Are you planning to be or are a parent?

[game-lover]

I have two kids already and I'm 23.
4 year old girl and a 8 month year old baby boy.
Sure it's noisy and I missed out on alot of sleep but isn't that pretty much what you fuckers get from your computer games every evening?

I like the way people are quick to say 'NO NEVER'.. is your life so great at the moment then with whatever it is you are doing with it?
Dont be so quick to decide alright, it's not cool and riteous of anyone to think kids are icky or whatever, perhaps when you get older and realise your daily routine sucks and you have contributed nothing in life, perhaps then you might actually see something good in bringing a person you will love for the rest of your life into this world.
Just try and look beyond the noise and mess before needing to type Never a'right..

You know, it's not that cool either to act all righteous about wanting to be a parent or being a parent and practically lecturing others who don't wish to be.

Like I said before, my siblings have had kids because they screwed up with unprotected sex. And you know what? None of them were ready. I'm 22. I have a 25 year old brother with a 4 year old and a 30 year old sister with a 13 year old and a 4 year old. I've been saddled with babysitting them ever since I was in middle school because that's when it all started.

I'm not ready for the responsibility and I don't want it. Children change everything for you. Sometimes for the better sure. Sometimes not. Yay for you that you're down for it. But some of us aren't and that's how we like it.

By the way, my life is splendid the way it is right now. Don't have anyone to take care of or who depends on me. And games do tend to be different from babies 'cause you can just ignore a game when you're tired. Do that with a baby and there's consequences.

 

[The_ModeRazor]

Dunno. Would make a fucking terrible father. Too misogynist to get a lady to love me anyway.

 

[Infernai]

At some later point in my life, yeah i would like to have kids: as it stands right now, i know i would make a damned near terrible parent. Plus, i'm still "Getting my shit together" in my life so..yeah. I'll probably leave it till the future and until i am with someone i love enough to have a child with.

 

[Slash Dementia]

I want to be a parent eventually. Not anytime soon, though. Maybe a decade or so. Maybe a little less.

 

[Ham_authority95]

Heh, ask me again when I'm 35 and not eating my own spit for nourishment...

 

[googleback]

I do, but I have a lot of plans first. I'm thinking at least 30 before I think about it. ideally. but whatever will be will be.

 

[Brutal Peanut]

It's (physically) difficult for me to conceive. My chances of having a child naturally are slim.
Then again, I don't really like children anyway, and I probably wouldn't make a very good parent. I don't have the patience.

.....I'd just buy another dog.

 

[A Raging Emo]

I hope I never have children; I've experienced my (now former) girlfriend having an abortion, and it does still hurt. That has led me to not wanting any children at all, but I imagine if my partner wants children, and I am committed to her enough, then yes, I suppose I will,

 

[Pimppeter2]

I'm planning to have three adorable children with my sexy loving wife. 2 boys and 1 girl. It's going to be amazing.

 

[moretimethansense]

I'd really rather not, even if I liked chideren (which I don't) I'd have no clue how to be a father, I wouldn't know how to raise someone so as to not result in another me, I don't want to pass on my mistakes to the fiture generations, nor would I want to wish the kind of world we have on anyone.

 

[Polyg0n]

I have never liked small children and getting one would not just mean that I'd have to be with one all the time, but also a child would consume shitloads of money and it would be harder to travel around the world with one. So, no thanks. Although I still have a lot of time left to think about it so who knows, maybe some day I suddenly get the urge to become a dad.

 

[SomethingUnrelated]

I don't plan on having kids. I don't really want to have any.

 

[Myf]

The only thing that's stopping me from gettin a bun in the oven atm is getting a steady job, a decent home and a donor I guess... perhaps even a bf lol.

 

[Palademon]

I'd like children at some point. Hopefully they'll become like me and not a polar opposite due to rebelliousness.

But since I doubt even having any relationship til I'm 30 something, I'll probably spend some time having fun first.

Also, I'd have huge trouble picking names, and would anyone hate me for naming my daughter Saria? >.>

 

[Vrach]

22 atm, but eventually yeah. However, I'd wait until I'm married (prerequisite for which obviously being a healthy and stable relationship with someone I can see spending the rest of my life with), have financial stability, am not constantly overworked and have handled a good deal of things I want to take care of before having kids (travel and do random things that are generally a lot harder to pull off with a kid around). Basically, I'd want to make sure I'm ready to be a father and am able to provide the kid(s) (two would be the optimal number, preferably with a small age gap) with everything they need, both financially and emotionally.

 

[CaptainLoserPants]

kids are too expensive to have now. I only live once, why spend the next half of my life worrying whether or not I can give my kids everything they desire, I know I wouldn't settle for less. I just hope for plenty of nieces and nephews to spoil.

 

[Senor Smoke21]

I'm not big on kids and have a feeling I'd make a terrible parent, but those feelings may change.
So, for now I'm gonna go with no, no children for me.

 

[Kakujin]

I am planning on some day being a father, when I have the finances to handle it, and a girlfriend/wife to have them with of course...

 

[zelda2fanboy]

No kids. The world is ripe for an explosion of fascism and large scale war. I'll be lucky if I don't live to see it, let alone any potential offspring.