Yet another bloody relationship thread . . .

[Motti]

Well, my girlfriend's broken up with me. Yeah, you can probably turn back now and ignore this.
Anyways, the reason she broke up with me is that she claimed she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. She implied that eventually she'd want a relationship with me, but only when she was ready.
Now naturally I'm feeling pretty cut by all this and my question to the escapist is thus: if it turns out she's ready, should I take her back?

 

[Pimppeter2]

I thought you murdered someone......


Now I'm Dissapointed

 

[drizztmainsword]

I cannot answer this question for you.

If you want her back, then yes. If you don't, then no.

 

[ae86gamer]

If your boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't that mean you're in a relationship??

EDIT: If you want then take her back. If you don't.. then don't.

 

[Motti]

If your boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't that mean you're in a relationship??

She broke up with me, that's the whole point.

 

[chronobreak]

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161#2209647

This is the all purpose relationship thread of The Escapist. I do believe you can also PM the user "Bonsaik" with any questions you may have.

 

[Necrofudge]

Nah, a relationship isn't decided by only the one person. She can't just dump you then expect you to come crawling back whenever it suits her.

 

[lostclause]

I really think this thread can't be advertised enough.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=14

For relationship advice in future please post there.

Edit: Damn ninjas.

Anyway, I don't see any reason why not. Just don't assume that either you or here will still wanting to get back together when she is ready.

 

[ae86gamer]

If your boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't that mean you're in a relationship??

She broke up with me, that's the whole point.

She said she wasn't ready for a relationship.... and yet she was already in one with you? That makes no sense. >_>

 

[Motti]

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161#2209647

This is the all purpose relationship thread of The Escapist. I do believe you can also PM the user "Bonsaik" with any questions you may have.

Duly noted. I'll just let this thread sink into oblivion then.

 

[Julianking93]

I cannot answer this question for you.

If you want her back, then yes. If you don't, then no.

This /thread

 

[zen5887]

Dude, you're only young. Its not worth worrying about it to much.

My girlfriend broke up with me a few months back and I felt like shite until I realised "I'm only 18, its all good" and I felt better.

 

[undeadfly]

People will say they cannot answer this for you and that you should do your own thing.
But I was in the exact same situation 3 years ago. My fiance broke off the engagement and broke up with me cause she wasnt ready for a relationship.
Long story short I got back with her after a few months.

Date other people, cause that is what she is doing. Party with other people, cause that is what she is doing. Dont sit on your ass waiting for her to come crawling back. Cause she might never do so and that would leave you up shit creek.

 

[Serge A. Storms]

I gotta agree with everyone saying "fuck some other women and see how this turns out."