I wish that were the majority opinion of gamergaters, but I am afraid it is not, due to how I and others have been treated when trying to have a discussion about it. It has been made overwhelmingly clear to me, as a female hardcore gamer that I should not have a voice in the games I play or the community because I am not their " target demographic" and should be excluded from the discussion.Slayer4472 said:Hey, you too. It's always good to engage with those you disagree with =)Jux said:I think I understand what you're trying to say, but I feel that someone condemning someone for their sexuality, which for most people isn't a choice (I'll stop short of saying all simply because I've seen people claim they choose to be gay), something they have no control over, versus condemning people (though not to eternal damnation) on the perceived attitude of toxic behavior, which as far as I can tell is always a choice, is apples and oranges.Slayer4472 said:It's not meant to be an equivocation so much as a pointing out of similarity. In these two scenarios, I see two people (Alexander/ Macarthur) attacking me based on my identifying adjectives. It's not the same level on wrongness, but it is still a betrayal.
Now, I just got home, and it's almost 5 am, so I'll be going to bed. Have a good one.
Well, let me be the first:Lil devils x said:I took it to be directed at those harassing as well considering how large a problem this is in gaming. I would only feel that was directed at me if I were guilty of participating in it. I am not seeing gamergate spokepersons and supporters coming out agreeing that women and girls need to have more input in gaming, in fact I am overwhelmingly seeing the opposite happen. It is hard to separate the promoting of sexism against women in gaming when they are actively repeatedly promoting exactly that.Jux said:I personally understood it to refer to a particular subset of gamers, but if you don't see the distinction, then there's nothing more I can really say on the subject other than we interpret that very differently.Slayer4472 said:The use of the adjective Gamer, in all honesty. If Leigh Alexander had said "harassers need to fuck off" then I'd have gone about my day. But she described me as a "obtuse shitslinger" and a "wailing hyperconsumer", and I don't particularly appreciate that.
I'm not quite sure going on a tirade against what one perceives to be toxic gamers (imo a subset, in you opinion the whole) is comparable to the condemnation homosexuality, the latter of which I find unequivocally abhorrent.Speaking as someone who has to deal with shit like this:
http://www.gty.org/resources/Articles/A170/Gods-Plan-for-the-Gay-Agenda
I don't want my... well, I don't like the term 'safe space'... my area of equality and meritocracy to be invaded by nutters.
I believe that ALL adjectives should have an equally important voice, whether it be men/women, straight/gay, white/black/asian/latin, etc. I believe that is the majority view in GamerGae, as most of us are liberals.
That being said, I do feel that the "Gamers Are DEad" articles were aimed at me, and I am angry about it.
My opinion of the "gamers are dead" nonsense is if they didn't want to promote leigh, they would have ignored it and moved on, instead they made her famous over it. Every time someone brings it up they are helping her. Getting any response positive or negative for a no name journalist is exactly what they need to succeed. By letting it make you angry, by starting gamergate over it, you are ensuring her success. No one knew her before but you guys made her a " buzz word" and everyone from tabloids to shock news sites will be scrambling to pay her more to write for them. By letting her make you angry, you let her get what she wanted is how I see it.