Your First Kiss

[Bernzz]

About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3

It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.

Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!

I know what you feel like. I wasn't my girlfriend's first kiss, but she was mine. I also wasn't her first something else, which is the part that bothers me.

Mine, though, was just over a week into my current relationship. My friend had been pressuring me, her's had been pressuring her, and at one point we went out the front of a party and it kinda happened. As I just mentioned, she'd kissed before, so she took the lead, but god was I bad at it. XD

 

[Jonluw]

Unless we count a couple of games of truth or dare, I haven't had one yet.
I guess I just really really suck at the whole "being socially active/flirting/being in a relationship" thing.

I kinda feel like it's a part my childhood is missing. Fond memories of playing with the slightly older neighbouring girl in the summer, our lips briefly meeting to let me have my first experience with what one might call love. *sigh*
Doesn't help that I have quite a vivid imagination for picturing what the things I'm missing out on might be like.

 

[Not-here-anymore]

Hmm... About 6? Childhood sweethearts and all that.

Alternatively, 16, when I asked out a girl pretty much because she was openly interested in me. In retrospect, I should probably have thought about whether or not I was interested in her, as opposed to just wanting a girlfriend... It didn't last long

 

[Sunrider]

I was 14 (closer to 15 than 14 though), and it was with my girlfriend at the time. We ended up having sex that very night, so I lost my virginity on the same day I had my first kiss. Pretty funky.

 

[Ace of Spades]

My first kiss was actually only a few weeks ago with my first girlfriend. We had just made plans for a second date, and I said "And there's one other thing I've wanted to do for a while." "What's that?" and I leaned down, and I kissed her. It was complicated a bit by the fact that I'm a foot taller than her, but it was still nice. After a couple of weeks, when we got a bit more into kissing, she asked me how I knew so many 'moves' even though I had never dated anyone. Yay, improvisation!

 

[GLo Jones]

I was 16, and very drunk. It is not something I'm proud of.

My first sober kiss was much better, sat in a local beauty spot, with a girl I ended up in a relationship with for about a year.

 

[Connor Mulhern]

Not much of a dating kind of guy, never really had a girlfriend, so ya, I am assuming you can figure out I have never really kissed a girl like that (minus a couple of cheek kissing's, but they were more greeting and goodbyes, not the type of kisses we are taking about)

 

[SckizoBoy]

'Twas... 12 at the time. And it was an upside down kiss...

Holy shit, you are Spiderman!

(there is no e-mote for wistful smile, unfortunately) I wish... I was lying on a park bench, and my then girlfriend just walked towards the side where my head was and kissed me. It was oddly symmetrical, in a weird, rotational sense.

It's funny, because the second kiss we shared was so 'standard' that it felt oddly disappointing.

 

[Colour Scientist]

I've been dropping by the Escapist for some time now, and though I browsed the forums every now and again if an interesting topic came up in the sidebar, I never felt the need to join until now. Mostly because I love these kind of stories in a creepy, voyeuristic sort of way.

Most people have an extended lurking period. I did for about six months before I made an account. Hope you like it anyway!

Story time, eh? Okay. ^^

I think the guys on this site will love that story!

 

[Jedoro]

First one I remember was with my first girlfriend back in high school, I was 15. We were joking around on her couch, and I stuck my tongue out at her, when she rushed up to kiss me. I was stunned, and had to actually ask if she'd just kissed me. She admitted it, and then we started practicing.

Not that anyone cares, but we were together 8 months and I could've seen myself marrying her. We'd been best friends for years before this, but I screwed up the relationship. If I had to have a regret, it'd be that.

 

[Ekonk]

Once when I was seven but I recon that doesn't really count.

Again when I was 17. The girl was about to take off to Cambodia for two months, and two months to Ecuador a while later.

Freaking perfect. More than half a year later she's still my girlfriend though.

 

[crazyfoxdemon]

My first kiss was when I was 8. It was also when I got to 3rd base for the first time.. God were our parents pissed when they found us. To tell the truth, at the time, I had no idea what what I was doing meant XD

 

[Ac30]

2 Weeks ago, with a random girl I met in a club and we were at it within an hour. Incidentally, It was also my first night clubbing. I was beyond piss drunk at that point, and couldn't remember jack the next morning.
PROTIP: Save it for someone special. Otherwise you just feel bad the next morning.

 

[Cap'n Ninja]

I'll just copy/paste this from the last thread I saw about first kisses.

Depending on if we're talking peck, or actual kiss, either when I was 12 or 13
The peck was after he had run 500 meters away from his bus that was going to leave in the next 30 seconds to bring me my PE kit which I had forgotten. I rewarded him with the peck on the cheek.
My first kiss was about 8 months later when I was 13, we were in the school library one morning quite early, so we were the only people there, save the librarian around the corner it was pouring down so we were both sodden, and we sat at one of the stupid half-hexagon tables, and somehow sweet talk between younglings turned into a kiss. He was visibly trembling as we moved in, it was kind of cute, if a bit of an odd feeling to have a vibrating boy on your face.

You were right though OP, resurrecting a thread idea is good if it's an interesting idea and one that has the opportunity for interesting conversation, but necroing old threads is bad.

Story time, eh? Okay. ^^

I think the guys on this site will love that story!

And some of the ladies.

 

[dex-dex]

I was eighteen.
it was after dealing with a shitty prom(so end of June).
in a hotel room.
at five in the morning.
His name was Nick.
ate a donut afterwards.
I was so taken back by it that I sort of froze up. but then we stopped and then went at it again.

 

[Thedutchjelle]

Never had one yet. I don't think I'm the kind of person who would enjoy that. A hug is sufficient.

 

[Baldry]

Ah my first kiss...It's not exactly a love story, I'd say the opposite. Anyway my first kiss was when I was 16, which I still am but it was last year...Actually it was one year ago last month, coolio! Anyway we were at a sleepover watching some film and we were cuddling on the couch and then after a bit we went under the cover we had a made out, it was nice...Of course there was one downside...She was dating one of my best friends, they'd been dating for two years (though she is crazy and it had ups and downs) but anyway he's dating someone else now and so is she and I should be but I made a mistake on new years eve/day...and now it's too late to be with the one I love...But that's a story for another time kids!

 

[Jason Danger Keyes]

I was 14 and it was with my first 'girlfriend' (I use the term loosely for relationships that last less than a month)

We were at the bus stop waiting for my bus, and when it came she gave me a quick kiss on the lips and took off. I was just so shocked that I broke into a huge grin that persisted most of the night.

 

[btenkink]

Immediately after my first kiss, She puked.

Seriously, she blamed it on her emotions, but yeah.

 

[Jandau]

I was 17, it was with a girl I was head over heels in love with, it was her idea and mainly because we had nothing better to do. We were friends at the time and hung out regularly, so the situation was pure luck. I made a mess of things, opened my mouth too much (doesn't help that my mouth is roughly 50% larger than hers) and the whole thing ground to a somewhat embarrasing halt, followed by some awkward silence. I don't think we ever mentioned it again.

Overall, it wasn't a complete fail. While I did screw the whole thing up, I did get to have my first kiss be with a smoking hot chick that I had a massive crush on.

And no, we didn't end up together eventually. She wound up with a layabout douchebag a year later and is still with his lazy college dropout arse. I met my soulmate at 20 and have spent the last 6 years of my life with the woman of my dreams. And got a lot better at kissing...