All Men Cheat

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

TLR DC, All men cheat eh? well who do men cheat with? women no? So if Men are as guilty for cheating you women are just as bad as men are.

Oooooh snap!

OT: People are people[footnote]so why should it be, that you and I get on so awfully?[/footnote], and it takes two to do the horizonal shuffle.

Also, some guys also have some self-control and use it, so those that do cheat either don't have any or pick and choose when to use it.

 

[ivegotthis]

So she is trying to justify herself being a slut by saying all men are as well.

Sorry but what she is doing is having sex with boys. Men don't cheat.

I don't cheat. Haven't cheated. And will never cheat.

 

[I_Sinanju _I]

Up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Start.

 

[Benny Blanco]

"All Men Cheat". Wow, sounds like a case of the galloping generalisations to me: I prescribe introducing your friend to some decent men, ideally single ones. The problem is that in her experience, this might be empirically true. She has, as you said, a "taste" for men already in relationships (this is alarmingly common- "social proof" is one of the more common-sense parts of the rather creepy PUA doctrines floating around the net, and can be translated, in this context as "X must be worth dating as he has a girlfriend/female friends") and throws herself at these men. How does she react to any who refuse her advances? If she berates them for "not being man enough" or something similar she is creating a very specific and self-serving definition, so no wonder she has that opinion.

Meeting men who don't jump uncontrollably into bed with her, or who do so without letting down someone else might make a different impression on her. Or not,as the case may be: to quote my father "You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think."

 

[irishmanwithagun]

I'm too lazy to read every post to see if this has been said before, but seeing as you'll probably never read this it doesn't really matter. Your friend, and this is not me being sexist here, sounds like a complate an utter ***** that uses her smug, warped line of logic to prove that she's better than men.
Put this way, if one of my male friends said that he likes to sleep with women in relationships and justified it by saying "well, all women are sluts, so it may as well be me" you'd think he was an absoulute Berkshire Hunt (my new favourite phrase) but because your friend is a women for some reason there's some confusion as to whether or not she's in the moral wrong. Regardless of the fact that Equal Rights is the idea of Equality, not The Victim Becomes The Aggressor, some women think that in the name of Feminism it's okay to act superior to men because "oh, we're women, we just ARE better, you know?" and that's why ALL WOMEN ARE DIRTY WHORES! COME BACK AMELIA, I CAN CHANGE!
('cause why end on a serious note when you're boring enough?)

 

[Deviluk]

What a 1st class biatch.

I would never cheat on my girlfriend, and neither would she cheat on me. That trust holds us together.

I even have dreams where girls come on to me, and I struggle to say that I have a girlfriend, but I finally do, or wake up...its like my brain is training me for the eventuality.

 

[DugMachine]

Then she hooks up with men with weak willpower. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now and has the opportunity to cheat shown itself? Yes. Will I do it? Hell no!

Now has my girlfriend cheated? Well I like to think she hasn't . This friend of yours must have been cheated on plenty of times for her to feel this way.

 

[Naqel]

If I had a girlfriend and then there still was another woman on the planet interested in having sex with me...

I'd try to arrange a threesome.

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

Up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Start.

That made me laugh far harder than it should've. XD

[sub][sub]You totally used Game Genie, didn't you? You dirty little cheater![/sub][/sub]

 

[ElPatron]

Rather than feeling guilty about what she's doing, she seems almost proud of it, as if she's somehow one-upping the other girls and making them look stupid. Her rationale is that "all men cheat" and seems to think that by fucking other people's boyfriends she's ahead of the game

>MFW


I would laugh just like this in her face. Then run around with a chainsaw only wearing running shoes.

 

[Goofguy]

It seems your friend is just trying to justify her habit of sleeping with 'claimed' men. It's probably her way of helping her sleep better at night if she has scruples or morals that ought to prevent her from doing such things.

I am a man. Not once have I ever cheated on any woman I've been in a relationship with. Your friend is severely misguided.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

This is the first time I use this gif, even though its been used a million times before:

Yeah, no. Your friend sounds... like a *****. And where's she hooking up with these guys? If its a bar, it figures... I don't think most bar hounds are the committed "man of his word" type.
I'd like to say that only the weak men cheat, but I've only been in a relationship once, and I was completely devoted to her. Maybe I'm a minority or something.

 

[Lyri]

/accident.

 

[Ieyke]

As per usual, I'm a contradiction.

I'd never cheat.
But over the last 2-3 years I was/have been trying pretty much everything to get my friend to "cheat" on her boyfriend (now fiance) with me.
More accurately, I guess, she loves both of us but was with him first.... Except he's kind of a shitty person, and is pretty damn terrible to her a significant amount of the time.

I don't want her to be the type of person who cheats (and I guess in that sense I'm proud that she hasn't), but I sure as hell am trying to get her to (because sticking with him out of habit is a terrible plan) in order to finally break the stalemate.

I suppose I'm technically shooting for her to break up with him and finally completely be with me (we just dance all over the line without ever crossing it), but I think she'd have to slip and cheat with me before it would happen.


Stupid world.

 

[Jamous]

Hi.

I'm Daystar Clarion.

You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.

And I didn't cheat in any of them

Good plan right there. I can see if my relationship goes that way. I hope so; it sounds kind of awesome.
But OT: I haven't cheated on anyone and see no sign of that changing. I won't say it's impossible (Anything's possible I suppose...) but I -really- don't think it would happen.

 

[Stephen Phillips]

I don't cheat - ever.

Well ..... I did cheat on Duke Nukem 3D and it ruined the game for me so haven't done since. Also I like a game to be challenging and I like to say 'I did it!' when I complete a game without having to cheat though it with invulnerability on

And no I haven't played Duke Nukem Forever, play Painkiller instead

EDIT .... Have now gone back and checked the start of this forum and realised ... Oh.. THAT kind of cheating. No never would do that either .....

 

[Naal]

Oh them whores and their self-justification. Adorable.

That's... Not a helpful thing to say.

Oh that woman of ill repute and that justification of her frowned-upon actions. Quite interesting.



...I'm sorry but what do YOU want me to say. Are you looking for censorship or a change in my point?

Seems like you were implying a woman having a lot of sex is something in and of itself to insult her over.

...No, anyone having sex, knowingly/intentionally with people who are 'committed' is a whore.

Oh come come now... they're not whores, just sluts. Sluts do it for free.

[typical 'not all men are cheaters' response echoed throughout the thread.]

Edit: I had a thought.

Not too long ago our local pop radio station in Atlanta did a segment on women who seek out married/committed men over single men. When they asked women to call up the lines lit up, and the most common, if not all the responses, were that they didn't want anything serious like a relationship or 'love', but just some fun. The justified it by saying that it was them having fun and if the men get caught then oh well, the women themselves shouldn't be held accountable for men not being able to keep it in their pants.

 

[Danny Ocean]

Everyone else is going to be all "THAT'S NOT TRUE!"

And they're right.

Not all men cheat, but all men are vulnerable to seduction in a way that women just can't grasp because men and women operate differently when it comes to deciding who to have sex with.

mentally incapable of keeping it in their pants.

It's nothing to do with what our head says. Ever heard people joke about how men have a second brain down there? Yeah, that's the one that primarily controls who we're attracted to, and it can sometimes completely overpower the one in our heads, making us do retarded shit which in immediate hindsight we wonder why on Earth we did.

To put it another way: women have to think themselves into being attracted to a guy, which is why a woman can say she wants to have sex with him because of his money (and everything that that money means), or character, or whatever and mean it. It's why women fantasize while men watch porn. Men don't get the opportunity to think. As reasonable and level-headed and full of conviction that we might be, all to often we start shooting firecrackers at eachother to try and get a girl's attention. Why on Earth did President Clinton cheat?

This imbalance causes some resentment towards women, but it's best illustrated by the exasperated blame-game some men turn to when they've been caught: they'll often blame the woman they're cheating with.

To clarify: Not all men cheat, but men are easily seduced.

Seeing as your friend and many other women (kiss-and-tell) explicitly go after taken men, I wouldn't blame them.

 

[alligabbi]

I think everyone has basically gone through all the arguments I could make, so I'll just leave my personal experiences here.

I have been in a grand total of 3 relationships and am currently in a relationship. Said relationship is with a girl that lives over a thousand miles away and I can only rarely see, maybe 5-6 times a year. Despite that, I have never cheated and never will.

As to the statement that men are unable to control themselves when they are offered sex, I can testify that I have turned down a sex offer from a good looking girl. Said girl was also lying naked in my bed. To add to the challenge, I wasn't even in a relationship at the time. Nonetheless, I was able to refuse the girl and thus save myself for the girl I really loved, the one I am currently dating.

I think the proper term to use is "Boo-Yaa".

 

[Dark2003]

I've been cheated on twice, but never had the urge to cheat. I've been presented with sex, in just about every relationship I've been in.