A Moral Conundrum for you guys, Would you sleep with a married person? (READ THE OP BEFORE POSTING)
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I'd just look for some less complicated sex. No need to screw over some poor bloke, nor screw his wife. If it was a one-off mistake, it'll never affect her love life, and if she's the kind of person who would try something like that again, I imagine she'd be found out with or without my involvement. Thus, I'll just bid her farewell.
Exactly.Leon Declis said:
If they're going to cheat, why not go along with it?
And I doubt they're going to never do it again if they get told "no" once.
I'd stop and tell her to GTFO. I don't like cheaters and want no part in any infidelity. It's not going to stop them from going out again and finding the guy who doesn't care, but that guy isn't me.
Even in the off chance the spouse was okay with it, it would just weird me right the f*ck out.
Even in the off chance the spouse was okay with it, it would just weird me right the f*ck out.
So this woman cheats, dumps her husband for you and then you end up dumping her in turn some time later.Kroxile said:
LOFuckingL!!
So basically, she fucked around on her husband for nothing. Hope she still considers it worth it while her ex husband has no doubt moved on with another wife.
This was very mood boosting!
I'd have a talk with her about why she is trying to cheat on her husband. Depending on the reason, like if she's being abused or something, then maybe.
I'd like to say I wouldn't. I would hate if the person I trusted went out and did that and I wouldn't want to be the guy who sort of supported that.
On the one hand, she's going to cheat anyways. If not with me, then someone else. And if it's a one time thing, who will know?
On the other hand, if it's me, and the guy DOES find out, then he might decide that I look better with broken knees and maybe pay me a visit.
Overall, I'd like to think I wouldn't. BUT, this scenario is when things are getting serious. In the heat of the moment, I have no idea what I would do. I'd like to think I'd decline, leave/get them to leave, crank it alone and then kind of be done with it and not have anything to do with it, but it might be thrilling to go for it, although it could be risky. I'd rather not though if my brain would let me think for itself during that time.
On the one hand, she's going to cheat anyways. If not with me, then someone else. And if it's a one time thing, who will know?
On the other hand, if it's me, and the guy DOES find out, then he might decide that I look better with broken knees and maybe pay me a visit.
Overall, I'd like to think I wouldn't. BUT, this scenario is when things are getting serious. In the heat of the moment, I have no idea what I would do. I'd like to think I'd decline, leave/get them to leave, crank it alone and then kind of be done with it and not have anything to do with it, but it might be thrilling to go for it, although it could be risky. I'd rather not though if my brain would let me think for itself during that time.
It's funny that apparently outing a cheating spouse is more cuntish behavior than participating in the cheating...Skratt said:
That being said, I don't much care if I'm thought of as a vindictive *****. kinda like so many people have admitted they don't give a shit if people consider them scum for helping someone cheat, eh? Even and all of that? Considering I'd probably hate someone like that in real life, it's probably apt they wouldn't like me either.
And sure there's a reason to play "hero" as you so call it. So that way, the cheater's spouse can have a more honest relationship. If cheater is worth anything, they'll try and fix their emotional and mental fucked upness as well as the marriage. And if they aren't, then spouse can divorce and try to find love properly. In a faithful relationship.
In the same way, some people have said it's not their concern about the cheater's spouse, what happens to the cheater isn't mine. I only care about the betrayed wife. And considering he tried to make me his other woman even if only for a day, he basically invited me to just waltz into and invade the sanctity of their marriage. Maybe he just should have been more careful.
By the way, I've never been cheated on. I've never even been in a relationship. I just happen to know how my mind works and what my particular standards are.
I'd carry on.
It's only sex and after getting all the way back to mine i'm getting something out of it.
I'll be nice though, i'll phone her a taxi when we're done.
The marriage is hers not mine so my conscious will be clear.
For the record, i'd never cheat on my wife ... I like my testicles being attached to me thankyou.
It's only sex and after getting all the way back to mine i'm getting something out of it.
I'll be nice though, i'll phone her a taxi when we're done.
The marriage is hers not mine so my conscious will be clear.
For the record, i'd never cheat on my wife ... I like my testicles being attached to me thankyou.
I slept with a girl who had a BF before it was not pleasant. She used me as well as cheated on her BF with other men besides me. She manipulated me into thinking her BF was pure evil and I couldn't see it because I lost my virginity to her and I was lost in la-la land.
Never... ever... again.
So marriage to me would be like 10 times worse. People have killed each other for pulling that shit.
Never... ever... again.
So marriage to me would be like 10 times worse. People have killed each other for pulling that shit.
Did she start the attraction?
If it's a definite yes, then i'd have no trouble doing it. She could say no at any point, she could mention it at any moment, but she chooses not to. I could stop it, but why should I? If we got back to my place, then if i'd have said no, she'd have probably gone home with someone else.
If she was unsure, i'd say no.
If it's a definite yes, then i'd have no trouble doing it. She could say no at any point, she could mention it at any moment, but she chooses not to. I could stop it, but why should I? If we got back to my place, then if i'd have said no, she'd have probably gone home with someone else.
If she was unsure, i'd say no.
It's not a moral conundrum.
Choosing whether to steal a stereo or not is not a moral conundrum, obviously, the theft is wrong, and you're doing it for personal gain.
Likewise, sleeping with someone and causing them, and other people, problems is not a moral thing to do, and you're doing it for personal gain.
There's no moral conflict here!
Back to the stealing analogy: Is it wrong to steal from a subsistence farmer, because myself and my family including young children who depend on me, are dying of hunger?
Conflict! Do right by the farmer and society, or by the children and dependents!
(That's not to say it's not a valid question, plenty of people act immorally all the time (I'm pro at it), it's just not a moral conundrum.)
Choosing whether to steal a stereo or not is not a moral conundrum, obviously, the theft is wrong, and you're doing it for personal gain.
Likewise, sleeping with someone and causing them, and other people, problems is not a moral thing to do, and you're doing it for personal gain.
There's no moral conflict here!
Back to the stealing analogy: Is it wrong to steal from a subsistence farmer, because myself and my family including young children who depend on me, are dying of hunger?
Conflict! Do right by the farmer and society, or by the children and dependents!
(That's not to say it's not a valid question, plenty of people act immorally all the time (I'm pro at it), it's just not a moral conundrum.)