Your views on bisexuality
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Me? I feel that some people like men...some people like women, and some people like both. In varying amounts. *shrug* So long as everything between such is consensual and all... not really my business what they get up to.
I'm bisexual too. So from experience:Everin said:I would love to hear your views on bisexuality. I recently 'accepted' (I put this in quotations because it's not like something I have to deal with, it's just something that was always there) the fact that I'm bisexual and I want to know a few things.
1) Would you tell people you were going to date?
2) How would you feel about this if someone told you?
3) Do you think that it's wrong to be bisexual?
Now I'm not trying to start fights, I just want your honest opinions on it.
1) Yeah if they have a problem with it then they aren't worth the time, it doesnt mean you want a man and a woman at the same time. Though people seem to like thinking that.
2) I'd be fine with it, wouldn't bother me at all.
3) Perfectly natural. Nice middle ground kinda place to be xD
Have funw ith it!
1) Probably not until it comes up. It's not as if it really matters or even has anything to do with the relationship.
2) Awesome. Three-some ho!
3) Ha, no. It's the one where you're fine to say "Yeah, it doesn't matter what gender the person I love is, as long as I love them," and nobody can look at you as if you're in denial or something.
2) Awesome. Three-some ho!
3) Ha, no. It's the one where you're fine to say "Yeah, it doesn't matter what gender the person I love is, as long as I love them," and nobody can look at you as if you're in denial or something.
1) It'd probably get brought up at some point
2) My girlfriend is bisexual, and my discovery of this wasn't really met with much of a reaction (other than part of me mentally noting down the increased potential for a threesome, and the fact that we can both agree when a girl walking by is hot). If it were a friend, I'd probably just be indifferent to it.
3) Nah. All the more power to you.
2) My girlfriend is bisexual, and my discovery of this wasn't really met with much of a reaction (other than part of me mentally noting down the increased potential for a threesome, and the fact that we can both agree when a girl walking by is hot). If it were a friend, I'd probably just be indifferent to it.
3) Nah. All the more power to you.
1. I dunno. I'm pretty shy about that sort of stuff, so unless they specifically ask, then no.
2. I'd be cool with it. In fact, I know I'd be cool with it, because my best friend told me he's bi a few months ago. Didn't bother me then nor does it now.
3. I think it's perfectly fine. Too bad many other people don't think like that.
2. I'd be cool with it. In fact, I know I'd be cool with it, because my best friend told me he's bi a few months ago. Didn't bother me then nor does it now.
3. I think it's perfectly fine. Too bad many other people don't think like that.
I am a bisexual guy dating a bisexual girl so take these answers with that in mind.
1. If they ask, just say it, if they can't handle it then you don't want to be with them anyway. That said, no need to go yelling it if you aren't asked. What matters is whether or not you are attracted to *them* not which gender(s) you are attracted to.
2. Nice to know, but if it was on a first date I'd be curious why they found it important to tell me without me asking.
3. Is it wrong to be short? tall? white? black?
1. If they ask, just say it, if they can't handle it then you don't want to be with them anyway. That said, no need to go yelling it if you aren't asked. What matters is whether or not you are attracted to *them* not which gender(s) you are attracted to.
2. Nice to know, but if it was on a first date I'd be curious why they found it important to tell me without me asking.
3. Is it wrong to be short? tall? white? black?
1) Would you tell people you were going to date?
Nah, just because I don't think that it's accepted in society enough yet.
2) How would you feel about this if someone told you?
By "someone," do you mean my girlfriend? Or a friend? Either way, I wouldn't care in the slightest, for the reason listed in #3.
3) Do you think that it's wrong to be bisexual?
Absolutely not. I think that EVERYONE is born bisexual (in much the same way that bonobo monkeys are), and, were it not for this Puritan bullshit, we'd be living much closer to the Greeks or Romans in terms of sexuality (which is, everything-goes). At least, for physical attachment. "A hole is a hole," and all that.
For emotional attachment, I'd say that in today's society I could only ever fall in love with a girl, but I can't say that would be the case if I grew up in a society where sexuality didn't exist (which, frankly, it shouldn't, and is a recent construction).
Nah, just because I don't think that it's accepted in society enough yet.
2) How would you feel about this if someone told you?
By "someone," do you mean my girlfriend? Or a friend? Either way, I wouldn't care in the slightest, for the reason listed in #3.
3) Do you think that it's wrong to be bisexual?
Absolutely not. I think that EVERYONE is born bisexual (in much the same way that bonobo monkeys are), and, were it not for this Puritan bullshit, we'd be living much closer to the Greeks or Romans in terms of sexuality (which is, everything-goes). At least, for physical attachment. "A hole is a hole," and all that.
For emotional attachment, I'd say that in today's society I could only ever fall in love with a girl, but I can't say that would be the case if I grew up in a society where sexuality didn't exist (which, frankly, it shouldn't, and is a recent construction).
There are no true wrong answers in the human experience unless it involves 'kill them all and burn down the village', what happens in your bedroom or between your mates is on you guys. It's not like a school yard where a gal/guy you dated onces will point at you in a crowd and her/his friends will begin laughing histerically, and even if it did, screw her/him, she/he's immature.
1) Sure go right ahead, just dont make a big deal of it like at the end of dinner turn somber and tell her/him in the same tone that you'd tell her/him that you ran over their dog or got bone cancer.
2) If someone told me, I'd be okay with it, especially if I was dating them, I am a open-minded straight man and if she told me she was also in to broads, that'd be awesome. I cannot tell you the flip side because I am not a gal, ya know.
3) Wrong? No. For my experience there have been three types of bisexual I've talked to (could be more, this is just from me). Theres the "I hate my parents so I rebel" Bisexual, the "I am still finding myself out, experimental" bisexual, and then theres the "Tried, true, dyed in blue" Bisexual. I can honestly say I only have a problem with the first one, because no one ought to do these kind of things out of hate or to get a rise out of others.
1) Sure go right ahead, just dont make a big deal of it like at the end of dinner turn somber and tell her/him in the same tone that you'd tell her/him that you ran over their dog or got bone cancer.
2) If someone told me, I'd be okay with it, especially if I was dating them, I am a open-minded straight man and if she told me she was also in to broads, that'd be awesome. I cannot tell you the flip side because I am not a gal, ya know.
3) Wrong? No. For my experience there have been three types of bisexual I've talked to (could be more, this is just from me). Theres the "I hate my parents so I rebel" Bisexual, the "I am still finding myself out, experimental" bisexual, and then theres the "Tried, true, dyed in blue" Bisexual. I can honestly say I only have a problem with the first one, because no one ought to do these kind of things out of hate or to get a rise out of others.
1) If they asked, I'd tell them. Tbh its just another fact about a person, perhaps conversation fodder.
2)Depends. I used to think I'd not really care if someone told me. But then my crush told me she thinks she may be bi and that made me feel kinda sad.
3)Nah. More power to choice.
2)Depends. I used to think I'd not really care if someone told me. But then my crush told me she thinks she may be bi and that made me feel kinda sad.
3)Nah. More power to choice.
I have nothing against bisexual people. It's just another descriptor to me except for one thing. I won't date a bi girl if I can help it(obviously if she doesn't tell me, it's out of my hands). I stay as far away from them as I can because they come with the built in cheating excuse. There will always be an itch I can't scratch for her simply because I can't be both a man and a woman.
I am bi myself, so I'm more than accepting, also:
1. I told my girlfriend I'm bi, she's cool with it.
2. I wouldn't mind (besides guys, think about it, if your girl is bi, you have a better chance
at a threesome)
3. Considering that I, myself, am bi, I don't believe it's wrong. As mentioned in Avenue Q, if
you're gay (or, in this case, go both ways), that's okay.
1. I told my girlfriend I'm bi, she's cool with it.
2. I wouldn't mind (besides guys, think about it, if your girl is bi, you have a better chance
at a threesome)
3. Considering that I, myself, am bi, I don't believe it's wrong. As mentioned in Avenue Q, if
you're gay (or, in this case, go both ways), that's okay.
1) Yes
2) Neutral. I'm 18, so about 50% of all the girls I know are in their bi-curious phase right now.
3) No, because it is my life long mission to sex up every person on the planet, and if the majority were to be bisexual, it would only serve to help my cause.
2) Neutral. I'm 18, so about 50% of all the girls I know are in their bi-curious phase right now.
3) No, because it is my life long mission to sex up every person on the planet, and if the majority were to be bisexual, it would only serve to help my cause.
1) Yes, but telling them as soon as I met them might be a bit awkward. It would need to be a logical time to say it. People don't randomly say "Hey, I'm straight!"
2) If they're a guy, I'd probably want to go out with them. If they're not, I wouldn't care, really. Bisexual people are fine and I'd be happy that they accepted it.
3) Nope. I'm gay, so it would be stupid if I did.
2) If they're a guy, I'd probably want to go out with them. If they're not, I wouldn't care, really. Bisexual people are fine and I'd be happy that they accepted it.
3) Nope. I'm gay, so it would be stupid if I did.
They are attracted to both sexes, to various degrees. I get it perfectly -- men and women are anatomically pretty similar, and there are sexy features of both.Dark Prophet said: