Hokay, straight to the point.
Obviously, I like this girl...But there are a few problems. The biggest being age. I've always told myself no younger than 2 years below me, because I just don't think that a big age gap is right. But, alas, I met with this girl anyway ( She's 14, I'm 19 ) just to walk about town, 'cause it couldn't hurt to stroll about and talk ( Didn't have much else to do ). This is where it got weird for me. She's tall and incredibly mature for her age and also really awesome. We were both laughing and getting on really well. So, against my better judgement we met up again and she got all cuddly and stuffsh. Now, I didn't mind as much, because in all fairness I really like her - but in the back of my head I was still thinking "God, she's 14 this isn't right!?".
We've been talking for a few weeks before we met up,and it's just started dawning on me now how much I like her - but I'm resilient in the fact that she is 5 years my younger and it just seems weird too me. I like her, but I'm hesitant to go to anything over friends because she's so young.
So, I'd appreciate your opinions on this. 'Cause I'm 50/50 on it at the moment and to be honest, I'd be too embarrassed to tell/speak to any of my friends about it.
EDIT: To clarify, she is the one pushing it. With quips about "Age doesn't matter" and asking to meet up. I'm being a little resilient, because hell, I don't want to go to prison! xD
Obviously, I like this girl...But there are a few problems. The biggest being age. I've always told myself no younger than 2 years below me, because I just don't think that a big age gap is right. But, alas, I met with this girl anyway ( She's 14, I'm 19 ) just to walk about town, 'cause it couldn't hurt to stroll about and talk ( Didn't have much else to do ). This is where it got weird for me. She's tall and incredibly mature for her age and also really awesome. We were both laughing and getting on really well. So, against my better judgement we met up again and she got all cuddly and stuffsh. Now, I didn't mind as much, because in all fairness I really like her - but in the back of my head I was still thinking "God, she's 14 this isn't right!?".
We've been talking for a few weeks before we met up,and it's just started dawning on me now how much I like her - but I'm resilient in the fact that she is 5 years my younger and it just seems weird too me. I like her, but I'm hesitant to go to anything over friends because she's so young.
So, I'd appreciate your opinions on this. 'Cause I'm 50/50 on it at the moment and to be honest, I'd be too embarrassed to tell/speak to any of my friends about it.
EDIT: To clarify, she is the one pushing it. With quips about "Age doesn't matter" and asking to meet up. I'm being a little resilient, because hell, I don't want to go to prison! xD