I'm 37, grew up playing the C64, Spectrum, and AmstradCPC - plus the older consoles like the Atari2600. Really, I don't think I'm neglected at all, but I do play a very diverse range of games and have lots of platforms (PC,Mac,iPad,360,PS3,Vita,DS,Wii).
Most recently, I've been playing Battlefield3, Legend of Grimrock, and Trials Evolution. I completed Skyrim and am kinda waiting on expansion packs before I play much more of it, my character is about as bad ass as he can get but the decent quests have all been done. I used to play a lot of RockBand2, but that kinda played out, they destroyed all the fun that was in RB2 - seems that selling peripherals is more important than providing a solid game, that's why the franchise is all but dead... I'd rather just have RB2 with more songs, it doesn't need anything else IMO - more songs and less rape with the DLC costs.
I have a great time playing Battlefield3, I feel that on a whole, there aren't many annoying players compared to other online games. I tend to always have a good game, I play practically every night for at least an hour. Trials Evolution is awesome, it's addictive and challenging, and when you get to the finish and get gold, well it's a good sense of achievement, because I probably had to try about 30 times to get there.
Anyone who remembers the old 90's dungeon crawlers (Dungeon Master, Captive, Bloodwych, EyeOfTheBeholder etc) should buy Legend of Grimrock - it's so much like Dungeon Master from the ST/Amiga days, but with modern visuals. That is one pretty challenging game as well. Old school and caters right for 30-somethings who remember having to buy graph paper for drawing maps.
Something else I've taken to, is my iCade controller, it's like a little arcade machine for your iPad, gives a decent quality joystick and buttons, and more and more games support it. For instance the Midway/Atari etc arcade games, and the C64 and Spectrum emulators support it. Theres a Spectrum emulator and 101 games for £8.99 - very nicely put together and it has most of my old favorites - playing these games with a clicky microswitch joystick does them justice. I guess you could call me a nostalgic gamer, and if anything I'd say I was spoilt for choice these days - although that is relatively new, with the appreciation for retro games growing.