RustlessPotato said:
Bunch of wankers. I blame parents wanting to be their "friends" and not their goddamn parents. It's easier to give kids what they want instead of keep saying "no" when they have a tantrum. I remember when I had a tantrum when I was a kid. My mum and I were buying groceries, I wanted sweets and she said no and I had a tantrum. My mother couldn't give a fuck, said I could cry as much as I wanted to and continued shopping. I was so scared I shut the fuck up.
Parents do spoil their kids to much. I'm just angry.
EDIT: I don't mean "parents this generation" . I really do mean Parents throughout history
Actually, at least here in Germany, it kinda is a bigger problem right now than it was in the few generations before. It has something to do with the turning away from the very authoritarian style of raising kids from the first half of the century swinging a bit too far to the other extreme after the 68-movement in Germany. I don't know if the USA for example had something similar but if they did you might have the same problems. Actually, this:
I blame parents wanting to be their "friends" and not their goddamn parents. It's easier to give kids what they want instead of keep saying "no" when they have a tantrum.
... might indicate that there are some similarities (I'll just assume that RustlessPotato is American) because that is basically the point where it goes wrong. Here in Germany the first generation of kids having been brought up in an anti-autoritarian style are now bringing up their own kids in a similar way and damn does this lead to problems.
There is a somewhat famous German child and adolescent psychiatrist (link in German: http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Winterhoff ) who made a pretty successful book series out of that though it is not without criticism.
So in conclusion: It is possible that it actually is worse with this generation of kids. That there is a way bigger amount of early infantile narcissism (no idea if I translated that correctly) in today's teenagers. Possible. No idea if it is indeed like this.