A quick question about a possible relationship....

[Infinite Betsy]

Dude, honestly...put your hormones in check. All this crap can't lead to anything good but a lot of bullshit drama. And that never is fun in the end...so don't even bother with the situation. Just keep it as a confidence boost and move on.

I have to agree. Regardless of what she was going for in telling you that she's your cousin's girlfriend, it doesn't lead to anywhere good. It sounds like she is definitely interested in you, but she also might play some head games. Maybe she doesn't even mean to, but that's just normal to her. That's just my guess.

It is a nice confidence boost. I wouldn't try to make it much more than that.

 

[MicrosoftPaysMe]

So everyone who smiles and talks to you is flirting with you?

Nowadays if someone doesn't curse you out and light you on fire they must be in love with you and want to make 11 children with you all named Carl and Steve [small/]even the girls[/small].

 

[Aloran]

I'd personally talk to her more via text or phone call. If she's planning on using you for revenge you'd find out soon enough. Get to know her better you know, before jumping into anything. And then when the time comes to "be in a relationship" if she's still going out with your cousin, then give her an ultimatum.

From what you've said, you haven't spoken to her that much, so actually finding out what she's like as a person would be a good idea first.

I'd say go for it, but be careful.

 

[Oh That Dude]

Just call her and have done with it.

 

[RanD00M]

Klipti þig!

My advice is rather blunt and straightforward.I say that you call her up,ask her on a date,and if she says yes you go on that date.
Then after about 30 minutes or so of that date,you ask her if she is interested in you,or if she's just using you.

It might not work.But it worth the shot.

 

[Arachon]

Yeez D: You're overthinking this, she gave you her number, she talked to you, so what? That does not necessarily mean she's flirting with you, hell, just ring her up and say let's go hang out or grab a cofee or burn down a house or whatever, and see how things progress from there.

All in all, you need more data.

 

[hebdomad]

Her Boyfriend's your cousin?! Why didn't you tell me this in PRIATE?!

She's using you man, to get back at your Cousin or something!
It's a Trap!

Sounds like a trap to me...

 

[Dommyboy]

Have sex with your cousin to get back at her! It's the only logical explanation.

 

[ZeLunarian]

*wee story*

You'd wanna be carefull :S
But you'll know yourself what you want. But I will say, what harm in getting to know her?

 

[Jeronus]

Just do it! You're going to kick yourself if you pass up this opportunity. If it doesn't work out, you can always say at least I tried. On the other hand, you will always wonder what could have been. So take the plunge and hope the bungee cord doesn't drop you.

 

[xxnightlawxx]

Just talk to her don't try to act any different. If the topic pops up. Talk to her about it. Just try not to act any different trust me. Man people are so nervous sometimes.

 

[IckleMissMayhem]

First time was to piss off someone...

Sounds suspiciously like this to me. Sorry bud, but do you really want to get involved with someone who's willing to screw someone else (a relative of yours) over?

 

[stone0042]

I've got some experience, and I say steer clear. She's definitely got some questionable motives. Best case scenario, she does like you and wants to leave your cousin for you, and we both know that won't end well

 

[ilion]

She asked your number way to easily, and I hate traitors. Iam not saying she is..., but i would be cautious just the same.

 

[wierdman51]

damn, girls can be confuzuling, but in my opinion, you should probably say yes, if she does like you, then your happy, and you get to screw with your cousin, and cause hes a stoner, that means you can throw a bag of dimes at him to distract him. your good, dude, its not a trap.

 

[Dahni]

Yes, this does sound a little bit suspicious. However, I suggest giving it a go. Just don't allow yourself to get in too deep too quickly. Keep your wits about you and if it starts to seem like it's more of an elaborate plan to get back at your cousin, get the fuck out of there.

If a relationship doesn't kick off straight from the get-go, stay friendly with her. Be as much of a friend as you can without descending into the "friend zone".

 

[whaleswiththumbs]

I'm philosophical with my answer. Some quote i read was like "Never regret anything that made you smile." SO go for it if it'll make you happy. Screw your cousin, if he's a dick like you say it's only bound to end in the end.