Cleril said:
The user you quoted stated she was not using him for casual sex, the sex was just the lure. A decent human being would not be performing oral on you within the first few hours of meeting you even if all they wanted was casual sex. She's being far too open just for casual sex, that's the red flag, and his need for sex is her sinker.
I have female friends who have directly told me they would do the same thing to a guy they have barely just met. Is my female friends not decent then? Sure they are, but just like everyone else they have sexual drives, and if they see a sexy guy, they'll go for it if they get the chance.
Likewise, most guys can look at a girl for one second and decide they'd fuck her if they could. Women can occasionally do the same, although it is far more rare. Some girls just have a very casual approach to sex, and if they see a guy they like they go for it. And yes they can be decent at the same time.
Is oral a lure? Sure, it is, you are right about that, but fact of the matter is you don't know jack s*** about WHY she lures him, you are just making assumptions there. It might just be because she likes him. Sure, I'd advice caution, but I'll also say this to you: You aren't as good at judging others as you think you are. There is no standards regarding "red flags" in this kind of scenario. Every human being has different motivations.
In fact, given her honesty about her parents, her record and the fact that she was willing to buy him a drink, I'd say it's because she wants him, because in my experience, it's very rarely a great idea to put all your cards on the table if you want to lure someone into something (or want something). It rather signals someone who wants to be honest, which for people who had a bad lifestyle usually means they're trying to get out of it or for once wants to try something thats REAL to them.
That guy J-e-f-f-e-r-s said earlier that there are too many 'if's and 'why's to conclude anything about the girl. I'm going to have to disagree with him. There is plenty of information to judge the girl. But your judgement went completely in the wrong direction if you ask me.