Are you a "nice guy"?
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Yeah, I am a nice guy. I have learned throughout the years though that just being nice doesn't cut it. You can be frank and clear, say things that are on your mind and people around you will appreciate it. If you never do those things, people won't take you seriously once you're really annoyed. Also, allowing yourself to get mad sometimes really helps, and doesn't do as much damage as you might think. With some people it's even necessary.
There was a time when I a nice guy, thank god I managed to man up and see the pusiness of my ways.
Being honest with ourselves is a good step on the road to becoming a better person ^^J03bot said:
Wouldn't you agree you're in a tiny minority though? I've certainly never seen it happening in rl.draconiansundae said:
I'm nice in a way of not being a assjack, but I'm blunt as shit with my thoughts on people and my jokes are harsh as hell.
Nice guys tend to actually be `Only nice cause they are trying to get into your pants but whining about being friend-zoned as soon as they realise that isnt happening` guys (we'll call them dickheads for short).
I'm not saying all nice guys are dickheads, but some definitely are.
And being nice is good, but being nice as in pretending you want to be just friends then trying to worm your way to boyfriend is just creeptastic. Be nice, but be upfront, let them know you like them.
I'm not saying all nice guys are dickheads, but some definitely are.
And being nice is good, but being nice as in pretending you want to be just friends then trying to worm your way to boyfriend is just creeptastic. Be nice, but be upfront, let them know you like them.
I'm good, but I'm not nice. explanation here [link href="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GoodIsNotNice"]Good is not Nice[/link]
Doing the right thing and having strong convictions doesn't mean you have to kiss everyone's ass. Because lets face it, the people who are offended most stuff are generally the kind of people who deserve to go around feeling offended all the time.
Also important link for current nice guys, read it and weep, and I mean that literally.
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/spineless.shtml
Doing the right thing and having strong convictions doesn't mean you have to kiss everyone's ass. Because lets face it, the people who are offended most stuff are generally the kind of people who deserve to go around feeling offended all the time.
Also important link for current nice guys, read it and weep, and I mean that literally.
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/spineless.shtml
I loved Felicia Day's character in "The Guild", does that count?faspxina said:
Honestly, not to be primitive and sexist, but guys generally view this as less of a problem regarding women. Not that women should be submissive in any way, but generally speaking, it's more socially acceptable in our society for a girl to not always stand up for herself.
Not saying it should be that way, but that's how things currently are.
Happened to me before, got the exact same thing "too nice a guy, just want to be friends" etc. But you know what, if that's not what they want then that's not what they want & later they might find out differently.Glass Joe the Champ said:
That's my outlook on it.
P.s. Yes, I do also hate it when they use this line though.
Whatever you do, do NOT listen to PUAs (Pick Up Artists), there schtic about beta and alpha males may seem like it applies to you, but do not listen to those douchebags.
Without wanting to sound harsh, maybe it isn't that girls don't like "nice-guys" but maybe it's something about you that isn't so "nice". I'm almost 100% sure that most girls don't actually like assholes, and I suspect most would want their boy/girlfriends to be nice.
Edit: or on the other side of the spectrum (or possibly equally as harsh) maybe the girl is just letting you down easy by saying you're too nice?
Without wanting to sound harsh, maybe it isn't that girls don't like "nice-guys" but maybe it's something about you that isn't so "nice". I'm almost 100% sure that most girls don't actually like assholes, and I suspect most would want their boy/girlfriends to be nice.
Edit: or on the other side of the spectrum (or possibly equally as harsh) maybe the girl is just letting you down easy by saying you're too nice?
I'm a nice guy, not a "nice guy" mind you but a guy who is nice. I have absolutely no problem telling people to fuck off and the like. But if they are my friends then I am nice to them. My suggestion, while being nice make it clear that you are interested in her, give her a daring smile or a wink or something.
Nope, I'm not a "nice guy". 
As for what women find attractive in men, well I don't find anything attractive in men.
Yay me for being super helpful!
As for what women find attractive in men, well I don't find anything attractive in men.
Yay me for being super helpful!
Pretty much me. Except I've finally got a girlfriend. (20 and about time)Glass Joe the Champ said:
That's cold!FrostyChick said:Nope, I'm not a "nice guy".
As for what women find attractive in men, well I don't find anything attractive in men.
Yay me for being super helpful!
Seconded.wootsman said:
I do nice things all the time but karma bites me in the ass every time.
I'm a nice guy when I am single. However when I am in a relationship I am kinda sarcastic (but only in the joking way)
It will never go away I'm afraid. I should probably make a thread about more than half of the guys I liked who went to slutty, more attractive girls rather than me but I have a lovely boyfriend now so I'm not butthurt. [sub]That sounded kinkier that it should e_e[/sub]If I can find love, anyone can.EverythingIncredible said:
I hope that 0.1% was um... what's the opposite of hyperbole? Whatever it is, I hope it was that.
There's nothing unattractive about nice guys, but just because you're a nice guy doesn't mean we're going to be attracted to you. There's a bit more to liking a guy than that, although it does help a lot.
We (read: me
) like a bit of backbone for a partner, a man that'd stand up to us and for us if they had to.It makes sense in my head!