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Oh great, how I missed you. Mind you this cave and No Tresspassers sign have kinda grown on me.Dirzzit said:
Lol, but no I didn't report you
If I'm to stay on topic though I'd put it on maybe a 2 during the school year (if you only count the times I see friends outside of school), and maybe a 4 or 5 during the summer.I do seasonal work at fast food jobs, but make enough to live quite comfortable, independent, and well fed at that. Not very imaginative when it comes to relating to people. Was starting to incorporate saying "good day/evening" to people as i passed them down the street...gotta start somewhere right?
monetary system + bigwon's dogma + impatience/laziness to only half-heartedly follow said dogma = 1-2 ish area (i put a good amount of time in with the family, good people that deserve all the good will i can spare)
Otherwise I really am just a mean and despicable creature at heart you know.it's so difficult to really change. :/
monetary system + bigwon's dogma + impatience/laziness to only half-heartedly follow said dogma = 1-2 ish area (i put a good amount of time in with the family, good people that deserve all the good will i can spare)
Otherwise I really am just a mean and despicable creature at heart you know.it's so difficult to really change. :/
Definitely a 1. I don't have a single friend, I just don't connect with people, I try once and a while to make friends...people exchange a few words when they see me but it never moves to the step where its like hey lets meet each other outside of class/work.
It has gotten especially hard since I've finished school and my job has co workers of really varying age ranges (mostly 10+ years older); I've tried going to D&D groups and WoD LARPs but being the new guy most people won't even give you the time of day.
I repeatedly go days/weeks without talking to another living soul.
It has gotten especially hard since I've finished school and my job has co workers of really varying age ranges (mostly 10+ years older); I've tried going to D&D groups and WoD LARPs but being the new guy most people won't even give you the time of day.
I repeatedly go days/weeks without talking to another living soul.
7 when its not finals season, 5 when its just regular ol' middle of the semester time and like 1 when it is finals season.
Damn you finals, damn you to the deepest corner of Hades--you know the one where the tangent angle is 13 degrees? Yeah that one.
Damn you finals, damn you to the deepest corner of Hades--you know the one where the tangent angle is 13 degrees? Yeah that one.
Definitely a one. I don't see any of my friends outside of school. I just sit here in my room browsing the internet and playing video games. Sometimes, like today, I go out for walks down by the river near my house. Honestly, I wish I had someone to be close to and to trust, because I'm sort of going through that teenager phase where I don't trust my family as much as I should and it'd be nice to have someone to be able to enjoy myself with, y'know?
For the most part, I like the way that things are right now, but that's part of the problem. To be close to someone like this, I'd need someone who enjoys little things and is fine with repetitive activities like I do. Most people don't strike me as the type for these things, though.
For the most part, I like the way that things are right now, but that's part of the problem. To be close to someone like this, I'd need someone who enjoys little things and is fine with repetitive activities like I do. Most people don't strike me as the type for these things, though.
2
I narrowly escape the 1 by playing Pathfinder every other weekend with a small group of people.
I'm really just on an off year in another city before transfering to a college in america anyways so any bonds i tie here would be thin and easily snap once we all move to different parts of the world so i figured "why bother?".
At home it's probably borderline 6/7 though. I guess that's just what it's gonna be like once you move out of your hometown after almost 19 years.
I narrowly escape the 1 by playing Pathfinder every other weekend with a small group of people.
I'm really just on an off year in another city before transfering to a college in america anyways so any bonds i tie here would be thin and easily snap once we all move to different parts of the world so i figured "why bother?".
At home it's probably borderline 6/7 though. I guess that's just what it's gonna be like once you move out of your hometown after almost 19 years.
Probably 4. My mom doesn't let me get out much. And none of my friends seem to answer my texts, or message me when they want to hang out. My mom also isn't letting me move out next year--when I go to college--so I'm not sure I even have turning 18 and college to look foward to. The last three girls I "talked" to either started ignoring me or gave me the wrong number. But at least I have plenty of friends that I only ever communicate with in person, and never hang out with outside of school.
To be fair, I have four friends that I've known since I was like 10 that I still hang out with every once and a while.
To be fair, I have four friends that I've known since I was like 10 that I still hang out with every once and a while.
I'm about a 6 normally. I prefer to keep with 2-3 friends on a regular basis because university keeps me busy (and locates me far from most my friends) but thankfully I get to be with university friends during classes. Come the holidays when I'm with my partner we go up to an 8 or 9. We go out a lot with our friends but we're not much for the typical parties.
I don't know, the huge group gatherings just don't feel very 'social' to me, it's a lot harder to have a balanced and proper conversation with lots of people than it is to have one with 2 to 4 people. It's something I stopped doing as much since I finished highschool. My personal 10 moments would have to be when me, my partner and our two best friends get to spend the whole day together.
Assignments have piled up this week, so for the next fortnight or so I'm knocked down to a 2 or 3. D:
I don't know, the huge group gatherings just don't feel very 'social' to me, it's a lot harder to have a balanced and proper conversation with lots of people than it is to have one with 2 to 4 people. It's something I stopped doing as much since I finished highschool. My personal 10 moments would have to be when me, my partner and our two best friends get to spend the whole day together.
Assignments have piled up this week, so for the next fortnight or so I'm knocked down to a 2 or 3. D:
lol, i work full time, so that drops me below 5 automatically, the most i hang out w/people is twice a week (weekends). Not counting unusual weeks like vacation weeks and such. I try for once a week, normally, but don't always achieve that (I work nights so that's another detriment). So probably a few times a month, sometimes more. If an event is going on then the number jumps way up (PAX prime!).
I'm not counting hanging out online of course, i'm only including person to person.
I'm not counting hanging out online of course, i'm only including person to person.
Possibly a 3 or 4.
I talk with people at the place I volunteer at twice a week occasionally. And I do talk with some acquaintances at school whenever I get the chance.
I've recently gone out to In-n-Out with a couple of close friends that I haven't seen in a while. Hopefully we hang out more.
I talk with people at the place I volunteer at twice a week occasionally. And I do talk with some acquaintances at school whenever I get the chance.
I've recently gone out to In-n-Out with a couple of close friends that I haven't seen in a while. Hopefully we hang out more.
I think to see being social only as "hanging out" with friends is a mistake. I do see my friends quite often, my best friend is at my place probably 3-4 days of the week, on average. But then I have friends that I haven't seen in a while (one I haven't seen since mid last year), but I talk to at least a few times a week, usually through Facebook, Steam chat or a voice call and play some games together. Considering that's pretty much the same thing I do when I'm with y friends (talk and play games together) I don't see a difference.
So my rating? I'd say around a 7.
So my rating? I'd say around a 7.
About 3. I usually see my friends and/or cousins once a week. Other times we talk on Skype and play games, sometimes getting a multi-person commentary if I decide to record.
Fun. ^.^
Fun. ^.^
I guess 5.
That's perfectly fine with me. I have a close knit group of friends that I hang out with every so often, as well as a best friend who I usually see once a week.
I'm perfectly content with my social life.
That's perfectly fine with me. I have a close knit group of friends that I hang out with every so often, as well as a best friend who I usually see once a week.
I'm perfectly content with my social life.