RedForceRanger said:
I dont see whats wrong with that to be honest, i mean enough little girls play with toy slags like barbie but that doesnt mean there going to go and get knocked up and when i was little i would play with toy guns and things as would many yound boys. I dont see the differance between a plastic replica and a compuer generated replica?
First off, replace the above Barbie, with Bratz, and your sentence can make more sense. Barbie has had the decency to actually reduce her breast size over the years. Bratz makes it a point to have all their dolls wear thongs, even the "baby" versions have diaper thongs.
It makes no difference if we are talking girls or boys.
The difference is when you were young and playing with your toy replica gun, all you had to go by was your own imagination. Pretending to shoot at criminals, indians, nazis, or whatever your version of a bad guy was. You were limited to what your 8 year old mind could think of...and that was determined by how you were raised by your parents. By what they let you see or do.
A CG gun in this case, Gears Of War 1 & 2, you are limited to the imagination of some 30 year old game geek whose had years of frustration, angst, hatred, and lust thrown into a first person shooter. Most of which an 8 year old just plain isn't exposed to yet in their lives. I have never been an advocate of thinking games harm children. I have 2 cousins, both of whom come from homes where their parents buy them what ever they want. One has grown to be the smartest of his siblings, the other was arrested last year. It comes down to decision making, and that rests on the parents.
I have a 9 and a soon to be 7 year old daughter...and I know plenty things in my life that I do not want them exposed to yet. Most of which that can be easily found on the computer. Of which BOTH of them know how to navigate smoothly.
My girls are at a time in their lives were outside influences will become stronger. School, friends, random idiots. You name it, it starts now. You cannot be super human and watchdog you kids to death. But as a parent you ARE ultimately responsible for what kind of decisions will enter the mind of your kids. While choices will always be theirs in life to be successful or fail. The object is to show them that there is always a choice, and to recognize the difference between a good decision and a bad one.