Are you a dateable person?
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Hope? You mean that warm, uplifting feeling in your stomach? Yeah, I lost that a long time ago.Cocal said:
But I've replaced it with spite...
hmm.. well, regardless, you don't seem to have much trouble actually getting a boyfriend it's just that you carn't keep them. I'd recommend you should just be more careful with who you go out with in future, make sure it will work before commiting yourself.Blackmagic1515 said:
I have no earthly clue. Ive only had one relationship that lasted 2 monthes and i only saw the guy like.... 4 times in that span. then i dumped him...
I would like to think there is someone for everyone but i think i might be a little too unique to be in a relationship.
im apparently pretty say my gal friends and family and exboyfriend and gay friends but only creepers seem to like me.
as it is, im still an effing virgin and with my luck ill be one for even longer. (>_<)
ive ultimately failed at trying to start a relationship with anyone.
it may be because i collect weapons...
I would like to think there is someone for everyone but i think i might be a little too unique to be in a relationship.
im apparently pretty say my gal friends and family and exboyfriend and gay friends but only creepers seem to like me.
as it is, im still an effing virgin and with my luck ill be one for even longer. (>_<)
ive ultimately failed at trying to start a relationship with anyone.
it may be because i collect weapons...
Speaking from experience - quite a lot of it, back in my university days - coupled with the fact that I'm now happily married with a child on the way, I can say that yes, I'm definitely somebody that others find attractive. I also know from past experience that it's partly my physical appearance (I'm no supermodel but I'm not ugly, either) and partly my sense of humour and ability to make people laugh. Both are equally important, and with only one or the other, you're less likely to be successful.
I am this, but with opposite gender pronouns.Adzma said:
Apparently, I was dateable two years ago though. (RAGE AT THE FRIEND-ZONE)
It very much does, but it is directly answering to the topic. 'Emo' (at least the kind people hate) don't wait for an invitation to share their feeligns, and ramble on about crap when nobody wants to hear it.StarStruckStrumpets said:
OT: Somewhat, I struggle to rate my own looks but I must be somewhat attractive as girls have been known to put a lot of effort into me (maybe girls who like specific traits, I don't know). Of course, I very much hate a lot of generic 'girly' traits and such I dissociate myself from most girls. Sometimes that make them want it more, sometimes they work out I'm not interested.
Either way works fine, I'm not terribly motivated to chase girls, but if they're keen I'm willing to give them some measure of attention.
We males are easily scared, collecting weapons and generally being aggressive/dominating (I can only assume that the type of person who collects weapons is somewhat controlling and direct) will scare a lot of guys off. As a rule, because dudes face so much rejection we won't put much effort into a girl we think isn't interested, so the best way to get guys interested in you is probably to be confident and approachable without being direct or intimidating. Sounds somewhat complex when I put it like that, but you'll be amazed how easily you can make guys like you once you get the hang of it (thus why men are so easily controlled by women).Captain Spiral said:
I've had people tell me I'm attractive, but I've never been able to ask anyone out more than a few times with successful results... I think my longest record for a relationship is 4 days...
of course where I live you're either successful and good looking, or broke and messy looking...
I'm the latter and there's way way too many of the former here for me to get anywhere with a woman.
of course where I live you're either successful and good looking, or broke and messy looking...
I'm the latter and there's way way too many of the former here for me to get anywhere with a woman.
Well if that's the criteria for the women, then they're evidently all shallow and materialistic. And who wants that sort of a girlfriend? I know I wouldn't want to be with somebody who only wanted to be with me because I was successful.DoomyMcDoom said:
Of course, it doesn't do much for your sex life, but there's always the commercial alternative.
I seem to always have at least 1 girl who likes me at any one time...
So... "Yes", is my answer I suppose.
So... "Yes", is my answer I suppose.
Well, I'm 19 now, and I stumbled across my first serious relationship just over a year ago, and it ended a couple of months later. I've never really been on the look-out for a relationship, or even to see if anyone's interested. Mostly because I don't care. That last one was an accident.
So I guess I would be dateable, if I wanted to be, at least until the dating started and they realised I'd rather be gaming than spending time with them.
True story:
ex-girlfriend (in a mood): "Just go play your game."
Me: *gone*
Didn't see her for an hour or more, and we were in my own house. Think I was playing Fable II at the time. ;D
So I guess I would be dateable, if I wanted to be, at least until the dating started and they realised I'd rather be gaming than spending time with them.
True story:
ex-girlfriend (in a mood): "Just go play your game."
Me: *gone*
Didn't see her for an hour or more, and we were in my own house. Think I was playing Fable II at the time. ;D
Don't see the problem with that. My wife pretty much does the same and we've been together since 2000. The secrets to a strong relationship are a) understanding what the other needs/wants, and b) being willing to compromise on the things in a). A woman who says "gaming is for children, don't do it anymore" isn't worth being with. One who says "Want a quickie?" and could refer equally to sex or gaming is priceless, and worth hanging ontoBMWaugh said:
