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Lord Merik said:
Kinda but there is a lot of debate on whether or not it still applies in this day and age. Also I am still a Christian because I believe that Jesus is the only hope for humanity. His wisdom and sacrifice are worthy of worship. And if I am sining Jesus came to forgive not to condemn. That is something my fellow Christians tend to forget.
But if you belive the bible is the word of God it would alwas apply. Which is one issue I have with christianity.
Sure Jesus could forgive you, but dont you think its kinda wrong you need to be forgiven ? Im a hetrosexual, I am attracted to women, I have never woken up and just decided that was what I would be attracted too. So its something you have no control over, yet you need to have Jesus forgive you, and you belive he made you who you are. It just seems wrong to me. But f you enjoy being christian then im not going to try and interfere.
Depending on the sect of Christianity you worship, babies who died before being baptized go to hell or limbo because they haven't been forgiven of original sin. Christianity certainly isn't a religion that shirks away from punishing you for things that aren't your fault.
 

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I'm part of the leather clan (which is to say I practice bdsm, with a focus on D/s).
I've been part of a triad relationship.
I've dated girls in conjunction with my primary relationship (and my primary partner was aware).

I think that's abooout it....
 

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this isnt my name said:
Lord Merik said:
Kinda but there is a lot of debate on whether or not it still applies in this day and age. Also I am still a Christian because I believe that Jesus is the only hope for humanity. His wisdom and sacrifice are worthy of worship. And if I am sining Jesus came to forgive not to condemn. That is something my fellow Christians tend to forget.
But if you belive the bible is the word of God it would alwas apply. Which is one issue I have with christianity.
Sure Jesus could forgive you, but dont you think its kinda wrong you need to be forgiven ? Im a hetrosexual, I am attracted to women, I have never woken up and just decided that was what I would be attracted too. So its something you have no control over, yet you need to have Jesus forgive you, and you belive he made you who you are. It just seems wrong to me. But f you enjoy being christian then im not going to try and interfere.

Basically there are things in the Bible that are there for the time they were given. Like the parts that talk about not wearing mixed fabric. That no longer applies. I don't know if nonhetrosexualality still applies. I just trust that Jesus will have my back. As for right now I live my life trying (trying mind you I am not perfect) to shine the light of Christ. That is the best I can do.
 

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That I'm gay... ish. I don't really find things attractive or unattractive but I do have a leaning torwards men. btw, Christian family so yeah... they'll never find out
 

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If I told you people about it then I wouldn't be in the closet now, would I?

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I find the idea of 'coming out of the closet' to be a bit odd. Why would you assume people care enough to warrant you shouting it out to everyone? I can understand it if you mean it in the sense that people have been asking you about it and you've kept denying it up until that point, and then changed your answer afterwards. Otherwise, though, it all seems kind of melodramatic, self-centred and pointless.
 

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I have imperialistic tendencies. I'm not a racist, at least not on a biological level. I am FIRMLY against discrimination based on race, given that I am of mixed race myself (Chinese/English). But I am also a scientist and a great believer in technology, rationalism, the scientific process and logic.

I am conflicted. On one hand, I am aware that there are no "simple" cultures. But on the other hand, I am firmly of the belief that many of the world's cultures are downright stupid, irrational and should be done away with. I find the Native American belief that they were created separately from the rest of humanity to be just as disgusting and downright ignorant as Literary Christian Creationism. I find many aspects of Saudi Arabian culture to be downright terrifying to me. I find very little of worth when I example Indigenous Australian cultures, which seem to be stuck in a period more primitive than the bronze age. I find many aspects of traditional (thankfully most extinct) Chinese culture to be distasteful or barbaric (foot binding for one).

I am of the firm belief that a secular, scientifically based culture would be best for the entire world, and I secretly believe that using force to achieve it might not be a bad thing. I believe in science and mathematics and technology above all, and I am incredibly disdainful of any culture, from any race or country that does not support science or technology or secularization.

I know that many people would consider my beliefs to be incredibly racist. I agree that I am "culturalist" and I have a tendency towards imperialism and a thirst for ABSOLUTE ORDER AT ANY PRICE. But I am just as critical of Western Culture (what with its fascination with celebrities, paranormal nonsense and religion) as any other culture. I don't see myself as racist, but I CANNOT hypocritically condemn nonsense such as John Edward's "I can see dead people" yet not criticize nonsense such as the belief that "Animal Spirits" exist or that if a woman so much as touches a didgeridoo (which is essentially a hollowed-out piece of tree, hardly a technological marvel) that they'll become sterile! It's fashionable on the left, even ENCOURAGED, to point out the illogical, unscientific beliefs that many white people have (and there are many), yet among those on the Left it's also COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE to criticize EXACTLY THE SAME nonsense in any other culture.

So while I might be a sneering, closet imperialist and while I might secretly wish for the domination of science, mathematics and secularization over all, and the creation of a technocratic society in which WE are in CHARGE, I am an equal opportunity culture basher. It doesn't matter what race you are, or where you come from - I will almost certainly find something in your culture to complain about.

Of all the nations that currently exist, I find myself most closely aligned with the current Chinese Government. I don't like a lot of their practices, but they did raise hundreds of millions from poverty and they are firmly focused on technology as a solver of problem. They get things done. I'm not a fan of the old Chinese Culture, of which my Grandmother suffered a lot under. I'm actually glad that most of the old Chinese Culture is dead - and it should STAY dead. I am also aware that the Chinese Government is deeply flawed - they aren't flexible enough, for one, and they are not open to modification which means that they are not equipped to deal with every situation. Politically, I am a supporter of democracy. I'm just saying on a personal level, in terms of personal belief, I share much in common with the current Chinese PRC government, with their commitment to development, engineering, science, and SECULARIZATION AT ANY PRICE. Secularization is good. It's the best thing to happen. Of course, the current Chinese Government is also cruel, corrupt, inflexible, hard-nosed, stubborn and in many ways evil (they still torture people), and I sincerely wish that in the next 30 to 40 years the Chinese people will replace them with a more moderate government. But they have gotten things done. Not the OLD communist leaders, like Mao, who were just as insane and illogical as any religious leader, but the current crop of Chinese Leaders who are far saner and sensible and technically accomplished.

I will just never say that in public because I know what people would think of me. They'll call me a racist. It's not racist to point out that all people are human, and all humans are deeply flawed. There are no perfect cultures. NO ONE, NO RACE should be "above" criticism. I am equally scornful of Christianity as I am of Orthodox Judaism and as I am of Islam or Paganism or Shinto or Buddhism (which really isn't any more sane than any other religion).

Once again - I'm done my share of genetics. I've done my share of molecular biology. I am fully aware (how can I not be given my ancestry) that ALL races are biologically equal. We're all equally human, all of us. But that means we're equally foolish, equally prone to superstition, backwards-thinking and illogical beliefs. Being equally human means we are ALL EQUALLY flawed. And it's hypocritical to point out the flaws of one culture and not the flaws of others, and believe me, they're all flawed. All of them.
 

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Volf99 said:
...wow...just..wow. You really let things out of your closet, huh? lol
The thing is that I've told most of this to people in real life. So I guess I didn't really come out of any closet, I just like oversharing. Also, I shave my pubes and have a painful ingrown hair on my penis.
 

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conflictofinterests said:
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conflictofinterests said:
I'm atheist, asexual with libido, into BDSM, vore, and have had both sexual and romantic relations with both sexes. (I'm asexual because people's bodies don't turn me on, my paraphilias do.) I have come out to my parents about the atheism and asexuality, but several reasons why I don't come out about the other things, and why I still count the first two as being in the closet.

1) They know, but they pretend it isn't there. I don't really push the subject
2) They think I'm misguided and that I'm just mistaking subtle cues for not being there
3) It's not really anyone's business but my lovers, and he knows.
4) Since I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with already, I figure I can pretend to be straight instead of asexual with libido with no preference for gender. My parents don't need to know about my past relationships.

I do feel kind of lonely knowing people don't accept me for who I am, especially on the asexuality front, since I don't know any asexuals personally, and can't get perspective from them. It just kind of hurts that every time I bring up that I just don't get things that are supposed to be sexy aside from aesthetic they say I'm wrong about my own feelings.
Soory for the stupid question, but if you're asexual, then how can you like BDSM? Do you enjoy it in a way that isn't sexual, or is it just me who doens't know the right definition of "asexual"?
I'm asexual with libido. You're thinking of asexual without libido. I can be sexually aroused, just not by people's bodies. Some people can't be sexually aroused at all. I just require paraphilias, like BDSM and Vore. So, I see, for instance, a centerfold. Is it just a person in attractive clothing? All I see is the artistic aesthetic of the picture. Is it a person being dominated or eaten? Then I'm turned on. Does that clear it up?

EDIT: Not a stupid question at all. Hardly anyone knows anything about asexuals outside of sites devoted to them.
Yep, perfect explanation.
 

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zelda2fanboy said:
Volf99 said:
...wow...just..wow. You really let things out of your closet, huh? lol
The thing is that I've told most of this to people in real life. So I guess I didn't really come out of any closet, I just like oversharing. Also, I shave my pubes and have a painful ingrown hair on my penis.
Thats not funny dude, Im eating right now.
A saussage of all things...
 

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I'm a bisexual transsexual who enjoys having her ah...shall we say 'backdoor' played with. I have also enjoyed BDSM and role-play.

I'm not very succesful in life but I try to be happy.

as for religion, I am christian. Wait...

/looks over her post.

...

yup, I'm going to hell
 

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I'm a closet furry homosexual. I'm formulating a plan for when I come out (hopefully some time soon). Just thinking about it gives me butterflies :p
 

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imnotparanoid said:
zelda2fanboy said:
The thing is that I've told most of this to people in real life. So I guess I didn't really come out of any closet, I just like oversharing. Also, I shave my pubes and have a painful ingrown hair on my penis.
Thats not funny dude, Im eating right now.
A saussage of all things...
You say it's not funny, but I laughed heartily at that unfortunate timing. My condolences if your delicious sausage was ruined though.
 

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Iv told people practically all my secrets at one time or another, if they pay attention is another matter. Sexual activity with other guys? check(not too bad i guess i cant see making a habit of it but give me the right guy and maybe). Stealin shit? yup. Transvestite? never really done that, high heels dont agree with me and i dont have the legs for a skirt. Athiest? yup and a violent one.
 

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Baron von Blitztank said:
Ok, I never really wanted to admit this but...I piss in the shower (and the sink on occasion).
That should deter us away from religion and pony wars...Hopefully.

As for the other stuff; Transformers fanboyism, hentai viewer, wanker, atheist etc. I'm pretty sure everyone else knows about that.
I can understand the shower, but why on earth would you pee in the sink?
 

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zelda2fanboy said:
I'm a virgin in my mid 20s. I've fallen in love with a 19 year old woman through skype who happens to really be into BDSM and cam sex. I want to move to be with her, but I'm scared and can't find a job. I've used chat roulette a lot for webcam sex... (not the regular version, the porn version). I like "big" women. I really want to engage in cunnilingus. She wants to be tied up, but one of my go to fantasies is being sexually humiliated by an authority figure. For awhile, she thought she had gotten pregnant by another man... and I didn't care at all.
What do you mean with "big"?
 

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being that people important already know about my different quarks might as well put them here

I'm atheist, I believe religious folks are scum (3 years of being treated like garbage by them and you'd understand) I'm schizophrenic, I'm psychotic, I've never done drugs, never sworn, never posted a picture of myself online for public viewing, I think I'm asexual, I have a mild form of autism (Dr. diagnosis, not SELF diagnosis like those pricks that like justifying being pricks), I was a student prosecutor from ages 14-17 just because I wanted to watch people suffer for their crimes (amazingly still haven't heard any Edgeworth jokes)

reading above posts I should mention that I did TRY watching MLP but I still don't like it/can't stand it, and honestly want to blow the brains out of the next person to call me a "pony" instead of a "person" (literally, in real life, at college, people call eachother pony... like "come on everypony, party at my place" or "pfft duh, everypony knows that" ...it's more annoying then the whole furry thing, stop it)

Uhh... I act like a pervert to fit in, I'm constantly called a hipster just because I'm not the same type of nerd as others (example; I don't like Halo, and I love Tribes)

so anyone have problems with it? if so I won't care anyways (because if I did care I wouldn't post this ;P)


oh, a question for non-virgins
when do you consider yourself to have LOST your virginity?
 

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Korolev said:
Once again - I'm done my share of genetics. I've done my share of molecular biology. I am fully aware (how can I not be given my ancestry) that ALL races are biologically equal. We're all equally human, all of us. But that means we're equally foolish, equally prone to superstition, backwards-thinking and illogical beliefs. Being equally human means we are ALL EQUALLY flawed. And it's hypocritical to point out the flaws of one culture and not the flaws of others, and believe me, they're all flawed. All of them.
Have you done your share of athropology? Because cultures are now for humans what genetics and phenotypes are for the rest of life. Cultures allow us to adapt to our environments, and as I'm sure you know from your study of genetics, the greater the variety, the better the chance of survival when disaster strikes. Yes, there are barbarities that should be eradicated, but the idea that humanity should embrace ONE culture is laughable. What of the !Kung people in Namibia? They're among the healthiest people on the planet and they wander the deserts and grasslands hunting game and gathering wild roots and fruits. You would begrudge them their culture and foster one of obesity and sedentism? Oh, we've done that before. To the Native Americans. Guess what? They got the highest rates of diabetes in the nation. Now they're taking their culture back and the first thing they're doing? Bringing back the old ways of growing their own food, and replacing the long shelf-life supplies they had been buying with fresh-grown food they made themselves.

We haven't figured out the "best" culture. For the most part we haven't figured out that there ISN'T a "best" culture, that there's just cultures which are better adapted to their environment than others. Is there a "best" species of living thing? In the same way there isn't a "best" culture.
 

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Pretty much just that I'm gay. Of course, I've only discovered this recently, so there wasn't much opportunity in the first place. Also, ever since I figured out I was a homosexual, I've had some messed up nightmares about it. Maybe it'll stop now that it's off my chest.