Your relationship with your sibling(s)
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I have two older brother in their mid-twenties, and I'm 21. We get along great. We like almost the same things and have a lot of the same ideas. We all play video games together, too. They're good people, although, like everyone, they have their flaws.
We're not, though, sharing-life-problems close, though.
We're not, though, sharing-life-problems close, though.
I've got a sister, who up until about a year and a half today months, was cruel and terrible, and about as lovable and sympathetic as a rabid wolverine that just joined the Hitler Youth League.
But then about a year and a half ago, she suddenly started being nicer than she ever was before, and just overall improving (probably a bit overly broad word choice there).
But then about a year and a half ago, she suddenly started being nicer than she ever was before, and just overall improving (probably a bit overly broad word choice there).
I have a little brother. Despite despising each other, we were good friends. He's a good kid, but don't tell him I said that. ^_^
My younger brother stole a grand total of $11,000.00 from my parents combined to fuel his drug habit. We don't talk.
I've always been a passive guy, and my brother was the aggressive one, so there was a lot of bullying and fighting. I never had a good relationship with him, mainly because early on he figured out that even if I start off willing to compromise with him all he has to do is apply the pressure and I would give. I never liked to fight, I never wanted to. So I just walked away and let him win. My brother is two years younger than me, and has twice the muscle I have. I remember as really little kids we used to get along just fine, I don't remember when things changed. I just remember there are more times than I care to count where he made my life a living hell.
I've always been a passive guy, and my brother was the aggressive one, so there was a lot of bullying and fighting. I never had a good relationship with him, mainly because early on he figured out that even if I start off willing to compromise with him all he has to do is apply the pressure and I would give. I never liked to fight, I never wanted to. So I just walked away and let him win. My brother is two years younger than me, and has twice the muscle I have. I remember as really little kids we used to get along just fine, I don't remember when things changed. I just remember there are more times than I care to count where he made my life a living hell.
My older sister is 23, we tended to be at each other's throats a great deal of the time, growing up. She kept blackmailing me when I angrily went to my room and she heard me calling her a bastard (yeah didn't know how to properly swear at the time, i was like 6, come on.) But when things got heavy for me she was always there in ways I couldn't imagine.
My older OLDER sister is 25, she was the sister who would stop sister A from being mean, but in later years became annoying to the point where I favored sister A's company more. But I still love my sisters, you'd be crazy not to love your siblings, through thick and thin.
My older OLDER sister is 25, she was the sister who would stop sister A from being mean, but in later years became annoying to the point where I favored sister A's company more. But I still love my sisters, you'd be crazy not to love your siblings, through thick and thin.
I highly dislike my brother, he hides behind his loathing of everyone, including himself, by saying that he is tell 'fact'. Very opinionated 'fact' to the point of not being 'facts' but apparently 'fact's none the less.
Doesn't let anyone compliment him, is very bad at meeting people and nothing is ever his fault, its always everyone else's or whoever is in the closest facinity.
I just don't like him. He's also 7 years older then me and has failed hard to keep himself on his own.
Doesn't let anyone compliment him, is very bad at meeting people and nothing is ever his fault, its always everyone else's or whoever is in the closest facinity.
I just don't like him. He's also 7 years older then me and has failed hard to keep himself on his own.
I never had siblings, just cousins. But I was a bit too weird for them I guess, and they all pretty much ignored my existence... save for one who I am still close with, and is two years older than me. It's nice to have someone who actually bothered to try and understand how my mind works though. It helps me from going into a complete mental breakdown.
Well...
Odd.
My twin brother is awesome. We don't share that twin language thing or other twin stereotypes.
My other siblings not so well.
Odd.
My twin brother is awesome. We don't share that twin language thing or other twin stereotypes.
My other siblings not so well.
My relationship with my 5 year older sister is less than ideal for me. While their is no doubt we love each-other she just seems cold to me at time's. The reason I found out that she almost doesn't like me is that she is jealous of my current situation, which I can't really fathom.
She was born with so much more talent than me, and even the things that I used to better than her at have gone away as I got older.
She was a gifted student all through highchool and did the best in all her college course's all through her years of college, but she still didn't finish her degree. She had the singing voice of someone who could have did anything with her voice, she won dozens of contests and wrote a lot of really great song's but she just stopped perusing it.
The only things that she didn't have over me really other than me being nice, was that I was a guy and was good at sports. But the sports thing went away after the combination of a scoliosis and flat feet nearly disabled me and made me quit football and eventually wrestling.
she had more ability and every opportunity and more to do everything I did but choose to not take any of them. She now has a kid and is unmarried, and while I would volunteer if given the chance I was forced last my last summer to move her entire house and fix it up for her, while basically she is a ***** to me. Even now I know when she's at all nice to me I am gonna have to do something for her and I know as soon as she leaves she talks behind my back, because my mom tells me.
I love my sister but she needs to grow the hell up.
She was born with so much more talent than me, and even the things that I used to better than her at have gone away as I got older.
She was a gifted student all through highchool and did the best in all her college course's all through her years of college, but she still didn't finish her degree. She had the singing voice of someone who could have did anything with her voice, she won dozens of contests and wrote a lot of really great song's but she just stopped perusing it.
The only things that she didn't have over me really other than me being nice, was that I was a guy and was good at sports. But the sports thing went away after the combination of a scoliosis and flat feet nearly disabled me and made me quit football and eventually wrestling.
she had more ability and every opportunity and more to do everything I did but choose to not take any of them. She now has a kid and is unmarried, and while I would volunteer if given the chance I was forced last my last summer to move her entire house and fix it up for her, while basically she is a ***** to me. Even now I know when she's at all nice to me I am gonna have to do something for her and I know as soon as she leaves she talks behind my back, because my mom tells me.
I love my sister but she needs to grow the hell up.
Oldest Brother - OK. He's the only one I've seen in a while.
Older Brother - Bad. He hasn't talked to me in a while, and the last I saw him (which was several months ago), he was mad.
Youngest Brother - Horrendous. Haven't spoken to him nor seen him in several months. Don't mind though. Little shit has tried to kill me three times, and has stolen hundreds of dollars worth of stuff and money from me.
Older Brother - Bad. He hasn't talked to me in a while, and the last I saw him (which was several months ago), he was mad.
Youngest Brother - Horrendous. Haven't spoken to him nor seen him in several months. Don't mind though. Little shit has tried to kill me three times, and has stolen hundreds of dollars worth of stuff and money from me.
8 siblings, I know and am on good terms with all of them, except maybe one. That one would be my 8 year old brother, who just seems to hate everyone, and is a massive jerk. But he's only eight, so I'm hoping he'll grow out of it eventually...
But yeah, other than that, I love all my siblings.
But yeah, other than that, I love all my siblings.
My bro is a friendly, but snobish guy. I see him twice a year and it always follow the same formula.
First day is fun. Second day is our drinking day. Third day, we keep to ourselves. Fourth, one of us gets on the other's nerves. Fifth day is a return to childhood...which wasn't pretty. He gets snobby and makes a comment trying to make himself superior (Yeah, he's a good cook, discovers that one website that no one knows and he lives in Montreal while I live in a smaller city).
It finishes with each of us parting our own way.
First day is fun. Second day is our drinking day. Third day, we keep to ourselves. Fourth, one of us gets on the other's nerves. Fifth day is a return to childhood...which wasn't pretty. He gets snobby and makes a comment trying to make himself superior (Yeah, he's a good cook, discovers that one website that no one knows and he lives in Montreal while I live in a smaller city).
It finishes with each of us parting our own way.
I have one brother and a sister.
My sister is my twin, and she really is my closest friend I'll ever have. Because we're fraternal, we look just different enough that sometimes people just assume that we're best friends and won't even realize that we're related unless we say something.
My brother is 16 years older than me, and I get along rather well with him. He moved out for college before I could develop conscious memories of living with him, but he visited fairly frequently.
Technically, I'm the middle child of my family, since I'm the older twin.
When I was younger, I used to think it was weird when people used to talk about their constant fights with siblings. Once I heard about similar sibling issues from several different families, I began to realize that my sibling situation is a bit unique.
My sister is my twin, and she really is my closest friend I'll ever have. Because we're fraternal, we look just different enough that sometimes people just assume that we're best friends and won't even realize that we're related unless we say something.
My brother is 16 years older than me, and I get along rather well with him. He moved out for college before I could develop conscious memories of living with him, but he visited fairly frequently.
Technically, I'm the middle child of my family, since I'm the older twin.
When I was younger, I used to think it was weird when people used to talk about their constant fights with siblings. Once I heard about similar sibling issues from several different families, I began to realize that my sibling situation is a bit unique.
I have an older (9 years older) half-brother, and a one-year-younger full brother.
My older brother is pretty okay. We didn't get along when we were tinies, but now that he's grown up and has a wife and daughter we're cordial and friendly most of the time.
My little brother is a straight up loser. He's 24, still lives with our parents, has never held a job, and spends most of his time drinking and smoking weed. When we were kids he was all kinds of abusive to me, and now that we're older he still thinks he can use me as a punching bag. We've cut off all contact and I'm much happier for it.
My older brother is pretty okay. We didn't get along when we were tinies, but now that he's grown up and has a wife and daughter we're cordial and friendly most of the time.
My little brother is a straight up loser. He's 24, still lives with our parents, has never held a job, and spends most of his time drinking and smoking weed. When we were kids he was all kinds of abusive to me, and now that we're older he still thinks he can use me as a punching bag. We've cut off all contact and I'm much happier for it.