Oh I will. I think that the world really need more people like you. I don't know. Maybe I am just young, igonorant and stupid. This is just what I believe in right here right now.Connor Lonske said:I have to say, You made a lot of good points so far, and i am happy to see you have a little sympathy for people who need help, but paying your taxes will help them. Like I said before, you should not help or not help because of the person needing help or what caused it, you do it because you want to help, and paying your taxes does just that. I know it may not seem fare to pay more because of just one group of people, but think of how much they need it. If you needed medical treatment and you were just barely obese, which is easy by the way if your not careful, and the government said they don't have the money to pay for you, how would you feel, and please don't say that could never happen to you, just try to grasp the subject.
Look, I can't change you, but at least think about what I have been saying.
and expect anyone to not complain about it. Because first off, whether or not you say otherwise, you're trying to be mean. Why else would you use such descriptive imagery? Second off, whether or not what you're saying is true, you're being mean. You can try to justify your offensive tone with excuses like "society has made being fat okay, I need to show it isn't" or "people need to be shocked out of complacency," but can you honestly say to yourself that those ideas are rational?Idhenz said:your love handles hitting the chicken nuggets off the shelves in the "FATTY FOODS" alley are disgusting?
Well I am happy to see you can see things from a more points of view than just your own. Your a good person, and I see a lot of myself in you, unlike other people in this board who want to limit rights and remove people from society. That's just plain bad.Shycte said:Oh I will. I think that the world really need more people like you. I don't know. Maybe I am just young, igonorant and stupid. This is just what I believe in right here right now.Connor Lonske said:I have to say, You made a lot of good points so far, and i am happy to see you have a little sympathy for people who need help, but paying your taxes will help them. Like I said before, you should not help or not help because of the person needing help or what caused it, you do it because you want to help, and paying your taxes does just that. I know it may not seem fare to pay more because of just one group of people, but think of how much they need it. If you needed medical treatment and you were just barely obese, which is easy by the way if your not careful, and the government said they don't have the money to pay for you, how would you feel, and please don't say that could never happen to you, just try to grasp the subject.
Look, I can't change you, but at least think about what I have been saying.
I just want to add that I think that it is better if the money goes to prevent people from becoming addicts and obease, smokers etc etc.
Maybe what this all comes down to is that I am a worshiper of personal responsibility. Your dog, your shit. Your mistake, your headache and so on. I quite often here about people, mostly from the US, doing this very stupid things and then compensation.
For example, someone tryes to steal their neighbours hubcaps. However, he forgets to check if someone is in the car before doing it. This results in that the thief gets in hand squashed. And you know what, he succesfully sues the neighbour.
My hatred for those kinds of things mabye have changed my view of the world. Just maybe.
do you even have a soul?zee666 said:Shoot them and use the meat to feed prisoners, then shoot the prisoners and use they're well-fed meat to feed the public. That's two problems solved by shooting people.
What this very smart person said. I wish I could have worded what I said like this.barium56 said:A lot of people don't seem to understand why the obese people in this thread would take offense to what's being said. Some people are probably aiming for that effect. For the former of the two groups mentioned, I'll try to elucidate some of the problems you're encountering. For the latter, insulting you would be hypocritical and counter-productive, as much as I'd like to do so. All I have for you is a sense of pity, despite being so "ugly" and "disgusting."
For those who are genuinely concerned about the obesity problem and those whom it afflicts; you're going about it the wrong way. You can't say things like
and expect anyone to not complain about it. Because first off, whether or not you say otherwise, you're trying to be mean. Why else would you use such descriptive imagery? Second off, whether or not what you're saying is true, you're being mean. You can try to justify your offensive tone with excuses like "society has made being fat okay, I need to show it isn't" or "people need to be shocked out of complacency," but can you honestly say to yourself that those ideas are rational?Idhenz said:your love handles hitting the chicken nuggets off the shelves in the "FATTY FOODS" alley are disgusting?
Obviously, society doesn't think being fat is okay, or we'd have a lot fewer fat people who hate themselves, we'd have a lot more people attracted to fat people, fat people wouldn't be one of the only groups of people who it's still okay to make fun of, and this thread would only be about 2 pages long! And as the argument has been made, it takes years to become obese. Do you think most fat people simply aren't self-aware? That they look down one day and say "Holy shit! What the hell happened?" Your criticism isn't going to suddenly make them realize what they've done and resolve to change their ways.
When you offer solutions, you need to be aware that while they will tend to be simple, none of them will be easy; even if it's the easiest thing in the world for you personally. Solutions for this problem require fundamental lifestyle changes - something that is exceptionally difficult for the weak-willed, where obesity tends to thrive. Empathy and patience is key with this type of situation. Just as it takes years to become obese, it takes years to get out of it and harshness, even with the best of intentions, can be terribly detrimental to the process.
Hopefully you can see how being abrasive and confrontational isn't helping, and try a different approach.
I know, it's terrible. I fear that one day we will have another Holocaust even though we know what to look out for. Have you seen the movie The Wave. It's a german movie about how the halocause could easily happend again. I strongly recommend it!Connor Lonske said:Well I am happy to see you can see things from a more points of view than just your own. Your a good person, and I see a lot of myself in you, unlike other people in this board who want to limit rights and remove people from society. That's just plain bad.
ok screw this planet. I'm opening a mars coloney. and no you can't come.zee666 said:Nope, and the best bit was when I was talking about this very thing in history class and some guy taps me on the shoulder and says 'My dads in prison' I look at him and say 'okay' and then carry on...Gebi10000 said:do you even have a soul?zee666 said:Shoot them and use the meat to feed prisoners, then shoot the prisoners and use they're well-fed meat to feed the public. That's two problems solved by shooting people.
That was a fun day : D
I am fairly buff though I do carry a bit of fat and I don't do weight lifting except rarely only aerobic exercise. This though has not stopped me from not losing weight even with a healthy diet and lots of exercise. I'm still in the high end of clothing sizes due to the width of my shoulders and my huge hips. This even causes problems because most clothing manufactuers assume that if you have huge hips you must be really super fat and im not. unless my pants have an elastic waist I'm stuck with pants that either fall down or look weird because of how much of the waist is pulled in. So media and clothes are to blame too as well as the lazy doctors as far as I'm concerned.ShotgunShaman said:Just curious, at your 254 pounds, is it a lot of fat, or are you just shortish and super buff? Again since I know very little about you, you might already know, but maybe focusing on aerobic exercise (anything that raises heart rate for a long period of time) could help. Weight lifting is awesome, but it barely burns any carbs, while even just an easy bike ride will go miles with losing fat.
I agree that some fat is healthy, plenty of third world countries have proved that underweight epidemics are much worse that overweight ones.
It's splitting hairs, but I wouldn't say that lazy doctors are the only problem, but they are a part of it. And assuming the roots of morbidly overweight people (who unlike you live a true blue unhealthy lifestyle) is from ignorance, knowledgeable doctors could work wonders.
Thank you for missing my point with spectacular ability. Let me take up a few things.Idhenz said:*Snip*
"There are healthy foods out there that you can grow out of the fucking dirt that surround your house and if you make a diet of celery and water for two months you'll notice some significant changes... "Labyrinth said:Because it won't work and is based off a piss-poor stereotype. I refuse to touch McDonalds, eat home-cooked meals 99% of the time which would be healthy by any standard aside from maybe Atkins. Does that make me thin? Fuck no.InsertWittyName said:Why didnt anyone else think of this.stag3 said:The perfect solution would be to just narrow the entrance to Mcdonalds