Maybe, but not any time soon. I learned yesterday that after 20 years the only thing that has actually wanted to touch me, in that way, has been some 55 year old perverted guy that randomly started talking to me driving down the road.
Are you planning to be or are a parent?
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I have a daughter who will be 5 at the end of this month. My ex-wife has custody, so I wouldn't mind having one or two more...
Not really. I hate kids way too much to try and have them or think about having them in the future.
Eventually, but I'm not a big fan of babies but I don't older kids ie ones that can be taken to play football, so if I end up with daughters I'm pretty much screwed.
I want to have two or three. I believe I'd be a lovely mother.
The problem is finding someone to have children with. I wouldn't bring another person into the world if I knew their father was going to be a dropkick.
I'm only 18, but I can't wait to have children. I love the idea of having unconditional love, and being able to educate them, and teach them right from wrong, and encourage them to lead their life as best as they can.
/b'aww
The problem is finding someone to have children with. I wouldn't bring another person into the world if I knew their father was going to be a dropkick.
I'm only 18, but I can't wait to have children. I love the idea of having unconditional love, and being able to educate them, and teach them right from wrong, and encourage them to lead their life as best as they can.
/b'aww
The prospect of having a child is pretty much my worst nightmare.
Crushing responsibility of having to keep it alive, safe and happy, the financial drain it will inevitably result in, having to listen to crying, then whining, then general complaining nearly constantly for many, many years, dealing with various levels of messiness as it ages and so on...
Honestly, I do not see any incentive to have children, other than the usual biological urges. Maybe I'm just inherently selfish and self centred and so can't comprehend the rewards of sacrificing my freedom to live my life how I want for someone else.
The future generations are probably better off without my genetic influence in any case.
Crushing responsibility of having to keep it alive, safe and happy, the financial drain it will inevitably result in, having to listen to crying, then whining, then general complaining nearly constantly for many, many years, dealing with various levels of messiness as it ages and so on...
Honestly, I do not see any incentive to have children, other than the usual biological urges. Maybe I'm just inherently selfish and self centred and so can't comprehend the rewards of sacrificing my freedom to live my life how I want for someone else.
The future generations are probably better off without my genetic influence in any case.
I do, preferably two, but who knows. As for when, that's likely going to be another six or so years, once I've finished university and have worked at least a year.
Nope. I will never have a kid. I detest the little buggers.
Besides, having a child is quite the commitment. It's not a commitment that I'm willing to make, either. It's stressful, physically, emotionally AND financially draining, and way too much responsibility for someone like me. Sure, it may be rewarding in the end, and sure, I may feel extremely accomplished, but that's after at least 18 years of almost constant work and toil; I don't think anything could justify that for me.
If I HAD to have a kid, I'd only have one and it'd hopefully be a girl.
Besides, having a child is quite the commitment. It's not a commitment that I'm willing to make, either. It's stressful, physically, emotionally AND financially draining, and way too much responsibility for someone like me. Sure, it may be rewarding in the end, and sure, I may feel extremely accomplished, but that's after at least 18 years of almost constant work and toil; I don't think anything could justify that for me.
If I HAD to have a kid, I'd only have one and it'd hopefully be a girl.
Nope. It's expensive/difficult/complicated getting children as a gay male couple. Plus, I don't think I'd make a good father. Also, I have fairly shit genes. And finally, I'm probably going to be broke as hell in the long-term future, so I don't think I could adequately provide for my kids.
I will adopt an Asian kid and raise him to take over the world. If I'm lucky.
I have no intention of having kids for any other reason. However, I'm young and that might change.
I have no intention of having kids for any other reason. However, I'm young and that might change.