I have a friend who is 16 and is dating a 21 year old. How old or young would you go if you were 16? also at your current age your high/low
You're 16. How high/ low will you go?
- Thread starter Officer Crayon
- Start date
Recommended Videos
In my opinion, the only reason age matters is legal repercussions. Given that I'm currently 20, the lowest would be 18 and the highest would be like...not dead? Of course, this is assuming a romantic relationship as opposed to a sexual relationship which I would be opposed to getting involved in.
I wouldn't go 21 if I was sixteen. There are laws and I wouldn't want to get someone in trouble for the age gap without adulthood.
This person speaks what I can only assume to be the one stance of the reasonable person.zedel said:
That 21 year old is either very immature or a fucking creep.
Or both.
As for me? I didn't date around 16. Not that I didn't try... but I'm kind of glad I didn't. My first real relationship was at 19, my first INTENSE relationship was at 21. I feel like if I was 16/18 respectively, it would have ended badly.
I also wouldn't have dated a 21 year old girl at age 16.
Because that is fucking creepy.
On average, the maturity difference between those ages is immense.
Or both.
As for me? I didn't date around 16. Not that I didn't try... but I'm kind of glad I didn't. My first real relationship was at 19, my first INTENSE relationship was at 21. I feel like if I was 16/18 respectively, it would have ended badly.
I also wouldn't have dated a 21 year old girl at age 16.
Because that is fucking creepy.
On average, the maturity difference between those ages is immense.
After a certain age gap it can be difficult to relate to someone. Especially when you're in the adolescent/post-adolescent type phases. Once you hit your mid 20's and are more or less a 'grownup' an age gap of even 10 years isn't too big a deal cuz you have the same concerns and goals. etc.
When I was 16 all the girls I dated were anywhere from 15-19. I almost always dated girls pretty close in age to me. The biggest gap was when I was 21 or 22 I dated a girl who was 30.
A weird thought occurred to me that if you're 16 i'm a few months from being 'twice your age'
I feel old.
When I was 16 all the girls I dated were anywhere from 15-19. I almost always dated girls pretty close in age to me. The biggest gap was when I was 21 or 22 I dated a girl who was 30.
A weird thought occurred to me that if you're 16 i'm a few months from being 'twice your age'
I feel old.
Yup, pretty much that.ZeroMachine said:
As soon as you turn 14 there is a magical golden rule (atleast in my eyes) that everyone should follow. Half your age plus 7
Well I am 15 and I would go for any 15-16 year old. Now lets just hope some miracle happens where it will actually happen.
At 16, I liked it where it is about now, no more then 4 years older then me, and no one younger then a year younger then me. Sorry guys, I just find the younger the guy I date (younger then me) the more I think that they are immature. I'm 19 And I'm Dating a 23 Year old, which is fine by me.
