Your views on bisexuality

[Dark Prophet]

I don't think it's wrong, I just don't fucking get it, I get gay men although if I see 2 men making out in public it makes me feel kinda uneasy and I get lesbians seeing lesbians making out makes me less uneasy and it's rather nice if they are hot, don't judge me, but bisexuals I just don't fucking get.

They are attracted to both sexes, to various degrees. I get it perfectly -- men and women are anatomically pretty similar, and there are sexy features of both.

Maybe that's the reason, because to me men and women are pretty fucking different and if you like one how can you also like other also I am probably as colse 0 as humanly possible and it is not helping me to understand the bisexual thing one bit.

 

[MasterOfHisOwnDomain]

Maybe that's the reason, because to me men and women are pretty fucking different and if you like one how can you also like other [...]

Because they aren't mutually exclusive. For instance, I'm gay, but I get why women's bodies are sexy -- there's curves, boobs etc. But still, men have a different kind of body, but it's not "less sexy" because it's different. Not sure how much this helps to explain... but... it's hard to get it across!

 

[Dark Prophet]

Maybe that's the reason, because to me men and women are pretty fucking different and if you like one how can you also like other [...]

Because they aren't mutually exclusive. For instance, I'm gay, but I get why women's bodies are sexy -- there's curves, boobs etc. But still, men have a different kind of body, but it's not "less sexy" because it's different. Not sure how much this helps to explain... but... it's hard to get it across!

You are right it dosen't and I'm afraid makes me sound like bigoted asshole but yeah the rational acknowledgement that someone is sexy dosen't make me want to fuck them so I still don't get it and think it's kinda wierd. And btw men can also have curves and boobs =)

 

[Rose and Thorn]

I would love to hear your views on bisexuality. I recently 'accepted' (I put this in quotations because it's not like something I have to deal with, it's just something that was always there) the fact that I'm bisexual and I want to know a few things.
1) Would you tell people you were going to date?
2) How would you feel about this if someone told you?
3) Do you think that it's wrong to be bisexual?

Now I'm not trying to start fights, I just want your honest opinions on it.

I think if I called myself a Bisexual that would just be an easy way to put myself into a category if I didn't feel like discussing it to someone. Truth is I am not a Bisexual as it isn't just as simple as, "I like boys and girls". There are some *people* in the world I have liked and fallen in love with, their gender doesn't really play a part except for having sexual intercourse. You could call me a Pansexual I suppose as it is closer, but most people don't seem to know what it means. Instead I just call myself Rose and let people think of me, judge me and love me in any shape or form they want to.

1) No, if I am on a date with a female I don't see it important to tell them if I was romantically seeing a male a few months ago. If I fall in love with this person I am on a date with then my sexuality will be them, I won't love males or females only them...until they cheat on me of course.

2) If someone told me that they are bisexual then all I would really get from that is that they are more open-minded generally. Unless I had a crush on someone of the same sex as me, than them telling me they were Bi would mean something else.

3) No its not wrong, and people that think its wrong or have to ask if its wrong usually aren't open-minded enough or even smart enough to sit with me. *Not meant as an insult*

 

[sharinganblossom25]

1) Well, if you really wanted the person you were dating to meet your family and friends, then I suppose it would have to come up sometime.
2) My step-brother actually told me that he was bisexual. His mom is extremely Christian, so of course she's against it. And my dad isn't the most open-minded person in the world, so he says that my step-brother's going through a "phase". I, on the other hand, am totally cool with it. As long as he's happy, I'm happy.
3) It's definitely okay to be bisexual. It's your life; you choose who you want to be in it.

 

[Link55]

For me it really doesn't matter if they think it's right then it's totally fine. Now if someone is going to try doin somethin to make them feel bad then there's goin to be a problem goin on.