Ask a Geek Girl
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Um, how about these three questions?
1. Who do geek girls tend to want to date?
2. Who do geek girls tend to date for short periods of time?
3. Who do geek girls tend to date for long periods of time/marry?
I ask because the geek girls I have known have not tended to like dating in the geek community, and many have tried to branch out into the athletic or military circles.
1. Who do geek girls tend to want to date?
2. Who do geek girls tend to date for short periods of time?
3. Who do geek girls tend to date for long periods of time/marry?
I ask because the geek girls I have known have not tended to like dating in the geek community, and many have tried to branch out into the athletic or military circles.
Those I do not possess. Digital age. One brush with the internet and they'd show up at my doorstep years later with a blackmail number attached.Douk said:Of the... *ahem* [small][small]nude variety[/small][/small]LiteraryLitany said:Yes, I could.Douk said:
I don't really consider WoW players or casual gamers "real" gamers either but just because you haven't met a "real" gamer girl doesn't mean they aren't out there.kingcom said:
If you have met these people on the internet, have you tried going out with them in the real world?
Also, if I were you, I'd ask myself if a deep interest in gaming is something that's absolutely crucial in the person you're looking for.
At any rate, don't give up just because you haven't succeeded yet, so to speak.
I've never met anyone who was exactly like me so I can't comment, but yeah, I've heard people say that before.Puzzles said:
Ok im really going to get killed for this but i wanted to be random
A question i wanna ask a true GEEK girl is: Do you read up on sex before doing it or prefer to learn the hard way?
A question i wanna ask a true GEEK girl is: Do you read up on sex before doing it or prefer to learn the hard way?
JohnJacobJingle said:
1. We(at least I, and most I know) want to date Geek Boys who we think would also make good Boyfriends, or if you're my very, very american friend, the one with the most hypnotic accent.
2. The ones who don't figure out how to treat us like a girl without insulting us. Yes, we're geeks, but once we start dating you we don't expect to continue to be treated like one of the guys. That's just a little bit weird, if you think about it. Do you want your guy friends snogging you? And suddenly pretending you're the protagonist of a Video Game out to rescue the Princess doesn't win you any points either.
3. This one is mostly a compatibility and commitment thing. We want to fall in love with and marry the guy who wants to do the same with us, and a lot of geek boys fall a bit short of this dream simply because it sometimes seems to us like while they're oodles of fun to be around they're not thinking about the future. When a Geek Girl's ready to settle down and look at you and only you for the rest of her life she wants some assurance that you've made room for her in your life between all the mass of things Geeks have to do. I think more Geeks are willing to do that than it appears, but an overabundance of communications skills are not a staple of the Geek community and I've seen many a Geek couples fade because they forgot to connect as people and not just through their interests and a mutual fascination with each other's archetype.
We read. A lot. You know how hard we study for tests that we could fail and still get a B? Imagine how much harder we're going to study something we're seriously interested in.DemonicKitten said:
Both at once.almightywabbit said:I've been waiting so long for a thread like this.
My question is: Sex or Chocolate
... Are you a real girl, like in real life... Would you date me? Want to add my email? wax_on_night_elf@hotmail.com
I hung up my Geek Coat a few years back, got fit, travel the world investigating castles of Europe, and dating semi-intelligent yet interesting models, but always secretly wish for a geek girl. Could you impart any 'draw them into the fold' manuevers I might try on my model girls with a super-mild geek side to turn them into the perfect woman?LiteraryLitany said:
Perhaps i dont under you or your not understanding me but "go out with them in the real world?", i cant exactly get a plane trip to the other side of the world for the possibility they 'might' be interested in me. Not exactly an easy solution, though establishing a permanent residence in another part of the world in a few years is always an option.Sad Robot said:
You know i have already asked myself what i find to be crucial in a relationship. My conclusions, is that gaming is something i have a passion for (and since the culture i exist in seems to either find disgust or acceptance with gaming i figure that is something which would be a requirement). I have established little care for much else. I figure that in the grand scheme of existance, my part is so insignificantly minor that all that can be done is, to quote Americans, "the persuit of happyness".
Regardless of right or wrong these are the conclusions i have drawn. Hence gaming to be a necessary shared passion. There is always of course, that the possibly of someone which i am social compatible with dispite gaming being a non-issue. In my experience though people find my level of gaming (if not a plus) is a major turn-off or enough to push outright rejection. Casual gaming seems to be acceptable but not someone who shares it as a lifestyle choice, go figure.
While "giving up" is an absolute i cant see myself actually looking for someone with whom to share with but instead muddling my way through life like so many others.