ethaninja said:
I just follow this simple rule. If you play video games more then someone who only plays games every now and then, you can consider yourself a gamer.
You have the right idea here. A gamer is a person who likes games and plays them more than every now and then. Grant it, this means that not everyone can be a gamer, because not everyone plays games too often, but if you take enjoyment in games and you play them often because that is something you do you are a gamer.
What was odd to me was that stranger tried to say; you are not a gamer because you don?t play this particular type of game. That is wrong because it has noting to do with the type of game you play, whether it be RPG, shooter, or arcade style games. It is what you, the person I quoted, said. It is not some special club, or society. It is a person who plays "video games more than someone who only plays games every now and then" and that is all you need to know.