Azure23 said:
Wait wait wait waaaaait. Do you mean the same Sally Miller Gearheart who's famously quoted as saying "love is the universal truth at the center of creation?" The famous gay rights activist? Because I've really enjoyed what literature I've read from her. If you've got examples of hate speech from her I've gotta say I'm kinda devastated, I thought she was better than that.
Not sure I'd call it "hate speech" and also not sure if it's reflective of her current views but in the 80s she wrote an essay called "The Future - if there is one - is Female" which included the gem "The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race." I applaud her for her gay rights activism but that's some pretty bizarre stuff right there. Was it satire? I'd like evidence that it wasn't sincere just because many of the other things she's said are highly agreeable.
It's quite odd actually. You'll find civil rights activists saying some crazy feminist things despite their excellent work campaigning for the rights of blacks. Gay rights activists that propose insane misandrist/misogynist/heterophobic solutions to certain things, feminists that are homophobic (recently there have been a few examples of feminists complaining that gay rights activists "don't care about women enough" and claim that there is more misogyny within the LGBT community than with straight people, all without reliable statistics of course). Not to mention the absolutely appalling transphobia found in some feminist circles.
Shrug. Everyone's got different views though. I like plenty of musicians despite their abhorrent political views. I'm still able to enjoy Earthworm Jim despite it being designed by a bigot.
Personally though, I don't think it's quite fair to say that feminist scholars such as Robin Morgan, who spearheaded second wave feminism, really characterize modern feminism. She certainly made contributions, I won't argue with that, but she was infamously trans phobic and that doesn't exactly mesh well with third wave feminism, as literally the most important aspect of third wave feminism is intersectionality.
Hmm, it seems to me as if feminism has these "waves" so they can jettison the previous one once they realise it's become too problematic. What I'd personally like to see is more of an effort to categorise feminists. The reason I personally distance myself from the label is because of the transphobia, misanthropy and misandry. Now if people made more of an effort to make these opinions distinct (I believe transphobic feminists are called Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminists or TERFs) I'd be more willing to call myself a feminist (if I had to make up a feminist label for myself it'd be a post-gender feminist).
But feminism as it's portrayed in the media is presented as this homogeneous mass. People that want to lessen the effect of gender double-standards are lumped in with women that want to hurt men or out transwomen for "not being genuine women". It's like when Muslims that practice their religion peacefully are grouped with Muslims that behead apostates. Treating them both the same both demonises peaceful Muslims and allows the violent ones to hide behind their more tolerant counterparts.
Anyway I'd love to have a good discussion about this (I sincerely hope you can't produce the goods on Sally Gearheart, though considering second wave feminism, I'm entirely sure she's got some very problematic views I haven't run into yet.)
"The Future - if there is one - is Female" is the essay I took issue with. Maybe I'm taking it out of context but as you said, second wave feminists don't shy away from really bizarre views.
So yeah, I consider myself a third wave feminist, one who focuses on educating myself on the oppression that people who weren't born a white, straight, male experience.
That's a type of feminism I can completely sympathise with! I don't want to come off as an "anti-feminist" (a feminist critic or skeptic, maybe, but I'm not opposed to feminism). I just think self-reflection and explicit disownment of toxicity will do the movement a lot of good.