I guess it would be unfair not to call you out too, so...do you have evidence? Proof? anything other than an "I say so?"Jroo wuz heer said:yes they definitely are
Sorry, but I just called out another guy on that.
I guess it would be unfair not to call you out too, so...do you have evidence? Proof? anything other than an "I say so?"Jroo wuz heer said:yes they definitely are
"Because I say so" is proof enough.The_Logician19 said:I guess it would be unfair not to call you out too, so...do you have evidence? Proof? anything other than an "I say so?"Jroo wuz heer said:yes they definitely are
Sorry, but I just called out another guy on that.
Well, self-interest and selfishness are two different things. The key difference in selfishness is making others pay a price for your own gain, to me. I see your example as an act of self-interest, because there wasn't really any significant price paid but it was still a good act.Kurokami said:Give an example, while I don't know you I believe my reasoning leaves no gaps for any premeditated act. Why do people always think selfishness is such a horrible thing?Jedoro said:You can find a selfish and selfless reason for every action, but only the individual who took the course of action will truly know which reason they used to decide. I'm a fairly selfless person, but I'll never convince those who don't want to believe it, which is good because I really don't care to.
I was sitting in a nearly full lecture room and two girls who were friends could not find a place to sit as there were only single seats available and as a result sat on the stairs of the lecture hall. Because I noticed this I told the guy next to me to move over a seat (as stated before, there were few single seats available) and moved over to look for another place to sit, letting them both sit together. You can talk all you want about how insignificant a gesture it is, but its because of its insignificance that it becomes somewhat meaningful. I had no obligation to move chairs, it wasn't expected of me either and it put me at quite an awkward (for me) position. I did it to validate my own logic and empathy. There was no reason for them to be chairless when there were chairs to be had and I knew I wouldn't enjoy that position.
Tbh I think its one of those questions thats more about asking the question then finding an answer as their is no true answer, everyone is different and has a different point of view on things.ameatypie said:*SNIP* Are humans inherently selfish? Is everything we do, in one way or another, to benifit ourselves?
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"Because I say so" is not proof enough. Your words need conviction or they're just that; words.Jroo wuz heer said:"Because I say so" is proof enough.The_Logician19 said:I guess it would be unfair not to call you out too, so...do you have evidence? Proof? anything other than an "I say so?"Jroo wuz heer said:yes they definitely are
Sorry, but I just called out another guy on that.
And my "proof" was already said by at least three other people to give my own would have been the same exact thing.
I like to think that we exist in a reciprocating relationship - we help others because it makes us feel better, it makes them feel better, and it makes the future easier. Is that 'selfish', or just mutually beneficial and supportive of the species. 'Selfish' just has too many negative connotations imo :/ameatypie said:1) You tell your wife and kids you love them. Why? To make them feel better. the thing is, why do you want them to feel better, to feel loved, to feel good about themselves? Because if they feel better, loved and good about themselves, then they will make you feel better, loved, good about yourself in return. You get that warm fuzzy feeling, not only from making them feel better but for them making you feel better. Selfish?
Far too much supposition in those theories. Why not ask guys who have survived those sort of acts? They'll probably tell you that it was an instantaneous, spur of the moment decision to save the others around them - I doubt that he was considering the mental trauma of not taking action and being partially responsible for the deaths of others, or had a desire to die to 'repay a past deed'. It's pretty much an instinctual selfless act, is it not? Evolution-wise, it makes a sort of sense - sacrifice of the self to save the many, a powerful evolutionary trait, it could be argued, and the epitome of selflessness.ameatypie said:2) A man is in a war trench, surrounded by his friends and comrades, and someone throws a grenade into the trench. He dives on it, it explodes, he sacrifices himself to save his comrades. Why? because he can't live without his friends perhaps. Or, because he could not live with himself if his friends died and he survived. Or, he feels a need to repay a past deed.... there are many reasons, but all of them, every single one.... selfish?