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I'd be very careful with this one good sir. If you're going to talk to her, make sure you're both on the same page about the relationship bit. The whole asking about if you've got a girlfriend is really kind of offsetting. From the sounds of it, she's looking to start one and you're looking to stay away from one. Not the best combination for people to get into...
The family issues don't really help the situation there as well. If I were in your shoes, I'd say just wait it out dude. If you're starting out in a college or university, you're much better off trying to find a girl there and getting something a little more meaningful out of it.
If ya do wind up going for it though, like everybody's said, just be careful about it. Be sure to be well protected and make sure you tell her what it is you're looking for out of it. If you don't want the relationship afterwards, make sure she isn't looking for one too. It'll save ya from all kinds of awkward situations.
The family issues don't really help the situation there as well. If I were in your shoes, I'd say just wait it out dude. If you're starting out in a college or university, you're much better off trying to find a girl there and getting something a little more meaningful out of it.
If ya do wind up going for it though, like everybody's said, just be careful about it. Be sure to be well protected and make sure you tell her what it is you're looking for out of it. If you don't want the relationship afterwards, make sure she isn't looking for one too. It'll save ya from all kinds of awkward situations.
My advice is go with it.
If she wants you for casual sex for a week, then you get to do a pleasurable act with her for a week. If she wants something longer then great.
Importantly however don't let sex get in the way of your judgement. If you find out she is trying to use you for something (car/house/money/babies/crime/etc) you should leave her.
/advice.
Well, they tell you never stick it in a crazy, but it is on occasion hilarious.
If she wants you for casual sex for a week, then you get to do a pleasurable act with her for a week. If she wants something longer then great.
Importantly however don't let sex get in the way of your judgement. If you find out she is trying to use you for something (car/house/money/babies/crime/etc) you should leave her.
/advice.
Well, they tell you never stick it in a crazy, but it is on occasion hilarious.
Classy being a MASSIVE understatement, but yes, pretty much that, she doesn't seem worth it and trust me kid, it's better to find someone stable.Aur0ra145 said:
EDIT: Nice eye avatar (points at auro). Got quite a huge collection from deviantart. Yes, I like eyes that look like diamonds painted by random hobos. So sue me, you got your fetishes, I got mine.
Really? I mean really? You actually have to ask that? First get yourself tested. Second Don't ever let your cock do the thinking for you. That's why we got brains. Seriously run away from this chick she sounds like nothing but trouble and regret of the worst kinds. Go home, Jerk off, and read an intelligent book, for fucks sake. This girl will bring you nothing but sorrow and pain.
Also Never listen to any advice given in the form of a internet meme of any kind! You will not receive any sympathy whatsoever when you fuck up your life.
Also Never listen to any advice given in the form of a internet meme of any kind! You will not receive any sympathy whatsoever when you fuck up your life.
Above: The worst advice ever given in the history mankind. (well it's at least in the top five.)genericusername64 said:I have one piece of advice to give you from a google image search.
If this was happening in the U.S., she'd already have added 'statutory rape' to existing charges. Depending on what state it was in.
Unless you were literally talking for 5-6 hours and discovered you had all kinds of shit in common (in which case I would suspect she was just saying "me too!"), I'd say she's unpredictable with a 70% chance of rain and daddy issues.
On the other hand, it does sound like Foster Mom was looking out for her in a pretty slick way, which may mean there have been previous incidents with other guys.
I'm torn between wanting to tell you to throw her number away, or keep it to call her in a month or so. She might be damaged goods, but they need friends too. Before they create the imaginary kind.
Unless you were literally talking for 5-6 hours and discovered you had all kinds of shit in common (in which case I would suspect she was just saying "me too!"), I'd say she's unpredictable with a 70% chance of rain and daddy issues.
On the other hand, it does sound like Foster Mom was looking out for her in a pretty slick way, which may mean there have been previous incidents with other guys.
I'm torn between wanting to tell you to throw her number away, or keep it to call her in a month or so. She might be damaged goods, but they need friends too. Before they create the imaginary kind.
I'd say ask her out on a date first, try not to rush things like she did. You don't know what this girl is like, so it might be better to get an idea of what's happening before you do anything.
Keep it in your pants, for now.
But I must say, it is an tempting offer. She sounds wild and crazy, the hot kind of crazy.
Keep it in your pants, for now.
But I must say, it is an tempting offer. She sounds wild and crazy, the hot kind of crazy.
Go nuts i say.
Also, i hope you realise the irony that you've said twice to not read if your under 18, and you're 17... did you write this with your eyes closed? I see WHY you said it, but it still makes me chuckle.
Also, i hope you realise the irony that you've said twice to not read if your under 18, and you're 17... did you write this with your eyes closed? I see WHY you said it, but it still makes me chuckle.
I have female friends who have directly told me they would do the same thing to a guy they have barely just met. Is my female friends not decent then? Sure they are, but just like everyone else they have sexual drives, and if they see a sexy guy, they'll go for it if they get the chance.Cleril said:
Likewise, most guys can look at a girl for one second and decide they'd fuck her if they could. Women can occasionally do the same, although it is far more rare. Some girls just have a very casual approach to sex, and if they see a guy they like they go for it. And yes they can be decent at the same time.
Is oral a lure? Sure, it is, you are right about that, but fact of the matter is you don't know jack s*** about WHY she lures him, you are just making assumptions there. It might just be because she likes him. Sure, I'd advice caution, but I'll also say this to you: You aren't as good at judging others as you think you are. There is no standards regarding "red flags" in this kind of scenario. Every human being has different motivations.
In fact, given her honesty about her parents, her record and the fact that she was willing to buy him a drink, I'd say it's because she wants him, because in my experience, it's very rarely a great idea to put all your cards on the table if you want to lure someone into something (or want something). It rather signals someone who wants to be honest, which for people who had a bad lifestyle usually means they're trying to get out of it or for once wants to try something thats REAL to them.
That guy J-e-f-f-e-r-s said earlier that there are too many 'if's and 'why's to conclude anything about the girl. I'm going to have to disagree with him. There is plenty of information to judge the girl. But your judgement went completely in the wrong direction if you ask me.
