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"Give me your number, maybe we'll do coffee/hang around/do stuff." How complicated can it be? She ain't dumb; she'll know what you want from her. Girls know that if you talk to her and she doesn't know you, odds are it's because you're attracted to her and want to get to know her more...

Y This. You can be friends with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, but only when the past is firmly put behind (and even then exes are ideal as hook-ups or cheating paramour just because of the rememberance of the feelings and the good times), but not when you are a jilted suitor. It's...

Muse on this, guys. Within the first seconds of meeting you, a girl knows and has decided if she's willing to give you a shot or not, if she's willing to give you access to her time and attention or not, if she's opening the door for you or not. If she isn't, there's nothing you can do...

I'll be mean and direct : In a majority of friend zone cases, that troll Onjenae is right. However she/he/it worded it to sting rather than provide a reality check. I'll provide the reality check. Yet it remains: often the guy who is crushing on a girl and ends up friend-zoned, has few...

Nice guy is a nice guy is a nice guy is a nice guy. When the main qualitative of a guy by other girls that he is "nice", it means he has no spark that drives women attracted. Even something like "this guy is an asshole" or "he can be such a brat sometimes" is better than "being nice". At least...

There's already a word for that in English: a wimp. "Symp" is also good, and it's already in use colloqually. Oh, and this article is 100% WingedIncubus approved, except that this time it's a woman speaking the truth. It's harsh, but it's a reality check. Of course, saying to a bunch of...

And if you had seen the original, you'd see that it's VERY implied that Amy likes it - when it's Charlie. The other reason would be that it's because she doesn't think David can defend her, or even defend himself, or that he will even move a finger about it. She basically sees him as a "nice...

Don't feel disgusted, do you think your wife feels disgusted when she checks up hot guys she encounters in the street? Looking is fine, but they are jailbaits so don't EVER jump the fence. I'd keep my mouth shut about it and admit nothing, it's your secret garden. Talk with her about how it's...

Who cares what she thinks in that case? It's your eyes, it's your libido, glance at her without shame. You give way too much importance in how she "might feel" or she "might react", when in fact it's her choice to dress up like that. You guys are so afraid of women, it's not possible. When...

They're remaking Straw Dogs? Why? I mean, wasn't Peckinpah's original version gritty and harsh enough, that's it worth ruining it down with fameless B-movie actors? At least put good character actors in this.

I'm a "jerk" now and proud of it, proud of what I have become. "Jerk" is such a misnomer, it's just being fun, honest, bold, fearless a little rough, and unpredictable. You don't need to be a gangbanger or a thug to tease girls, approach them to start conversation and get to know what makes them...

I can understand how it can freak you out, it's too much. Imagine, some women have been propositioned on their second date! If you're not feeling them, just say no. If they don't get the message, just tell them to piss off. You have no obligation to explain anything to anyone.

Men aren't as subtle as women are, they say right what they feel. He told you why, he doesn't feel any attraction for you, he doesn't know why, and he is taking a break from you. I have an inkling why: the passion is now gone, and he has noticed that, beyond this, there is no attachment for...

And by the way, what is the difference between you and the "jerk"? The "jerk" isn't afraid to ask her out and bust her balls, she is having fun and excitement with him. You are, and she is neither having fun nor excitement.

Hence why it is better to show interest from the get-go, rather than be stuck in a friendship crushing on some poor girl because you lack the balls to ask. It's not her fault, it's your fault. Why is it so complicated? Why is it that guys are so scared to just ask the girl out for a juice or...