Your dream guy/girl...
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Sarcastic (but in a joking way), witty, loves puns, is shorter than me (idk) and loves ranting just for the sake of ranting.
A girl who hates awkward silences as much as me and will keep on talking for hours on end when you want her to. And who willingly shuts up when you don't want her to talk (i.e: when you're stressed or busy with something else).
Also, has to laugh at all of my jokes. I don't care if they're bad. Pretend. Preferably though, it would be a real laugh.
Oh right, and she has to ask me out and be totally honest at any given point about anything concerning our relationship.
I couldn't care less about anything else, to be honest.
A girl who hates awkward silences as much as me and will keep on talking for hours on end when you want her to. And who willingly shuts up when you don't want her to talk (i.e: when you're stressed or busy with something else).
Also, has to laugh at all of my jokes. I don't care if they're bad. Pretend. Preferably though, it would be a real laugh.
Oh right, and she has to ask me out and be totally honest at any given point about anything concerning our relationship.
I couldn't care less about anything else, to be honest.
I don't believe in such things as "dream people" as no partner will ever be perfect and couples that never ever fight and are always lovey-dovey are suspect (not to mention mildly irritating).
Regardless, I think that most people look for rather similar things in any relationship: someone who accepts them for who they are, whose personality compliments theirs, who is willing to listen to them ***** and who will sometimes have sex with them. Beyond that, the differences seem somewhat negligible if you ask me. That is all I ever wanted, really and will probably be all I ever want. Maybe I am simple.
Regardless, I think that most people look for rather similar things in any relationship: someone who accepts them for who they are, whose personality compliments theirs, who is willing to listen to them ***** and who will sometimes have sex with them. Beyond that, the differences seem somewhat negligible if you ask me. That is all I ever wanted, really and will probably be all I ever want. Maybe I am simple.
Well, I always fall for the guys who are waaay out of my league. Maybe a guy who played sports, is about 6'-6'4" (I like them tall 
) & has brown eyes/dark hair. xD Yea I'm flirting with a guy exactly like this on FB lol.
I can name off my girl requirements, because I am bi, but I prefer boys.
Edit: why does everyones dream girls sound like me? (except for the height- I'm 5'2")
) & has brown eyes/dark hair. xD Yea I'm flirting with a guy exactly like this on FB lol.I can name off my girl requirements, because I am bi, but I prefer boys.
Edit: why does everyones dream girls sound like me? (except for the height- I'm 5'2")
Blond hair, blue eyes, and nerdy?dex-dex said:oh really?Berethond said:Heyyyyyyyyy I qualify.dex-dex said:but to be honest. blonde hair and blue eyes. and taller then five seven. I am not picky
and someone who is nerdy
Isn't that funny now.
fantastic!
That applies to a metric ton of people that I know... myself included.
Oh well, I guess it's a change of pace from the posts that are five paragraphs of incredibly specific traits...
I have, actually, a girl whom I see in my dreams often.
She has waist-length blonde hair, a clear, pale complexion and blue eyes. She has a small frame, but wide hips and an above-average size chest. She walks quietly, with grace. She's shy, quiet, lonely and lives a sheltered life, so she doesn't get to know people easily, but she's understanding, supportive, empathetic and sympathetic. She's intelligent and innocent. We both appreciate the simpler things in the world, like the stars, rivers, forests, et cetera. She also loves to cuddle. She respects me and looks up to me, and helps make me feel confident. When comfortable around someone, she shows a bit of a crazy, energetic side. Best of all, despite not being very social, she loves video games and the associated culture (including merchandise) and understands my needs and wants as a gamer. But the most important part is that she needs me as much as I need her, which is quite a bit sometimes.
What sucks is that I will probably never meet this girl in real life. And, so, she will continue to be he girl of my dreams and nothing more.
She has waist-length blonde hair, a clear, pale complexion and blue eyes. She has a small frame, but wide hips and an above-average size chest. She walks quietly, with grace. She's shy, quiet, lonely and lives a sheltered life, so she doesn't get to know people easily, but she's understanding, supportive, empathetic and sympathetic. She's intelligent and innocent. We both appreciate the simpler things in the world, like the stars, rivers, forests, et cetera. She also loves to cuddle. She respects me and looks up to me, and helps make me feel confident. When comfortable around someone, she shows a bit of a crazy, energetic side. Best of all, despite not being very social, she loves video games and the associated culture (including merchandise) and understands my needs and wants as a gamer. But the most important part is that she needs me as much as I need her, which is quite a bit sometimes.
What sucks is that I will probably never meet this girl in real life. And, so, she will continue to be he girl of my dreams and nothing more.
I'm actually relatively easy to please dream girl wise. I guess basic preferences would be:
very dark brown hair or very um.. blonde blonde hair
a little bit but not too much shorter than me. Around 5'5" to 5'8"
not super skinny / healthy weight
at least somewhat positive attitude towards video games, beards, and heavy metal edit: oh and Christianity
complimentary personality to mine (aka I dunno)
I also for some reason really like it when lady friends I am interested in have some artistic ability, probably cuz I have very little
Uh... yea, I don't ask for that much really.
very dark brown hair or very um.. blonde blonde hair
a little bit but not too much shorter than me. Around 5'5" to 5'8"
not super skinny / healthy weight
at least somewhat positive attitude towards video games, beards, and heavy metal edit: oh and Christianity
complimentary personality to mine (aka I dunno)
I also for some reason really like it when lady friends I am interested in have some artistic ability, probably cuz I have very little
Uh... yea, I don't ask for that much really.
Nah, it's only like 3,000 miles.dex-dex said:oh really?Berethond said:Heyyyyyyyyy I qualify.dex-dex said:but to be honest. blonde hair and blue eyes. and taller then five seven. I am not picky
and someone who is nerdy
Isn't that funny now.
fantastic!
Not far at all XD
Someone who's intelligent, with a sense of humour. He'd have to have similar ideals to mine, be very accepting and open-minded, play videogames, read lots of books, and not laugh at me too often. He'd have to like hugs, and go to metal shows with me. And be at least 6 inches taller than me. If possible, he'd also always wear a suit, but no one wears suits nowadays, and I suppose it'd look funny in some circumstances. It'd be nice if he owned a suit, though. And wore it. Frequently.
Physically, I don't really have any specifications apart from the height thing, but I like guys who are either have blond or dark hair. Not a huge fan of that in-between sort of brown. And dimples. Dimples are awesome.
Physically, I don't really have any specifications apart from the height thing, but I like guys who are either have blond or dark hair. Not a huge fan of that in-between sort of brown. And dimples. Dimples are awesome.
Well, my current girlfriend is:
+ Smart.
+ Creative.
+ Very comfortable about doing "less than g-rated" stuff with me.
+ Loves talking with me.
+ Looks really nice naked.
+ Has slightly wavy, but otherwise straight hair.
+ Her family freakin' love me.
+ Despite being somewhat out of my league, she's loyal*.
However, there are two things I'd change about her:
- I'd like her to be a bit taller, not complaining it's just annoying to stand up and kiss her.
- She has some emotional problems stemming from bad relationships in the past, and I want to her to feel more comfortable talking about them.
*Her loyalty stems from said emotional problems, actually... So, is that good or bad...?
+ Smart.
+ Creative.
+ Very comfortable about doing "less than g-rated" stuff with me.
+ Loves talking with me.
+ Looks really nice naked.
+ Has slightly wavy, but otherwise straight hair.
+ Her family freakin' love me.
+ Despite being somewhat out of my league, she's loyal*.
However, there are two things I'd change about her:
- I'd like her to be a bit taller, not complaining it's just annoying to stand up and kiss her.
- She has some emotional problems stemming from bad relationships in the past, and I want to her to feel more comfortable talking about them.
*Her loyalty stems from said emotional problems, actually... So, is that good or bad...?
I'm going to be the odd one out and say that perfection isn't at all my thing. Love isn't finding someone perfect, it's a mutual understanding and caring between two imperfect people.
Huzzah, as do I, though I am at least as distant as he is since I'm as far away in the US as you can get. Not a dream if its next door I guess.dex-dex said:oh really?Berethond said:Heyyyyyyyyy I qualify.dex-dex said:but to be honest. blonde hair and blue eyes. and taller then five seven. I am not picky
and someone who is nerdy
Isn't that funny now.
fantastic!
Still get to have a showing of pride at qualifying for something, particularly a dream.
As for me, I'm a total sucker for pretty brown eyes and much prefer hair that is at least shoulder length in terms of appearance.
I tend to be a smartass so a girl with a good sense of humor is definitely very important and she'd need to be intelligent enough to be able to bounce back and forth on a wide variety of topics.
She'd need to be nerdy in some way, I think you have to be able to 'geek out' about something to really understand another nerd but it doesn't have to be the same things I am big on since I think it can be really enjoyable to share and have shared with you a new passion.
Finally I think it would be important to have a girl who would be relaxed enough to spend quiet time together on the couch just reading or watching tv, but who would still have fun getting up and going out whether to the zoo or mini-golfing.
Phew, I guess I'm more opinionated than I thought in this regard, I always think of myself as being more aware of what I don't want at this point. Its good to envision what I do for a while.