LittleWench1629 said:
So I was wondering what you guys think. I?d love to hear your thoughts on this and any experiences you may have had.
I have no fucking clue what ADHA is but...
I
have ADD.
My mother had ADHD.
My brother has mild autism.
My cousin has aspbergers.
It's
real, I know, because I
have it and I know people who have similiar problems.
I don't doubt that there are cases where the kid doesn't actually have any problems that can be classified as ADHD or such, but saying that it isn't real at all because of it is powerful stupid.
Let me explain to you how ADD has affected me and my life:
1. Terrible short-time memory. This is pretty self explanatory, I have an awful short time memory, I can forget things in a flash, I have to recheck things constantly because I forget and it has really affected me, especially in school, particuarly in math where I have to remember all the different rules and ways to count things. This is a real problem that I have to live with everyday. Know those annoying instances where you go into a room and forgot why you went there? Yeah, that happens almost everyday for me.
2. Short attention span. I have issues with focusing, for example I can't write and listen to someone talk at the same time, if I try to it all just becomes a mess in my head and I forget what I heard and what I was going to write. It takes me tons more energy to focus for longer periods of time, and because of this my energy is drained very quickly and I very easily get tired. This I take medicine for, and while it helps, the problem doesn't just go away. It makes it easier for me to focus, but I still easily lose focus and this is a nightmare when it comes to listening excerises in school.
3. Issues seeing the whole picture. I very easily misunderstand or misread things, written things especially since I can't hear your tone of voice or body language, and instructions can sometimes be difficult to understand. I easily pick up on and focus on smaller details, but that only intensifies this problem.
Because of these, which are the most major issues for me, I thought I was stupid for three years when I was in grade school. Imagine going three fucking years, trying and trying and trying to do your best in school, but it all just falls apart over and over. It wasn't until the month I started high school that I got my diagnose - and now my life is tremedously improved. I can get the help I need, and things are going so, so much better now.
tl;dr: Read it all and you'll maybe understand this. But in short,
ADHD and ADD are real.