I tend to win more arguments offline.
Not because I am right more often offline than on, but because, simply put, nothing you say is going to influence someone's opinion on the Internet. The Internet is not a place to disseminate or proselytize, and it never will be. It is simply a place ti identify people who agree or disagree with you. This is why I have a rule against replying more than twice in any online 'debate.'
In real life, however, the other person is forced to actually look into my eyes and choose whether to hold fast to a retarded and indefensible position or admit that I wouldn't have bothered to raise the issue, being in no way a standoffish or disagreeable person, unless I was already totally safeguarded by my own argument's unassailable correctness.
And most people in real life realize that there is something palpable to be lost by intentionally making a braying jackass of themselves (unless you have a television career *zing*), whereas online there is no such impulsion.
Pegghead said:
I try to be honest about myself online and in real life. I'm me, what's wrong with that?
In fact that's half the reason why I've enjoyed the escapist so much. On most other sites for someone like me who tries to get a word in edgewise to some discussion some moron will shoot down my opinion on the basis of me being 14. So here's the first time I can keep my mouth open and be honest.
They probably still think you're wrong, and for the same reason. But we all know The Escapist plays fast and loose with the banhammer. The Escapist forums are relatively peaceful for the same reason that a prison yard is most often a peaceful place.
It isn't that the place isn't populated with the same immediately post-pubescent born-again socialists, ash-skinned knife collectors with voices rusty from disuse, and unemployed twentysomething-going-on-thirtysomething trackball jockeys posting from 123 Basement Boulevard. It's that these people have been taught the hard way that delivering the Judge-to-Billy-Madison speech in response to the Busey-esque insanity that so appallingly often warrants it has been disallowed with prejudice.
It's a tradeoff. You don't have to see anyone post Goatse, but you don't get to, either. Oh well.