NOOOO!!! not Skyrim too. Why the heck are these things so popular in games? I mean I get it that in fantasy games things like goblins, the undead, dragons etc are pretty much a part of the genre. But simply giant bugs, what's up with that. Giant spiders were never a part of virtually any folklore scandinavian or otherwise, so why have they become a part of the fantasy genre. I mean seriously has anybody ever praised a game for having really good spider enemies?
In any case arachnophobia sucks big time. And the worst thing for me is that I can't really seem to do anything about it. People often keep telling you to face your fears and conquer them, but that's just like a bad Hollywood slogan. It sounds good, but gives you little benefits in real life. I've been trying the whole facing one's fears thing for as long as I can remember. Once I even held a live tarantula on my hand(it was probably more scared than I was), but it turns out you can't just simply undo something that's been hardwired into your brain. And it's no more possible to rationalize it than for instance telling yourself that pain is only in your head and then putting your hand into fire.
I did have some luck with one particular instance. I would suggest that anybody with arachnophobia play WOW for a month or two. Basically it has some of the creepiest spiders I've ever seen, but there was something about the way they appeared that made it a lot easier. Basically you started out with really small harmless looking spiders. Then moved on to slightly larger and more menacing ones until you finally got to the realistic, but uncannily large ones. Until finally you had to face the huge monstrous eight legged grotesgue freaks. This gradual desenzitisation was actually quite helpful. But it didn't really eradicate the panic attacks, just made them easier to bare.
In any case, I don't want to try and fight a strong aspect my psychology every time I play a game. I just want to enjoy it not feel incredibly stressed and horrified. Games should be fun and that doesn't mean that they shouldn't be scary at all, but the fear of spiders for arachnophobes isn't really common fear. It's more like a panic response that's been set to trigger at the sight of an arachnid. It's also incredibly irrational, for instance I have no fear whatsoever of giant scorpions (the ones in fallout were slightly creepy but manageable) or even ants. But the fear of spiders seems to be by far more common than other phobias. It's clear that games cannot cater to everybody's needs, but it just seems to me that since we're dealing with a significant part of the population and since the gaming industry wouldn't really anything by leaving out spiders and replacing them with ghouls for instance, then it can be concluded that games really would benefit from having less arachnids in them.
Still, Skyrim, whyyy?????