Your views on Underage Sex?

[DarthFennec]

I think it's fine. Any consenting sex two 15 year olds want to have with each other is perfectly fine, why wouldn't it be? I'm not 15, and I don't have any 15 year old kids, so it wouldn't concern me. And I have no right to tell people what to do or what not to do if it doesn't concern me. It's up to them. But if I were to give them advice, it would be to use some kind of protection. Taking care of a three year old at 18 or 19 really kind of sucks, I would imagine.

 

[mega48man]

as long as it's consentual and both parties have passed purbity. i don't wanna see any 10 year old's gettin blow from 9 year old sally across the street.

and kids, where protection, or you're fucked.

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[Dethenger]

I don't care if kids fuck young. When they hit puberty, sex is going to be a thing. If we educate them about it properly, as opposed to just using a scare tactic and abstinence only sex ed. curriculum, it should be fine. I think the formula age/2 + 7 works as a general rule, and the age of consent should be 14, and no lower than 14.

 

[Tommeh Brownleh]

I think not only underaged sex should be outlawed, I think sex should completely be outlawed, and performing the act should be punishable by the death sentence. I HATE people, and the less likely it is that more of them are made, the better.

 

[VincentX3]

I've been having sex since 15 so I've had a lot of nice views

 

[General BrEeZy]

they're ruining their understanding of how relationships are supposed to form. BIG TIME. all of my good friends that had sex before basically graduating high school all wish they hadn't. they say that its basically perspective-altering. and once something like sex has occurred, you kinda just...it loses color. and not only that, but the women they had sex with didnt prove to be the long relationship type. and sex is supposed to be something between you and the one. which none of them were, and it hurt them all BAD.

i mean, maybe that person is the one for you.....idk. just seriously, if you're a teenager, you have a TON to learn, and its best not to bury yourself with these very powerful emotions. focus on school and stuff. because seriously, this isn't a time of your life to mess up...especially with a kid or something (SO DO IT SAFE IF YOU DO IT AT ALL!!!!!)....
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k, im done.

 

[ArchAngelKira]

They do it and then brag about how "good" they were. It obnoxious to say the least, I mean loving someone is one thing but bragging about it is another. Heres an idea "Do it and keep saying your a virgin until someone realizes your not. Test the intelligents of people while your at it, its entertaining."

 

[krseyffert]

If both parties consent completely than I have no issue with it provided the age difference is within the bounds set up by that equation that I can't recall at the moment.

The thing is that the younger they get the harder it is to be sure that consent is really there, as they might not be in a position to make informed decisions. As a flat limit I'd have to say 14 is what I'd be ok with, 13's a little weird and anything lower leaves me feeling uneasy.

if it's the same equation i'm thinking of, then it's y=x/2 +7
x being the age of the older party, and y being the age of the younger party.

 

[CatsAttackAgain]

As long as those involved understand the risks and consequences then go ahead. Wear a condom and take the pill. Just don't go climbing into any windowless van.

 

[The Gnome King]

What's your view on underage sex, then?
It can be anywhere from sluts going around doing it in the toilets with three people a day, or mature rational 15 year olds (I say 15 as it's close to 16 - legal age here) who have talked about it a lot, and decided that as long as they're very very careful, then it's a good thing, as they believe they're in love.
Do you find both situations to be the same? Both unacceptable as the law is the law, or both fine as it's their lives?
Basically, what do you think on the matter?

Edit: I just saw how this could appear. I'm only asking because we had to sit through an assembly at school on it, and I was wondering about your opinions.

From personal experience, I lost my virginity at age 14 and was having sex quite a bit in high school.

Some of the fondest memories of those days since High School sucked otherwise.

 

[Divine Miss Bee]

i don't believe in it, though i used to. i started at 12 and regretted giving so much of myself away. i was used and used others. i hated myself, and created a stronger taboo against sex in my head-i never saw it as a healthy expression of love until very recently. so when i started seeing my current boyfriend, we did fool around a bit, but i waited until he turned 17 (legal age where we live) to sleep with him.

everyone who says it's the fault of the parents and that people have to deal with the consequences, i get where you're coming from. but education sucks, and it always has. parents, despite having produced children, don't know that much better than anyone else what's "right" about sex. in a perfect world, people would know how to talk about it. but this world is a flawed batch of mistakes, and people keep making the same mistakes. so i think it is good that there are laws. even if people are deterred for legal reasons, it still serves as a deterrent until they are old enough to have put some thought into it.

 

[The-Epicly-Named-Man]

Legal age here is 17, and only the male is charged if two minors have sex.
I agree with the first part, but the second part's bullocks. Not that the law stops underage sex here or that the male isn't the one who coerced the other into it.

 

[2733]

there is a kiddy porn joke here but I'm a better person then that. (well I pretend to be better anyway) Back on topic, I think that anyone younger then 18 is a kid, and most 18 year olds are as well. And, in general, kids shouldn't have sex. I can't stop then and it isn't might right to if I could, but I remember being 16. I was an idiot at 16 and I was the brightest of my group, so kiddys, keep your pants up, as you can always have sex later.

 

[Sethzard]

As long as both of them are consenting then it's fine but I think that abortions should be compulsory before the end of their school career.

 

[Philip Petrunak]

Kids do stupid things. If they're gonna do something stupid, they might as well learn how to do it much safer.

 

[DarklordKyo]

So long as they genuinely love each other, are within a 5 year age range at most, and use protaction, I got no problem with it.

 

[Raika]

It happens all the time and nothing you do or say will stop it from happening all the time. Deal with it.

 

[SenseOfTumour]

The two things I'd get rid of, if I could wave a magic wand, are the crazy pressure guys have (I can't speak for the female side) to lose their virginity, it seems you're supposed to get back up a vagina about 3 minutes after you first fell out of one, and life would be a lot easier if everyone wasn't lying about having got some, and making everyone feel like they're the only one lying about getting some.

Secondly is the ridiculous amount of 'pedo' nonsense around someone having sex with a 15 year old. Sure, Berlusconi should be checked out if he's been banging teenagers at 70+, but two people in a relationship, the male shouldn't end up on a lifetime sex register and criminal record, just because they didn't want to hold out for an arbitrary birthday to pass by.

I do agree with an age limit between 16-18 however, as while it's irrelevant to maturity and unenforcable in the main, it at least provides a line in the sand to aim for.

 

[6037084]

We'll I'm going to have to go with my country's laws here and say that 14+ is fine