You Don't Exist if You're Not on a Social Network

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Arizona Kyle

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funguy2121 said:
chuckey said:
I guess my question is, don't they get bored with this insipid past time after a while? Whether you're playing a video game or obsessing over how others respond to your looks, at one point you surely must get bored and want to do something else.
It has too i dont know how you could do something like that over and over again without going crazy... its sad that those girls find enjoyment like that...
 

Arizona Kyle

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I guess my question is, don't they get bored with this insipid past time after a while? Whether you're playing a video game or obsessing over how others respond to your looks, at one point you surely must get bored and want to do something else.
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It has too i dont know how you could do something like that over and over again without going crazy... its sad that those girls find enjoyment like that...

Popadoo said:
I'm 15, don't have Facebook or any other profile on a social networking site, and I'm pretty sure I exist. I mean, I LOOK like I exist...
Whatever, some girls think Queen stole songs from Justin Beiber, I've long ago given up on teenage girls.
ha ha link me a article or a pic or something i really really want to see this xD
 

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Arizona Kyle said:
ha ha link me a article or a pic or something i really really want to see this xD
http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpwqw7OljQ1qd6ebco1_500.jpg

I don't even... what.
 

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Pandalink said:
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I found an even better social Network, it's called "The Outside World"! It's amazing, I can just open up dialog with anyone by walking up and talking to them! I don't even have to add them to a friend's list! I just somehow "Consider them a friend" after I've had enough positive interactions with them! It's amazing!
How does one "walk up to and talk to" someone who lives a 40 minute bus journey away?

If I wanted to organise a group of ~10 people to go out one night, would I be expected to physically go to all of their apartment buildings, and then either wait to follow someone in or call them to open the door, and do this for perhaps 4-5 different apartment buildings (one of which, as I mentioned, was 40 minutes away by bus)?

Like I said in my post, Facebook is a tool to assist in the facilitation of face-to-face meetups with groups of people. That sounds like it would suit you very well, if I'm honest, since you seem like a rather social guy.

funguy2121 said:
Pandalink said:
While most of the people in that article are clearly rather silly, I find it difficult to disagree with the first quote. If you aren't on Facebook, at all, then you quite simply aren't going to have a life. Or at least, you're making it extremely difficult for yourself for no good reason. It simply isn't possible to do things without Facebook, and if you (upon being asked for your Facebook) reply that you do not have a profile, that's an instant question mark in the head of the asker regarding what you have to hide and what is wrong with you enough that you wouldn't have a Facebook.

I can't think of a single person without a Facebook profile. If I met someone who did not, I'd question whether they had something quite wrong with them socially.

I'm 19, by the way, so not in school anymore. If anything my post has become more true since I left school.
Clue me in, please. Do you ask someone out on a date via Facebook? Do you make plans exclusively via facebook, or apply for a job on Facebook? How exactly is it vital to living a life?
I should clarify that by "life" I meant social life. I should have made that clearer in my post.
In reply to your points: No, I would not ask someone out on Facebook (unless they were happy for me to do so, in which case, why not) because that is a single person (as oppoosed to a group of people) and a single person is easy to contact through other means.
Yes, plans are basically made exclusively through Facebook. Unless we're all on campus and decide to go the pub right there and then, that's basically how it turns out. Even evening plans we do make in advance can be checked and clarified through our Facebook group chat.
No, you wouldn't apply for a job through Facebook, clearly. Like I said, I should have made it clearer that I meant social life.

Don't get me wrong, Facebook is no replacement for face-to-face. It is a tool to organise events, and share content that is best viewed online in a browser (such as video links, or indeed escapist articles).

Why do I feel like you're the only person on this thread with a life that's under the age of 30?


Granted, there are other ways to do things (mass texts are useful and I often make plans with 1-3 other people then ask others if they wanna come through), but the vast majority of the time FB is the most convenient way.
 

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I guess I don't exist. I'm 27, and not only do I not have a face-book page or whatever, I also don't have a cell phone, i-pad, blackberry, etc. I'm sure this shocks some of you.
High five, really. I have a very primitive cell phone [no land line here] it *gasp* doesn't even take pictures and everyone knows not to text me because I don't do that either.
I've done the social network thing, but I started on Yafro, which was a largely unmonitored photo-sharing site.
I've stayed with those kinds of sites because they allow me to post and sell my artwork. The one I'm on now has less then 50 members [we just moved to a new host last month] but it has live links and that helps the Google ranking for my Etsy page- http://www.etsy.com/shop/PatchworkLaboratory
I think the worth of social networks depends on why you use them. Mine helps me make money while I look for a new job. It also keeps me in contact with several good friends I've known for years.
But I loathe Facebook, I have managed to avoid it entirely. The privacy issues alone were enough to make me disregard it.
The thing I hate is the idea that you need to have a 'positive online presence' in case a potential employer Googles you. I'm not making a page with my real name and a bunch of fake friends just so I can maybe get a job. That's unreasonable. My time would be better spent making things to sell. And I value my privacy too much to plaster my face everywhere. I've made sure that Googling my real name doesn't turn up a single valid hit, and that's the way I like it.
 

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Popadoo said:
Arizona Kyle said:
ha ha link me a article or a pic or something i really really want to see this xD
http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpwqw7OljQ1qd6ebco1_500.jpg

I don't even... what.
I dont want to live on this planet anymore -goes away-
 

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The only reason I have facebook is because I didn't an easy way to talk to each other at once about how to do a group assessment, I still have because it gives me auto sign in for the escapist.
 

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I can agree with this statement. Social networks are a waste of fucking time.
Personally, I find it handy as a way to talk to a lot of my friends who I met through my sister.
Most of them are in college in Richmond, so I really can't talk to them a lot of the time, seeing as I'm fifteen. It's neat to see what they're doing, and one of them makes interesting posts about her guinea pigs.

I'm not saying it's the best thing in the world, but it's alright for what I need it for.
 

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Teeheehee. Well, when all those little Facebook drones fail miserably at their education and then go on to update their profile pages from their cozy refridgerator box down the alley (anything else being out of their price range, seeing how noone will hire them), I'll take a moment to reflect on my lack of existence as I earn money and build a stable life for myself.
Added bonus: As a teacher I get to confiscate the little tykes' smartphones if they keep typing away during class.
It's nice to see teachers care about their students.
 

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So if I'm not on facebook, I don't exist?

WOOT! Flying under the radar, FTW!

Honestly, it doesn't bother me. People will be people.
 

Ironic Pirate

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I'm finding a lot of the "facebook is for sheeple, unlike me, the anti-social badass" posts hilarious. There seems to be very few people that understand that Facebook is a communication tool, and like any tool can and will be over-used and used poorly.

It's not like people ever talk on the phone for three hours, or spend hours gossiping in person, pointless inane bullshit never occurs in real life. Nope, Facebook actively and intentionally makes people dumb.
 

Robert Ewing

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Erm, well I use facebook a lot. But I don't use it THAT much. I don't find that it replaces my life at all. If I wasn't on facebook, i'd be doing something else tech related.
 

Sangreal Gothcraft

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Who takes these girls seriously? They are not even fucking 16 years old, the things that comes out of there mouth is pure rubbish, and maggots infested shit..
 

Beryl77

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Eh, who cares? There is always a trend, they'll eventually grow out of that and that trend will also stop, just like any other "bad" trend.
I'm not much older than those myself and I also use facebook but I've never really met girls like these. The ones I know use facebook as well but not so extreme This is just a particular group which acts like that, there are far more girls who don't behave like that. I guess I know which kind of girl behave like this.
Anyway, it's nothing to worry about, it will stop at some point.
 

Sonicron

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Ironic Pirate said:
Sonicron said:
Teeheehee. Well, when all those little Facebook drones fail miserably at their education and then go on to update their profile pages from their cozy refridgerator box down the alley (anything else being out of their price range, seeing how noone will hire them), I'll take a moment to reflect on my lack of existence as I earn money and build a stable life for myself.
Added bonus: As a teacher I get to confiscate the little tykes' smartphones if they keep typing away during class.
It's nice to see teachers care about their students.
Isn't it? :p
I do stand by my point - cellphones are not to be used during class, after all. However, mean as I can appear, I actually do care about the youngins. Heck, I'm still at least two years away from my job, and I'm already developing plans and teaching strategies. Can't wait, I tell you. :)