Your best friend joins a bat shit insane cult, What do you do?

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ZelosRaine

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Robyrt said:
Cults train their members to ignore the kind of gentle criticism that would normally be appropriate in this situation. You'll probably need to stage an intervention with the help of other people your friend is closest to, assuming they also see this behavior as dangerous and irrational. (If it's really a cult, this shouldn't be hard.)
This. Brainwashing is "teh 3vil." It takes something drastic.
 

CouchCommando

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Just read up on brain washing, and take steps to build up the persons self identity, getting them to become well read couldn't hurt either (do not severe ties with them, as this is playing into the hands of the cult) and if their one of your closest friends, its through thick and thin.
Speaking from personal experience I had the misfortune to actually be born to a couple who were/still are active cult members, I myself grew up with nothing but the cult as my reality, It was fortunate that I was able to meet .... normal people for the most part in society through school and work, after becoming a big reader in my spare time,
I was suddenly chilled to my core when reading the usual "spiritual" literature that my family espoused that I was began noticing certain unnerving similarities with its format wording etc and that was briefly talked about in a book I was reading about the human psyche. Under the title BRAIN WASHING AND MIND CONTROL.
A few googles later and I was voluntarily well on my way to getting reformed after a life of mental abuse.
 

MrNickster

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Repeated mockeries of his ocult behaviour and challenging the leader of his cult to demonstrate his powers or whatever the hell he's supposed to be able to do.
 

Daveman

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Mine joined a cult... it's called Christianity. :p

Personally I just left him to it, he became a completely different person when it happened so we're not friends any more. He's all weird and happy now, and no longer understands sarcasm. I imagine I'd be the same if it were a proper cult.
 

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Signa said:
Fry his brain with logic. If the only reason the cult appeals to him is because it makes him feel good, tell him to get drunk or high, because at least he can keep his shit and not die.
You realise that there is an inherent contradiction in your statement.
 

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FalloutJack said:
Let them die...and then find the person that took all their stuff and MURDER HIM.
Then steal all the stuff back from the guy you just murdered wooo karma!

OP: kidnap him and steal his stuff back.
 

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Legendsmith said:
Signa said:
Fry his brain with logic. If the only reason the cult appeals to him is because it makes him feel good, tell him to get drunk or high, because at least he can keep his shit and not die.
You realise that there is an inherent contradiction in your statement.
Nope, other than appealing to logic in an illogical situation, I don't see the contradiction. At least if you can say something that they can't argue against, then you've done as much as you can do in this situation. It's better than just dropping the friend and letting them destroy himself because you gave up before you tried knowing he was being illogical.
 

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Well if it's something harmless I'd probably just ignore it, If it's what they believe in then I can deal with it. If it's something like Scientology level crazy then I'd have to put him down, I'm sure he'd understand.
 

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I would do whatever I can. It'll be hard, cults, especially suicide cults, tend to brainwash their members to a specific way if thinking. Which would probably mean I would have to kidnap him and break the mindset he's been forced into. Depending on how serious it is, this could be as simple as reminding him who he really is to possibly mild torture methods to break ties.

I just couldn't let him die. I've known him for 12 years.
 

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Signa said:
Legendsmith said:
Signa said:
Fry his brain with logic. If the only reason the cult appeals to him is because it makes him feel good, tell him to get drunk or high, because at least he can keep his shit and not die.
You realise that there is an inherent contradiction in your statement.
Nope, other than appealing to logic in an illogical situation, I don't see the contradiction. At least if you can say something that they can't argue against, then you've done as much as you can do in this situation. It's better than just dropping the friend and letting them destroy himself because you gave up before you tried knowing he was being illogical.
Do you really think having a good point will stop somebody from doing stupid shit? Really? You obviously don't know humans very well.
 

Dead_Man

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Bring down the cult by any means necessary and show my friend that its nothing more than a shame
 

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I keep telling him that Lady Gaga doesn't produce good music and I express my wishes for her to drop off a cliff and stop filling my world with her horrible music.

Lady Gaga fandom counts as a batshit crazy cult, right?
 

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kikon9 said:
Signa said:
Legendsmith said:
Signa said:
Fry his brain with logic. If the only reason the cult appeals to him is because it makes him feel good, tell him to get drunk or high, because at least he can keep his shit and not die.
You realise that there is an inherent contradiction in your statement.
Nope, other than appealing to logic in an illogical situation, I don't see the contradiction. At least if you can say something that they can't argue against, then you've done as much as you can do in this situation. It's better than just dropping the friend and letting them destroy himself because you gave up before you tried knowing he was being illogical.
Do you really think having a good point will stop somebody from doing stupid shit? Really? You obviously don't know humans very well.
I don't know how I can say it more clearly than what I said when you quoted me. The alternative is to waterboard the shit out of him.