Anyone feel that furry fandom seems to be snobbed at many multifandom conventions?

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Baron Cimetiere said:
Do you really not understand how someone could just find what you're into creepy [...]
One might ask why the personal tastes of those uninvolved are at all relevant.
 

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axelthefox said:
What about furry girls with big boobs or furry guys that are muscular

http://orange04.deviantart.com/art/Summer-Vixen-63235199

http://froljoker.deviantart.com/art/Chris-561610829
What about it? What do you mean with this pics?
Wat

your post didn't make any sense.

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I thought the term "furry" didn't refer to a fandom, but rather a sexual preference/fetish. Hence, at any con, porno rules like "nobody under 18" would need to be instated.
It does, but a lot of furries like to pretend otherwise because they're tired of being marginalized.
Is that similar to how people who like anime are actually in it for the hentai and loli's?
Basically. The other issue is that the main hub for furries- Fur Affinity is bloated to the gills with the weirdest fucking fetishes imaginable.
The furry label is both appropriate and misrepresentative because of the connotations it brings. Me for instance, I'm a furry. But I don't give a shit about fursonas, fursuits, and I don't illustrate in the "furry" aesthetic. Its just that most, if not all of my art centers around animals or anthro animals. To be honest I do like porn with anthro animals in them. However that is hardly the exclusive thing that gets me going. I have plenty of sexual interest my fellow human counterparts. A good example of illustrating this from the outside- those who think Turians and to extension Garrus- are hot as fuck aren't furries/scalies.

You have some people who treat furry as a lifestyle. The same way you have people who treat liking anime as a lifestyle. Doesn't mean a weeabo is representative of all anime fans. Same with hardcore furries.
Yup. Like i have heard of some weeaboos who refer to a anime character as their waifu,have a pillow of said character and have dinner with their waifu,and really get into the anime thing like speaking really bad pronounced Japanese.
 

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Of course, because it's not in society as much yet. Every new thing/fandom/invention has to grow up with a generation to chill. Just play the waiting game, the media and internet mob will move on to the next thing and you will be as normal in internet/con society as guys with waifus and fanfic writers.

Need an example? Dnd was considered satanic and immoral, and old ladies I work with at -a retail store- always complain that their kid played it. Now DnD is normal and everyone has at least seen it played or played some form of it. Star Trek was seen as super wierd and fans were regarded with the same attitude as the Furry Subculture gets today. Video Games were... actually we are right back to square one on that front.

Anyway have hope friend, and know that every passing day means a little less resentment or anger towards it. If you do want a convention that endorses furries, almost all MLP cons are 40-50% Furry based. I met a ton of fur-suiters there and we stay in touch.

I think that they might be converting me though. I don't think it will work though. These Dakotaraptor sketches are just for.. fun. Yeah just for...
 

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Given as my only exposure to the fandom thus far was two guys getting kicked out of the local theatre for masturbating while watching Zootopia (and wouldn't it have been fun if my nine-year old niece had seen that) I'm hard-pressed to say anything nice.
Fucking hilarious. I really don't understand people who get some kind of sexual thrill out of wanking in public, and I'm rather glad I don't need to be risking jail to get off.

I'll repeat again; the absolute worst thing about the furry fandom is having to share it with other furries.
As a gamer, I think I can relate. At this point in life I've concluded that it's pretty much impossible to have a fandom that's devoid of members who make everyone else look bad. And you can sure as heck count on everyone else to judge you based on those people.

Then again, as a silver lining, it's kind of fun shattering everyone's expectations by being someone who completely defies the stereotype. As a short-haired, mild-mannered, polo shirt-wearing metalhead, I get plenty of chances to do that. The looks on their faces when I tell them I like metal is priceless.
 

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I think furries are generally pretty disliked, and not for the reasons that furries such as Axel always go to. I don't think that most furries are secretly into bestiality, I don't think they're all fat, lonely men. I don't think they are somehow uncharitable.

I do think it's a fetish, and one that is packed with some of the most fucked up people I've met on or offline. Bronies get a lot of crap for being perverts, but the reality was that the "worst" of them were just really sad, lonely people who ranged from socially awkward to really autistic. I'm not saying that I wanted to spend time with them, but I think most people who actually got to know bronies just feel a little sorry for them.

It's not like that with "Furry", a concept that seems to act as a hub for incredibly screwed up sexual things, having a mascot cosplay "identity" that ranges from a fun thing you to to "The real you", and some of the worst "art" on the planet. Talking about anime, which is HUGE and varied and enjoyed to varying degrees by about 2-3 BILLION people, and comparing it to an incredibly niche sexual identity/obsessional fandom is stunningly dishonest too, on every level.

For one thing, there are more (absolutely, numerically) people into incredibly risque hentai, VN's, games, and all of the associated "Anime" stuff by orders of magnitude than are represented by the entire "Furry" subculture. Still, if you look at "Anime" and divide it into "Porn" and "Not Porn", you probably would end up with a similar distribution to movies/tv and their "Porn:NotPorn" ratios. Now taking all of that into account, the percentage of people who "like anime" who do more than just "watch anime" is pretty small. That includes people marrying their pillows.

By contract, the furry "fandom" as furries try to sell it, appears to be MOSTLY people who at least enjoy furry sexual activity/porn/etc.

tl;dr: If a majority who liked anime thought a good time meant dressing up like a mascot, never mind all of the crazy sexual shit, they'd be pariahs too.
Furry is not a fetish.

You have it all wrong.

This guy goes into how the media has bad mouthed the fandom and how it's just a fandom

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5HyMH7YXFM

We get this question constantly -- so constantly, in fact, that we have an extensive FAQ page devoted to it. You'll find absolutely everything that has ever, or will ever need to be said on the topic, here:

http://www.anthrocon.org/node/25587/age-questions-how-talk-parents-general-other-things

Here's a quick summary of the highlights:

1) Furry Fandom is a hobby. It does not define you, no matter how "into" it you are. It remains nothing more than something you like to do to pass the time.

2) There is no more (or less) material geared toward mature audiences than one will find in any other fandom. Our convention, in fact, has a far stricter standard of conduct than most comic book or science fiction conventions. Our fandom, though, as a relative newcomer, has been singled out for biased and sensationalistic coverage by the entertainment media and by individuals who have never gotten to know any of us or even attended our conventions.

3) Furry Fandom is as much a community as anything else. It is a gathering of the most creative, imaginative people you could ever hope to meet. It is inclusive where many others are exclusive, and supportive where many others are derisive. It is something to be proud of, not something to be "confessed." If you feel that you must "out" yourself to your family for being a Furry, then you have entirely the wrong idea of what our fandom is all about.

4) Not everyone wears a "fursuit" (costume); in fact, the majority of our attendees do not. If you want a fursuit, however, you should wait until you are finished growing before spending the money. And if people sneer at you for spending so much money on a costume, ask them why they sunk $5,000 into a single Superbowl ticket.

http://www.anthrocon.org/node/25608/how-do-i-explain-furry-fandom-my-parents
 

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I think furries are generally pretty disliked, and not for the reasons that furries such as Axel always go to. I don't think that most furries are secretly into bestiality, I don't think they're all fat, lonely men. I don't think they are somehow uncharitable.

I do think it's a fetish, and one that is packed with some of the most fucked up people I've met on or offline. Bronies get a lot of crap for being perverts, but the reality was that the "worst" of them were just really sad, lonely people who ranged from socially awkward to really autistic. I'm not saying that I wanted to spend time with them, but I think most people who actually got to know bronies just feel a little sorry for them.

It's not like that with "Furry", a concept that seems to act as a hub for incredibly screwed up sexual things, having a mascot cosplay "identity" that ranges from a fun thing you to to "The real you", and some of the worst "art" on the planet. Talking about anime, which is HUGE and varied and enjoyed to varying degrees by about 2-3 BILLION people, and comparing it to an incredibly niche sexual identity/obsessional fandom is stunningly dishonest too, on every level.

For one thing, there are more (absolutely, numerically) people into incredibly risque hentai, VN's, games, and all of the associated "Anime" stuff by orders of magnitude than are represented by the entire "Furry" subculture. Still, if you look at "Anime" and divide it into "Porn" and "Not Porn", you probably would end up with a similar distribution to movies/tv and their "Porn:NotPorn" ratios. Now taking all of that into account, the percentage of people who "like anime" who do more than just "watch anime" is pretty small. That includes people marrying their pillows.

By contract, the furry "fandom" as furries try to sell it, appears to be MOSTLY people who at least enjoy furry sexual activity/porn/etc.

tl;dr: If a majority who liked anime thought a good time meant dressing up like a mascot, never mind all of the crazy sexual shit, they'd be pariahs too.
Funnily enough I find your comparison to be far more stunningly dishonest. Trying to pass the number of people that "enjoy" anime off as anywhere close to 2 or 3 billion is laughable at best. At the high end that would mean about the same number of people enjoy anime as number of people that have Internet access which is about 3.2 billion. That would make anime more popular than soccer/football, the most watched sport in the world.

The only way to come up with a number like that would be lumping in everyone who's even seen an anime as well as anyone that liked An anime when they were kids or teenagers ten years ago and haven't seen any since graduating high school. That's as dishonest as trying to pass everyone who liked the Lion King or enjoys Werewolf stories off as a furry.

I haven't seen anyone in this thread talking about anime as a whole, when people talk about anime fans they aren't talking about just some guy that liked cowboy bebop in college or the people that go to movies to watch Miyazaki films, they are referring to the dedicated internet fan base, the people that go to cons, the otakus, that is the comparison to furries, not literally everyone on the planet who's ever seen an anime at any point in time. Fan in the context of conversations like this is short for fanatic, not casual enjoyment, fanaticism, it is patently dishonest to take the concept of "anime fan" and try to apply that to literally more than one out of every three human beings on the planet, which is about what three billion people is.

It makes it hard to take your assertions seriously when you make such ridiculous statements, I've been on the internet since the early 90's and have encountered furries for about the same length of time, while it is a weird fandom, you'll forgive me if I don't take your proclamations of "most" fans making it a sexual fetish seriously. In my 20 or so years of experience for most fans it's an aesthetic thing, they enjoy the concept, art style, and fandom, there's about as much sexualization as the dedicated anime fanatics, it's there, it's weird, but it's not why most people are there.

Honestly I still can't wrap my head around where the fuck you got 2 to 3 billion people from, even pulling numbers from your ass shouldn't have given you a number that high, 3 billion would be a significant chunk of all Internet and television owners on the face of the planet. I severely doubt over half the people on the planet that own a TV or have Internet would qualify as anime fans. By that ridiculous metric the furry fandom would actually be larger as you could basically lump in anyone that ever enjoyed bugs bunny or a Disney cartoon into the label. You're using the most exclusive definition of what a furry is and a ridiculously broad definition for what an anime fan is.
 

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Baron Cimetiere said:

If the only thing you can do is respond with is 'get better English" than perhaps you shouldn't participate in this thread anymore and save it to users who actually care about the topic at hand.
If you think your post was misconstrued feel free to clarify. But I'm sure you knew damn well what I said.
 

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Baron Cimetiere said:
Dragonbums said:
Baron Cimetiere said:
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"Furry" as a label implies a fetish. I think it's a stretch to say you find anthropomorphized animals to be aesthetically pleasing while also denying any sort of sexual interest in them. I mean, I'm not Sigmund Freud or anything, but come on.

I'm okay with fetishes as long as people recognize the line between fantasy and reality, but to the average person, bestiality is depraved, and furry fetishes are only a few steps removed from bestiality. It's not hard to see why people would be creeped out by it, and being honest with myself, I'm pretty creeped out by it too. It's not a matter of good press or bad press or even prudishness; it's a general perception of sexual deviancy, in the same vein as people who like loli stuff or have a rape fetish. Rape, pedophilia, and bestiality are like the big three sexual taboos in almost every culture today, and anything even approaching those will always be met with general disapproval.
Yeah,i don't get how people even get the idea that looking at pictures of animal headed people means that someone will go after the family dog or cat. Cause i know that in the fandom,that furs don't like any form of animal abuse and anyone who harms a animal gets ostracized and chewed out by other furries. There is even a furry group now that goes after those who abuse animals. I know when someone abused a animal,people went to the persons profile and posted insults on their profile.
Do you really not understand how someone could just find what you're into creepy, without thinking you're going to rape their pet?


If I were to say that you hypothetically being into moe anime means that you may have an actual inkling to fuck 13 year olds I would be burned on an internet pike.
That's not English, or at least, it doesn't make any sense to me.

Dragonbums said:
They are called furries because they are only attracted to animals that are basically humans with fur and ears. They are not sexually attracted to real shit eating dogs. That's why it's called beastiality not furry.
Your ignorance on the matter doesn't change that.
Huh? I think you either didn't understand my post, responded to the wrong person, or you're struggling with English.

Silvanus said:
Baron Cimetiere said:
Do you really not understand how someone could just find what you're into creepy [...]
One might ask why the personal tastes of those uninvolved are at all relevant.
One would have to do a lot of snipping and ignoring of context to do that with a straight face, wouldn't one.
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I feel this guy helps describe the fandom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6bqiEa6kd8
 

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And the people who find drawings fox girls or fox boys attractive. I think 2D complex could help explain that.
 

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Baron Cimetiere said:
One would have to do a lot of snipping and ignoring of context to do that with a straight face, wouldn't one.
Eh, there wasn't much context to cut. I was responding to a single sentence post.
 

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axelthefox said:
I feel this guy helps describe the fandom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6bqiEa6kd8
He isn't doing any great favours, to be frank. The first picture he chooses to illustrate Furrydom is a topless fox-man, leaning against a wall in front of a sunset as if he's on a boyband album cover or a postcard from David Brent.
 

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Most cons are businesses, or at least, vast networking opportunities. No one wants to network or try to do business, or even walk around and have some fun, with someone in a cumstained arctic fox costume. Less hyperbolically, furries should look for acceptance in the fetish community, not the comics community. I don't think BDSM enthusiasts would be any more welcome in leathers and nipple clamps to be honest.

It's your fetish, and your business, but come the hell on already and stop with this "fandom" thing. I have a friend who went furry, and I met a loooot of furries through him. They were absolutely, each and every one of them, into it sexually. A lot of the "Art" ended up being "Fox chicks with giant tits making jokes that would make a 5 year old cringe"
 

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Lacedaemonius said:
Most cons are businesses, or at least, vast networking opportunities. No one wants to network or try to do business, or even walk around and have some fun, with someone in a cumstained arctic fox costume. Less hyperbolically, furries should look for acceptance in the fetish community, not the comics community. I don't think BDSM enthusiasts would be any more welcome in leathers and nipple clamps to be honest.

It's your fetish, and your business, but come the hell on already and stop with this "fandom" thing. I have a friend who went furry, and I met a loooot of furries through him. They were absolutely, each and every one of them, into it sexually. A lot of the "Art" ended up being "Fox chicks with giant tits making jokes that would make a 5 year old cringe"
Well i don't know how to explain to my parents that i find furry dudes and furry girls attractive,so i have to say stuff like that.
 

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Baron Cimetiere said:
axelthefox said:
Lacedaemonius said:
Most cons are businesses, or at least, vast networking opportunities. No one wants to network or try to do business, or even walk around and have some fun, with someone in a cumstained arctic fox costume. Less hyperbolically, furries should look for acceptance in the fetish community, not the comics community. I don't think BDSM enthusiasts would be any more welcome in leathers and nipple clamps to be honest.

It's your fetish, and your business, but come the hell on already and stop with this "fandom" thing. I have a friend who went furry, and I met a loooot of furries through him. They were absolutely, each and every one of them, into it sexually. A lot of the "Art" ended up being "Fox chicks with giant tits making jokes that would make a 5 year old cringe"
Well i don't know how to explain to my parents that i find furry dudes and furry girls attractive,so i have to say stuff like that.
The way that you have to lie to your family and friends to hide your sexual predilections is really not the entire internet's problem, now is it?
No.