldn't sell the idea that people could love either gender, but that their sexuality was inverted... it seemed to be the only way they could make people understand.
Bisexuals who say "it was just in college" are merely simplifying things, it should be no reason to doubt their love for their wife or husband. There is the insidious and horrible stereotype that bisexuality somehow "dilutes" sexual intimacy, as in how can you truly love your female wife if you are sexually attracted to both males and females.
Logically it shouldn't make any fucking difference but people don't think logically.
It's pretty clear that there are millions of people who would be very open and flexible about their sex lives for either gender but choose one sexuality just for simplicity, either gay of straight, people can't comprehend anything but 100% preference for one gender.
The WORST insult is the label "Closet homosexual" for those who have active and open heterosexual relations with women yet hidden/private homosexual interest.
The insinuation is devastating, not that their homosexuality is hidden, no. That all their sexual intimacy with the opposite gender is a charade, a deluded fantasy, lying not only to their partner but them self. That is HORRIBLE to label someone with, that destroys families, that leads to suicide over nothing but prejudice and ignorance.
Say a married man (to a woman) had an affair with a woman at work. There are chances the marriage could recover if they realise it was a weakness not in love but lust. But if he visited a gay-bar and went home with a guy? I can guaran-fucking-tee the woman on finding out would think he NEVER loved her, that he really loves men. Hell if a wife found her husband looking at gay porn, that would be enough.