For future reference, being nihilistic and apathetic doesn't make you cool. It makes you annoying.
And say whatever you want about the Afghani political situation, by if my beloved brother, father or son had been on that helicopter... yes, I'd probably agree that he'd know the risks when he enlisted, that he'd been aware of the dangers, that as a soldier, he'd been placing his life on the line on a daily basis.
I'd also miss him a lot. A hell of a lot. As would his mother, father, brothers, sisters, cousins, grandparents, sons, daughters, friends... it's the butterfly effect at work. A life cut short, a friend wiped from the face of the Earth. So show some fucking respect, regardless of political agenda or general outlook on life.
At the same time, I don't believe in double standards regarding Afghan (or any) lives. If you're going to show respect, show respect both ways. Don't dehumanise the enemy... they may appear misguided to us, but they're fighting for what they believe in too, almost certainly more-so than Western troops. Are they inferior because their beliefs differ? Their actions? Remember that life is hard throughout much the Middle East, at times almost incompatible with our Western way of thinking. Al-Qaeda may have stuck the 9/11 blow, and in no way am I saying that retaliation was uncalled for or unjust, but please stop acting like propaganda posters.
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In summary, war is shit. Death is shit. People fighting other people is shit. U.S. Americans fighting Afghans and causing/taking casualties is shit. Utter shit.
I tell you what, if I knew that I'd end up dying on a patch of Earth in my country's name, only to be remembered solely as a soulless Nazi who gleefully massacred Jews, or an idiotic pawn fighting for no discernible reason other than the benefit of his/her corrupt and underhanded government, or the "pwned" victim of a certain mass-murdering Finnish sharpshooter, or an impure, incompetent and cowardly Persian infantryman utterly outclassed by a few hundred pure, half-naked supermen in red capes... well, nobody who's ever sacrificed their life for something they've believed in deserves that.
As Escapists, as insightful, intelligent people, please show some respect. God knows that plenty of others will be disrespectful enough in our stead.